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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He didn't like me telling him not to call when he is high on pot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I get upset when my bf calls me while he's high on pot. He doesnt behave normally, giggles all the time and i can't have a normal conversation with him. Yesterday he called me and was like that so i cut the conversation a little short. He said he was buzzed from having too many ... (271 words)

I asked her out and she said "school first, boys later".

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, You see, I've always ask this girl out on a date this past months but I keep getting rejection.She's a super cute girl , top of class and a bit tall. But Im taller. I obviously know that she has a crush on me. Whenever I report on class she always stares at me but ... (134 words)

I don't love him anymore ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 21 year old woman married with a 32yr old man And we were fine until I found out he's private part is decreasing and confronted him with the situation Then now he started lacking from being romantic he doesn't make me feel his touch anymore hez too rough and always... (143 words)

I worry he might leave me if I don't give him my money.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid My bf has some money problems and he asked me to pay few bills of his. I didn't have that much money myself at that time, hence i told him to wait till my next pay check. We are constantly arguing for the past few days. He never calls and if i do he always figh... (420 words)

My insecurities are pushing him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for more than a year now. We have a really good relationship. The first half was amazing. We told each other everything and I was genuinely happy, and being depressed that's saying something. However, as the relationship moved forward, he came to me ... (270 words)

I am SO DONE with my MOTHER!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont know what to do anymore! i am soooooo extremly annoyed my mom needs to stop she finds any EXCUSE to start nagging at me i honestly cant take it anymore! i dont wanna be at home i rather just runaway! if my bf has his hand over me i dont know how to behave if i wear hand ... (132 words)

Boyfriend's depressed moody stages are getting to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me and my boyfriend have been together eight years on and off. he goes through 'stages' with his depression and just gets into a moody phase i call it. it's difficult for me to see any light at the end of the tunnel at this tie. Recently, i've noticed... (148 words)

Can my relationship with my mom ever be good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thank you all for taking the time to read.....I dont know where else to turn and I feel torn I know there are 2 sides of this story but here is my point of view..... my parents divorced when i was very young.....we were living in my mom's mom's house and my dad m... (728 words)

I feel I am ruining the relationship with my moods.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There are so many things that feel "inclear" about in my relationship with my boyfriend. according to him we have "the perfect relationship". But for me there is a big red questionmark over my head and it feels like I have asked some of the questions I have like a billion t... (166 words)

Ex was a swinger and I ended things. was it because of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone just an update the ex partner of mine is well and truely gone, however , before I ended it he proceeded to tell me that he wanted me to go to his swinging club party and wanted me to catch him in the act !!! he told me he went with a man and a woman at this club... ... (197 words)

We've started talking again, but a relationship between us is impossible.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had feelings for a guy for nearly 4 years and i've tried to stop them. I leave space between us in an attempt to cease my feelings for him and i focus my attention on other things but my feelings always come flodding back. at one point, i barely spoke to for about half a ... (115 words)

The tall and short of it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Iam 6 foot 7 and My Girl Is 5foot1 When She Pulls Me Down To Smooch . She Loves To French Kiss But I Don't How Can I Get Her To Stop Kissing Me Like This ?... (40 words)

What's behind the lock out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a woman in her early 40s. Divorced 2 years and have dated a little but find dating difficult as I never did much before marrying my first husband of 20 years. I do have a boyfriend now. He asked me after only a few dates to see him exclusively. We live 30 min apart and see ... (201 words)

Should I ignore him? Or encourage him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! So basically I met a guy online and we talked. Im 16 and he said he was 18 and we just talked in a friendly way, no "sexting" or anything. Then we started to chat on Yahoo and I really Sartre to grow fond of him. He even said he loves me. I thought he was joking or crazy ... (185 words)

I want to stop taking my birth control pill and not tell my b/f

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20. I started dating a great guy a few months ago, and for the past month, all I've been thinking about is getting pregnant. He's 27, has a wonderful job, and would not walk out on me if I got pregnant. His father left when he was young and he wouldn't do that to his ... (85 words)

Why do I wake up in the night thinking about a guy I don't like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SO I recently started waking up in the middle of the night thinking about this guy I really dont like at all. Only problem is, Im horny everytime I do. I have no idea how to make this stop. Any ideas?... (41 words)

What could this bump inside my vagina be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, a couple of days ago I was touching myself down there, and on the edge of my outer lip I found a very small skin coloured, headless bump (not a blister). I tried squeezing it yesterday (it was very hard) and after a while a small bit of clear fluid came out along ... (319 words)

My boyfriend wont let me know who is on his friends list.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a red flag that my boyfriend who is perfect in most ways would not want to show me his friends list on blackberry messenger? I asked him why and he said he does not want to say why. I told him he could have girls on his list of which it would be fine with me as long ... (146 words)

What is the average amount of time do you spend with a partner before you feel comfortable having sex?

