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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think of him and want to talk to him, but don't want to ruin our friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been best friends with this boy for 8 years and last year he told me he liked me, we spoke about it and i said i wouldnt go out with him because i see him as a friend only now i've started to think about him a lot more than i should, and like whenever i'm upset or ... (96 words)

Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and recently had a baby. When we met we had instant chemistry and fell in love. We have spent every weekend with each other from the time we met. I live in LA and he lives in San Francisco and we would rotate the travel trips. My ... (646 words)

How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I accidently kicked my husband in the groin (he was standing behind me) as I was explaining to my older son that it was unacceptable to constantly thump my younger son. My husband suddenly ran and lunged at me with his thick MBT shoes on and kicked me near the groin area as ... (171 words)

I think my boyfriend likes my best mate... HELP!!! xx

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) Right, I think my boyfriend has a thing for my best mate! This might be a bit long winded, but a bit of background information about me. I was cheated on by my first love, and one other boyfriend.. and it has resulted in me being paranoid. Now, I am not obsessed... (408 words)

Mission impossible? How to make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Any ideas on how to make friends ? Im really shy and after hi I don't know what to say and I really wanna change that I miss having friends. Help me please any ideas ?? ... (36 words)

Why does he lie about his drinking when he's out of town?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F) age - Ive have been married 25 years my husband used to drink quite a bit he stopped, only now when he goes out of town to work , he sits a round and drinks till 12 and one in the morning. he calls me speech is slurred , knowing he is drinking, I ask and he comes very defensiv... (121 words)

Is she just to shy to message me? Even though she left 3 hickeys on my neck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at a party monday night. We made out and touched each other and I was alil drunk but she told me about a skin disease she has. And I asked for her number then She told me she could only receive calls on her phone and not make them. But then she said add me on facebo... (211 words)

Am I stuck in the FRIENDS ZONE forever with this guy??? Help me get out!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Can you tell me if a girl can ever get out of the Friends Zone with a guy? Is it possible? Is it impossible? Can a guy start to see a woman differently other than just a friend in time? Will it never happen? Is there ANY hope for me? I really like him!!! And ... (110 words)

I can't see myself with anyone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - there was this guy i fell in love with in high school our senior year he would ditch his friends to sit next me and he always would be flirting with me my friends thought he liked me well he moved and went to college and i went to college in our hometown. i cant move on its ... (83 words)

I always thought of her as a sister, but now I feel something more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a friend, he is my best friend from last 3 years and he has a younger sister, she is now 18 years old and my age is 20. she always call me brother (bhai/bhaiya) because i am indian. i also don't have any problem she is just like my sister but nowadays (from 3-4days) i ... (137 words)

How do I get enough confidence to have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7, almost 8 months and they have been amazing. He is such a great guy and is so good to me. The only problem is that we haven't had sex yet. He has been very patient with me, and it isn't that I don't want to have sex, it is that I am very ... (307 words)

3 times he cheated! Will I ever trust a man again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on and off with the same guy for seven years now. We started when I was 15, he was 17. The first time we dated lasted 2.5 years. Then he cheated on me. Twice in one week. With my then best friend. I hated them both for a little while (four months) and decided (like an ... (428 words)

Well basically my girl left me because she feels I'm buying her too much and I need advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 43 and I'm dating a 30 year old lady from Ireland for about 8 month's now . Things got off to a brilliant start we met at a gathering we had sort of similar friends , were introduced and got talking . I thought she one of the most preetiest girls i'd ever seen beca... (583 words)

Do guys just carry on like normal when their woman is pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need help to figure out if my hopes of how my bf should act now that I'm pregnant are fair and realistic or not? I'm 19 weeks pregnant now, and we've been together 21 months. He had been wanting us to start a family for several months, and tbh was more excited and... (361 words)

Women don't like me because I am short!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everybody, if u have read about my problems in the past, u wil realise that i hav a major self esteem issue. i dnt loke myself because of my height. it is sad to adaadmit but yea it is true and i need help. well i am about 5 tall and have never been sucessful with w... (259 words)

Boyfriend asked me to go w/him to a strip club for his b-day, but I don't want to go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf told me last night he wants to go to the strip club for he's birthday never in my life I would think he would tell me this straight flat out because he knows I'm A jealous freak! So I'm confuse he tells me I want to go to the strip club on my birthday will you go with me ... (212 words)

Why does he aways pee before we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so i been with my boyfriend for a while now and we started to get closer and by that i mean that we have started to have sex. sex just gets better and better everytime but there is one small thing. When we start to play around with eachother, and we are about to start, he has ... (101 words)

My ex is already in a new relationship a few weeks after we broke up! We were together 4.5 years! Rebound? What is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together 4.5 years, he loved me so much and even wanted to marry me. I broke up with him at uni due to lies on his part and the fact we were always arguing. He always said he couldn't live without me, would never let me go, etc. But he didn't fight for me because he ... (693 words)

Is there any way I can change the way she feels about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and this girl started dating about September and we had real good compatibility. I loved her and she loved me but recently she broke up with me said to me that she doesn't feel the same way about me that she used to. One reasons she said why she broke up with me was that i ... (85 words)

How to regain our normal sex life after two pregnancies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife is not interested in sex relation after having two daughters whereas we had both feel more and enjoy in sex relation in earlier. how to regain sex as earlier? please suggest me. skumar... (37 words)

I feel like there is no such thing as real friendship!

