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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm wondering if I should be mad at my boyfriend for returning my sister's call first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I don't know if I should be mad at my boyfriend but he did something I didn't like. Ok so I called my boyfriend, he didn't pick up his phone, I wasn't mad though but my sister called him ( she's 14), he didn't pick up either. But later when he finally called b... (128 words)

How do I approach this guy to keep it strictly FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so...I recently started a "friends with benefits" relationship with a suuuuuper sexy guy. Atleast I think we are friends with benefits. When we first met we both agreed that no one was interested in a relationship and we would just be friends. Well...After h... (425 words)

Is settling for someone who is lovely but is not "the one" ever right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, the kind of man who would be perfect for me simply does not exist, for a lot of reasons. im sure of this. however i am currently with a man who loves me dearly and is wonderful. i just wonder if settling for someone who is lovely but not the one is ever right?... (67 words)

I feel ready to have children but don't have anyone in my life yet. I'm not sure I am happy with the timeline I see for myself having children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year teacher, single, own place to live, own car, good friends and supportive family. I am desperate to have a baby, and no it isn't to fill a void or anything like that. It's the one thing that I dream of most and my biggest goal in life is to have children (my own ... (175 words)

Will my inheritance and traveling and shopping bother him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 25. We dated for a year when I was 19 and now we're back together again. I've had a few boyfriends but I've always had a soft spot for him. I'm so happy we're together again. However the thing that worries me is money. I've recently inherited a lot of ... (199 words)

Am I truly going off him, or prefer him as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for just over a year now. Things are going well but recently I don't want to meet up with him as often as we used to and I have tightened up on the physical stuff, i.e. kissing him less often. On the other hand, I am still fond of his company and ... (156 words)

Have I just been missing out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I haven't posted here in a while really just because I forgot my password but I am back and I really wanted to share something. I don't really need advice just a discussion if other girls have similar experiences to what I have just had. So I have started seeing this ... (292 words)

Can you be more than in love with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you be more than in love with someone? for example"I'm more than in love with him/her?" also what are signs that you are just in lust and think your in love?... (36 words)

I know he is wrong for me and I know I am wrong for him, but in our own messed up way, we care about each other a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I need your help as I've arrived at, what I have today been told, is a really f**ked up conclusion. To summarise, I was in a physically and emotionally relationship for 10 years. Two children, two years and an extremely bitter separation later, I'm finally in a good ... (386 words)

I feel like he isn't in to me as much as he says he is, and only keeps me around for convenience. Should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my boyfriend has given his ex's flowers (even when they were broken up) and he took one of his ex's to a fancy fine dining restaurant, 2 hours away. In the over 2 years that we've been dating, he's never done anything like that for me. He surprised me with a ... (187 words)

Is this her disorder or she wants out or she needs time to get well?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my best frriend and i have known each other for eight months we are same sex females me black and her white we started a relationship and it has lasted for six weeks everything has been great no fusing no arguing we cuddle and enjoy each other w had sex one time it was our ... (165 words)

I really want to set my boundaries, and let him know his actions HAVE consequences

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend lied to me about his ex wife - said he hadn't seen her when he's been texting her all along. Based on this lie I left him a month ago and he cut it off with her. Now we're back together and he's going out of state to a family event and she will be there. I wasn't ... (167 words)

Am I gay for wanting my friend to say "I love you" too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, This is not exactly a sex problem, but it really confuses me. I'm 19 years old, a girl, and so is my friend, female too, and we have gone in the same class since kindengarten My friend and I used to be so close, and used to have long and good conversations. I r... (198 words)

Is he using me? I saw a text from him to her saying he was 'domesticated and miserable'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known a guy for a few years. We started off as just an every now and again fling. I knew he was coming around just to get what he wanted. He stopped talking to me completely for a few months because he thought I was talking about him. He is in his 30's. About February ... (561 words)

Any ideas for getting ahead without selling my soul?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I need help! I love my job but it seems like I get passed over for promotions and projects. There is one other woman that works with me and everyone seems to love her. She is very lazy and does the bare minimum but still gets lots of praise I even help her out with ... (140 words)