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3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - How long does the average couple (i'm 16 nearly 17 and he's 18) until they have sex? I know that it varies upon how comfortable you are with each other and like religious views and all that, but i just kinda want to know what the average amount of time it takes to be so ... (131 words)

My girlfriend says a condom is enough, I don't agree

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are wanting to have sex, is a condom safe enough on it's own. She doesn't want to go on the pill, she says a condom is safe enough but I am a little concerned.... (41 words)

I really fell for him. Should I move back to my usual state to help me get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am have spent time in one state and I live usually in another state There is a guy here where I had a psysical relationship with and it seems like he is not into me anymore I fell hard for him. when I came back last week for memorial day weekend I ended up seeing him e... (177 words)

Fiance broke things off saying there's a 75% chance he'll come back. Is that good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Danny and I made a year May 27 and have been engaged almost a year. Tuesday he said he wanted to marry me and was in love with me and wasn't changing his mind. The wedding date was June 16. Well Wednesday he woke up to a small argument between my mom and I about the wedding, ... (429 words)

Even though he is not interested in me any more I still cant eat or sleep for thinking about him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over a guy I had a psysical relationship with that seems like he is not interested in me anymore? I grew close to a guy long distance only seen him 3 times I got crazy feelings for him. Im sure he soes not feel the same way. It is eating me up so bad. I cannot tell ... (113 words)

I thought he was younger, but what if he is older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on older men. I am 29 years old and a few days ago I met a man who very kindly gave me his number for me to get in touch to go out, I was extrmely flattered I put his age at about 33 - 35 but have know discovered that he could be 41 - 42 due to his job (lt ... (189 words)

I don't like boyfriend's arrangements if he should die

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'm in my 50's, my husband passed away 10 years ago, since then I've dated but never found the right man. I recently began a relationship with a man a couple yrs older, I knew him for years. He made it clear that he would never marry but he would live with ... (168 words)

7 months and he wont call me his girlfriend =[

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I am having a problem right now and I would love for someone to help me. I met a guy in my city 7 months ago and we started communicating everyday and this has lasted 7 months. He lived 4 hours away before so meeting made it hard but recently he has moved only 1 hou... (346 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me, so I broke up with her, but now I want her back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend was cheating on me. Three months ago I saw my best friend kissing her, I fight him and her, but I forgiven her, but about one month ago, one friend of mine, her best friend(it's a girl), my brother saw her hanging out with a guy (not that friend again) and kissing ... (195 words)

I never made much of an effort with b/f's family and now I regret it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. And in those three years I have only met his mother twice, and his other family a few times and haven't spoke all that much to them. The reason I haven't made much of an effort is because I've always found his family really ... (194 words)

Now I'm the one heartbroken and chasing this guy when I didn't even want a serious relationship in the first place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a personals ad a while back just looking for someone to hang out with. I wasn't really looking for anything serious. I met a man an he seemed cool but he stressed to me over and over that he was looking for something serious eventually. I was willing to see what ... (471 words)

B/f has become mean and nasty. Does he want to end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Auntys, Please can you give your opinions? My boyfreind has not been affectionate of late and I only see him when he is tired. I recently moaned that he could of kissed me before goin to sleep and he started arguing calling me horrendous names when just a kiss woul... (149 words)

I miss my ex and I'm not sure anyone can measure up to her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with an married woman. It had been one and half years since we had never meet and talk. One day, I met another woman at work and she's really my type. Unfortunately, she is also married. I keep my self very strongly not to do the same mistake aga... (317 words)

My partner has a nylon fetish and a weird swimsuit fetish, which involved HIM wearing a woman's swimsuit and not me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32, my partner's 34, we've been together for 4 years now. Our sex life's been on the wane recently since my partner found a new fetish... nylon. He sits looking at pictures of it and people wearing it on the computer (doesn't matter who to him), masturbating over it, he e... (337 words)