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14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I am currently re-evaluating the meaning of friendship and feel lost and would love to hear about your opinions, experiences and suggestions. I’d describe myself as rather introverted, a bit socially awkward but quite a loner. I’ve lived in 3 different countr... (689 words)

My boyfriend is too clingy!! Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months or so now. During the school year he was fine until summer break was right around the corner. He became really clingy texting all the time and gushing about how much he loved and cared about me. Its not that I don't like that ... (148 words)

Is she playing games with this blowing hot and cold?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of nearly a year seems to blow hot and cold...its really difficult to cope with and I don't know what to do. We have been absolutely great for a few weeks, really close, very affectionate and making plans for the future - we're getting married in Oct this year. Last ... (223 words)

Have you ever said "I'll love you forever" and then changed your mind?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi this is a question going out to all you ladies out there Just wondering if you have ever said ' i love you forever' or ' i want to be with you forever ' or ' i will always be your girl ' to someone you have been in love with? andddd wait for it, BUT LATER ON IN LIFE chang... (151 words)

How to find a balance in a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was texting this guy for a couple of months and then we had our first date. Our second date involved amazing sex and since then he has been in touch alot. He was going a bit distant though so I asked him what was going on. He said he does like me and I'm very attractive fun ... (267 words)

I can't understand why my family has started to treat me with disrespect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a wife and mother of four young adults. Recently I can't help noticing the total disrespect with which my children and even husband speak to me at times. I don't feel im a doormat by any means nor am I a harsh person. I simply can't understand why there has been such shi... (119 words)

If she likes me so much why the hell didn't she go for me when she had the chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dearcupid community I need your help. I started hanging out with these girls After a while of hanging out I started getting feelings for this one girl, and she knew I like her, the catch is she has a boyfriend, so I couldn't get with her because I guess she loved her ... (330 words)

My boyfriend snaps at me for stuff other people do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been dating my boyfriend for about 4months now and he snaps at me alot. like one time i was messing with him and he snapped at me than apologized. he said sorry but his friend was getting on his nerves. i forgave him but he did it again. it makes me upset like he just ... (64 words)

How can I stop feeling betrayed when there was no betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - frustrated hyprocrite I have been divorced for 8 years. A year ago we got back together and are living together. During the time we were divorced I had 4 girlfriends and she also had relationships. The other day she told me about some of her boyfriends. After he... (283 words)

Is he trying to crawl back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im so sorry this is so long! id appreciate anyone who takes the time to read through it and advise :) me and my ex broke up around 3 weeks ago due to external reasons- work hours and other commitments etc. it was his decision to break up as we had an argument in which i said ... (837 words)

Ex back w his ex. Do I interfere or take revenge ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My now ex-boyfriend broke my heart. Twice. And now I'm feeling the need for revenge. Basically we dated a year and a half total - there was a break in between when I caught him in an online affair. But I gave him a second chance only to have him now act shady again and afte... (200 words)

What makes girls like bastards?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - im a smart and honest guy about to be a sophmore:) But it seems like girls go after the asshole dumbass guys? im an average looking guy i wear collared shirts everyday because i like to have class. what makes girls like bastards?... (43 words)

I need to learn from my huge mistake and talk to girls better. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - well back in the 8th grade there was this wonderful girl i liked. she and i were going to be the perfect couple. long story short she found out that i liked her and i found out she liked me. so on the last day of school i wimped out and havent talked to her or seen her since ... (104 words)

Is he shy to ask me out or are we just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that I like, think he likes me back. He kind of asked me out a few times but then seemed to bottle it and change the question to 'So, when are you next out?' This kept on happening and I got tired of it and basically said to him that he was confusing me and we s... (276 words)

How do I get past caring for my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my ex has been split for 7 n half months. I left him due tks his drinking problems basically i just had enough of the lies and bein let down all time. We have a daughter together and i have started dating. Thing is i still care about my ex, and in my head i think i ... (131 words)

How do I overcome my heartbreak? I slept with my ex. He said he loved me.Talked babies. Yet next day he 'forgot' to turn up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4332 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with my ex, he said he loved me, discussed marriage babies etc. Yet this morning we had plans. However he did not arrive, then later on in the day I said I feel like an idiot and he sent me too. (modnote: did the OP mean, "and he said me too" ?? ) How can he be like ... (82 words)

Did I overreact, are we just not compatible? He's often late or changes plans

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is the thing, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and have this pet peeve with him. I am not sure where my relationship stands with him at this point I became very angry and probably ruined our relationship. My bf has no concept of time, and I mean not a clue on ... (942 words)

Boyfriend signed up on dating sites

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my boyfriend is signed up for a few dating site and signed up recently. I know from our past he's just gonna say it was for point for some game he's playing but am I the only one that thinks is disrespectful and sneaky? This is really hurting my feelings ... (61 words)

How do you safely have sex twice in a row while using condoms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This might be a little TMI, but that's why I'm here rather than asking a friend. So my partner and I rely on condoms and we frequently like to go twice in a row. I get REALLY nervous trying to put on the fresh condom on the second time. There's still some semen on his penis ... (116 words)

Can a Catholic date a Muslim?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

14 June 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi i was like this girl at school but im a catholic and she's muslim is it ok if i ask her out and she said yes ? ... (29 words)

What do European guys think about pubic hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

14 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 23 years old and I don't like having hair down there so I usually remove all of it via a hair removal cream if I am going to be with a guy. However, I am seeing a guy from Spain and I heard that they don't mind pubic hair, in face some like it. Should I leave some ... (72 words)