Uncertain of ex's intentions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Uncertain of ex s intentions? I broke up with the father of my 2 kids in jan, we'd had a strained relationship for many yrs, due to the fact that he is immature and a bad boy. Although at 42 he would binge drink with mates at wk ends take drugs etc, I grow tried of his ... (237 words)

After 10 years of no contact, my son's dad got in touch and then hasn't responded again. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

- my son's dad as got intouch after 10years..... well my sons dad as made contact over Facebook after 10 years of being absent. i agreed to meet and talk about things. He cancled the meet the night before i thanked him for letting me know and not just not turning up. m... (184 words)

I have developed feelings of love for her, but she is dating my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl who is 20 very beautiful working in the same factory with me since she was employed in the factory we havn't being in a communicatïng terms. Though she thus communicate with other guys and even flirt with them but no so romantic with them. A time came in the ... (497 words)

Have you ever squirted or made anyone squirt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if any of you out there have, 'squirted' during sex, or made anyone squirt? ive never had an orgasam, with anyone ive ever been with. I do enjoy sex and do have a good sexlife with my boyfriend, but ive dont know anyone who ever has. Also anyone else ... (80 words)

He says he's 'done it all before' but I want to spice up our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im in my 20s with a boyfriend of a few years and i am looking for ideas to spice up our sex life. We get on brilliantly and sex is great but sometimes just so regimented and in the dark. It makes me feel a bit like a robot just doing it for the sake of it,we are always too t... (137 words)

Is this the right mindset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not too into relationships. In fact, I don't even think I mind if I never have another relationship again. After my last relationship with a girl I dated for 3 years, I'm not too eager to jump back into one. I find myself not attracted to the vast majority of girls that I ... (589 words)

Has anyone had luck dating friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Have any of you had luck dating friends? I have this friend. She's beautiful and intelligent, we have some common interests. Of course I'm afraid to ask her out on a date cuz I'm scared of rejection and affecting our friendship but just wondering if anyone has tried asking out ... (71 words)

Should I tell my friend what I really think about her wedding dress?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - A good friend of mine is marrying my cousin...I have known her for 29 years and I am in the wedding party which is taking place in Cuba. I recently just returned from a destination wedding myself so I have a good idea as to what works and what does not. We went wedding... (269 words)

I'm torn between my head- boyfriend, job, house and my heart- family,friends and moments I will never have again..and I don't know what to choose

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 20 been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now.i moved from a small town in scotland to a big city to be with him. Everythings been great we get on well and been through so much together. We both have okay jobs here and an okay house. However last week we w... (336 words)

I feel ignored. I don't want to seem too pushy or stalker-ish by calling or asking him whats wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i do like this guy i had met at a friends birthday about 6 months back. We got talking through introduction by one of my close friends. He's from a different city and we both work so i'm busy at times when he's not and vice versa. However we still tried making time for each ... (390 words)

Do I write him off to the island of lost men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some relationship advice. I have spoken to the friends, who tell me to write him off to the island of lost men! I am too. But why are even the nice guys like this. (and we are late 20's/early 30's not even teens) I met a guy, 2 weeks back and we spent night ki... (424 words)

I feel like she will always lie to me. Will I ever be able to trust her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a woman, fell in love with her and she became pregnant. in the very beggining i revealed to her that i had an active warrant out for my arrest and would eventually be doing some time...when she became pregnant i agreed once the baby was born i would turn my self in and ... (758 words)

Is he telling the truth or cheating on me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 year-old and my boyfriend is just a year older than me. We've been going steady with our relationship of one and a half year until a very strange issue cropped up a week before. My boyfriend has all of a sudden started behaving very abnormally, he's not his usual se... (421 words)

I'm hopelessly in love with my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I know it's an old problem, but I'm completely, helplessly in love with my freind. But the problem is I know she doesn't feel the same well why would she, she's perfect in every way possible, at least in my eyes, we have pretty much EVERYTHING in common. I've never loved ... (106 words)