I was depressed and b/f ran away and stopped calling me. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age - I was suffering with a bit of depression last year, i wanted to run away and hide from all my problems i had a home. I said this to me boyfriend, instead he ran away and stopped calling me. After six months I tried to contact him, but he is not answering his calls, text,... (117 words)

My girlfriend wanted to be with my best friend before me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started dating this amazing girl over the last 2 weeks. We really connect with one another. Anyway, I introduced her to my best friend yesterday. Straight away the girl i'm dating said to her 'I swear I know you, you look familiar' well, once she walked off my best fri... (135 words)

Husband took steroids, can we have a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - can anyone please give me any help or advice. My partner and I have been trying for a baby for over 2 years and have just been told he has a low sperm count, which has left us devistated. The fertilty doctor has said that hie sperm count has improved since his last sample and ... (153 words)

I need a plan before the prom. How can I prove to him that we could have a great relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I broke up with my boyfriend of two years about 6 months ago. We were friends for the first few months after, with a few ups and downs along the way, but over the past few months we have become best friends and are virtually inseparable. He is the nicest, ... (477 words)

Girlfriend of a year just isn't putting anything into the relationship anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, ive been going out with my girlfreind for just over a year and she no longer putting the effort it to the relationship. we dont talk anymore when i try to talk to her she just ignores me or wont engage in conversation, ive tried to tell her i dont like it the way it is... (109 words)

Marriage of 20 years--I'm tired of looking the other way..I WANT OUT!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age - Help... In 2 weeks I celebrate my 20th wedding anniversary. but after dealing with the fact that my "loving" husband cheated on me with a prostitute i want out. He also contacted old girl friend on computer and flirts all the time with other women. I'm a breast cancer ... (230 words)

I have romantic feelings in a dead end situation. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy who has two kids with his ex-girlfriend. He's told me that he's no longer with her, but they have remained friends; he also says he likes me and would like for us to be friends. The problem is that I have romantic feelings for him. I have realized this is a ... (112 words)

Would a FWB work for me? I only miss the physical part of a relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Right everyone seems to think I'm scared of being alone because I've had two serious relationships by the time in 17, but the thing is I love being single But when I am single I miss having someone to hug kiss and have sex with so do you think if I found the right person FWB... (94 words)

How do I re-establish things after I messed up and groped my best-friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a bestfriend, I have had feelings for her before and sometimes here and there. I felt as if it was some sort of thing telling me, "Oh she's the one" I had a friend tell me i might just be physically attracted to her which i am as well. Also had a friend tell me that... (299 words)

Don't most men like to touch their girlfriend's boobs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a guy to like touching his girlfriend's boobs? I mean, in most relationships, is it normal? Cause my girlfriend apparently don't think so, and she forbade me from touching them after awhile. I used to touch them like once a week, but no more now. Much help will ... (55 words)

Do I go for the FWB or go for the guy who isn't great at sex but wants a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering what I can do in this situation I met a man we became fwbs as he didn't want any commitment as he hadn't been single long when we met there is such a spark with us that the sex is amazing when we are together I met a man 7 weeks ago on a night out he ... (118 words)

Should we try the long distance thing? I don't want to lose him as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Okay so I dated this guy 3 years back but then I broke up with him. But we've remained friends ever since. Last year he went to the states for further studies. And I don't know how, we started talking a lot through Skype calls. He just came back for his semester break ... (148 words)

I'm only 14 and pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my b/f or family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, but 2 months ago we had sex. We did use a condom but I had many symptoms of being pregnant. I finally took a test 2 weeks ago and it was positive. I haven't told anybody except for my bestfriend, she wont judge me. I am really s... (130 words)

I have given my heart to a widower, do I wait patiently or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am deeply in love with a Widower with two children, I have two of my own. We have a fantastic relationship in two separate homes. He lost his wife four years ago to a terrible disease which his kids have 50% chance of developing. He says he couldn't marry me coz he ... (128 words)

Why doesn't b/f want to see friends or family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, whenever i am away from my partner or he is bored and wanting to do something when i cant etc i try to give him suggestions to maybe go see his family or hang out with a few mates. because i know he would like to especially when he doesnt see them much. but he ... (97 words)

How common is female ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Really interested in how common it is for women to ejaculate? I have never been a 'squirter' and I know guys definitely love it from posts I have seen online. Starting to feel now that I have a problem. I don't always orgasm with a guy either, have done with a few long term ... (96 words)

He ended things then told me 'I love you' for the first time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, So basically, I've been seeing this guy for some 6 months. It started out casual and then became serious (more for him than me) but I genuinely like(d) him. Basically, yesterday we were talking about how excited we were to see each other and he was just being into... (595 words)

I have a b/f, just wanted a friend but have I done something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a very loving relationship and have been for three months. Unfortunately, he went home for the summer while I stayed to do summer school. He and I talk everyday and I tell him I love him. Geez, I just finished writing him a love letter. I want to be with this ... (251 words)

FWB relationship I care about him a lot and don't want to end things but it's frustrating not knowing "what we are."

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at a bar last September, gave him my number, and the next day he sent me a text. It had been a fairly drunken night for me, and I couldn't really remember him, but he wanted me to come over and hook up, so I went for it. Pretty soon it turned into a FWB ... (674 words)

Why do I always get sick after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I fall sick everytime immediatly after sex.what is the cause please.can anyone be of help... (15 words)

How to discuss rehab with an addict

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf...ex bf....idk what we are exactly but i know he is a drug addict and has told me he wanted help and had a personal cry for help but now with some pending legal problems he says he wants to use till he has to potentially go away for awhile, i believe rehab would help him ... (139 words)

How to help me deal while helping depressed baby daddy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i were together over 3 years and we have a 2 year old son, my bf is an addict and he has wanted help but decided to wait bc of pending legal issues, he has anxiety and also just lost his dad so now depression. recently he has drifted away from me we had been arguing a ... (209 words)

Would it be safe to ask for a Fwb relationship with the neighbor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I always have sexual urges to have sex with my neighbor. We're both 15, she's very cute and has a creamy complexion. We're classmates in elementary. And I know that she has a major crush on me. She flirts with me all the time but in the past years I've always ignored h... (91 words)

What do birth control pills do? Effects and side effects?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the effects and side effects of birth control pills? My friend takes them for birth control, my sister takes them to regulate her period, and my cousin takes them to help her acne. So the only thing I know about them is that they lessen your period and clear up your ... (65 words)

Dealing With Your Boyfriend Moving Away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone.. I Am Looking For Help With Me and ' My Boyfriend.. We've Been Together For 9 Right About 10 Months Now and ' He Moved Last Thursday To Oklahoma.. An I Don't Know What It Is But When He Calls Me I Always End Up Drowning In My Own Tears.. and ' I Have Those ... (107 words)

Does she love me? Am I just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl through a mutual friend of mine! I got in contact with her the day we met. She became attached to me, a lot.. But later i discovered she had a bf but was going through a rough relationship. His bf started to hav problems frm me becoz he didnt like my talkin to ... (108 words)

I don't understand why our love is fading

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i've tried talking, writing a letter, and being understanding to my boyfriend to try and find out why our love is slowly fading... Still no response... What do i do... I love him but i think he has fell out of love... What now. What comes next??please help..... (50 words)

There are times when I don't even know who my b/f is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4341 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Were do i start? I was in s 20 year relationship with kids father. and he left me for someone else. which hurt me but a relief for me cause he was a cheating drunk. During all that i meet this someone which is 16 years younger then i and also my eldest sons friend. l know first ... (188 words)

Is there a spark of something from his side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - seriously does this 'love mystery' gives me an indication that he loves me or something else? or is just like i am putting much pressure on thinking... it started with my school days, he was in my school and we both were in same grade but different classrooms, another thing co... (681 words)

Could a long distance relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well here it goes, I've been chatting online with some girl for a few months now and believe i'm in love, here is how it all happened, and all i'm wondering is.. Is it possible? can it happen? does she really love me? It all started online in some random chat box (xat chat) t... (377 words)

He's so uncomfortable with sex and I"m unsure what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

3 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I have been seeing this guy now for almost 2 months now. I'll give you a little background about myself, I am a widow about 4 years now and have three older kids. I started dating after a year after my husbands death and dated some jerks and finally met this guy who is ... (558 words)

Why is everything conditional in this marriage to her? Am I way too forgiving?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

3 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Firstly, a big thankyou to the agony aunts who helped me through some past difficult times :) I can bring some good news. I'm still married (I'll get to that in a bit) and my work situation has improved so much. I went through a rocky period of working for a bad employer, bu... (1541 words)