Should I make him happy and leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello again, need help. my hubby is to friendly w/girls on facebook he has them sending him pics and flirting plus hes friends w/ ALL his ex`s. he tells me that me and the kids are 1 of the reasons why he wants to start drinking. i ask him fif he wants a devores he just wont ... (116 words)

What if this "girl" made a video of me and I'm all over the net?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I think I did something very stupid.... I met this girl in a chatroom and she invited me for a webcamchat on MSN messenger. She said she was bisexual (I am too). When she turned on her cam she was in her underwear. She asked me to take my clothes off. I only took... (175 words)

I need help getting out of my shell

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - ok so i need help getting out of my own shell. my problem is pretty simple, i've mostly lost my ability to approach girls that im interested in. i used to have no problem going after what i wanted but my last relationship ended very badly and since then it hasnt been the same. ... (101 words)

My wife drags her mother along with us on vacation.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old male. My wife of 20 years is 41. My problem is that my wife invites my mother-in-law along on almost every trip or vacation. Sometimes she is unable to go (thank the heavens for that!) but I'd like it if it could just be the two of us more often. Not o... (482 words)

I don't get it! He acts as though he is interested but says he just wants to be friends. Am I missing something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy I work with. He's 21, I'm 29. We have hung out a couple times (like 4 times either by ourselves and with other people). And I kind of like him a bit. And I have gotten the feeling he likes me too. So I texted him the other day and tried to bring up the ... (324 words)

I rejected my best friend when he told me that he liked me and now that he's dating someone else, I'm jealous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Some years ago I was best friends with this really nice guy. One day he kissed me and told me he wanted to be more than just best friends, but I told him that I liked him too much as a friend and didn't wanted to lose our friendship, he was obviously sad with my answer. He ... (230 words)

I don't want to let these insecurities and trust issues ruin my days anymore, and I need help finding a way to cope

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 June 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old, and I'm in a relationship that sort of popped up unexpectedly. I moved a few months back and began dating my roommate. We really hit it off, the first night we met I knew something great was about to happen, and after a few years of near hell, I finally felt ... (259 words)

How can I overcome this persistent fear that my young cousins will one day suffer pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Today, i was holding my cousin. He's only 6 months old, and the cutest, most smilely baby ever. And all i could think of was how terrified i was for him. I'm so scared he'll get bullied or something, and may become suicidal. I don't want him to ever feel pain. I wish i could ... (179 words)

Tired of waiting for love to return

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - husband left me for a 24 year old with a 3 year old. they are now living together and are engaged. our divorce is not final, and i found out he has not payed my attourney yet. they seem to be getting along pretty good. but everyone tells me it wont last. ive see him once a ... (122 words)

I want to take a break to work on things! Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been with partner for 6 now. We have lived to tether for a little more than 5. About 2 years ago she was unfaithful, when I found out was devastated, hurt, and angry. I couldn't understand why she did it. Well I forgave her, and went back to her within about 3 ... (577 words)

How can I make our first time sleeping together, special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating since we were 16. From the moment we got together she told me she had planned on being a virgin until she got married. Honestly in the beginning I figured if we dated long enough I would change her mind. But the longer our relationship went ... (374 words)

My gf is attached to her phone, and it really bothers me. What gives?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm really struggling here and need some advice been with my gf 5 years but I have started noticing all she does is bbm text facebook Twitter and I mean from when I get home from work till midnight so I assume she does this all day, by no means do I think she's cheating ... (137 words)

My mom hates my boyfriend, and I'm not sure how to deal with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months now. After dating for one month, we planned a weekend trip. However it didn't work out because my mom was furious when she found out we were going on a trip alone. For that reason she still hates him to this day even though ... (285 words)

My boyfriend and I broke up. Were we just not meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up because we had too. We didn't want it to , we wished we could stay together longer. The factors that play In it is that 1. He is moving 2. My parents do not want me to date 3. No matter what happened when we werent dating we still cared fo... (84 words)