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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I deal with him being in a relationship? I can't imagine not being friends with him but this is so hard!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So I used to be seeing this boy, let's call him Matt, and we were together for a while, it started off well and we were really happy but we went through a rough patch in our relationship and he ended up braking up with me, telling me that we don't see much of each other ... (371 words)

I never doubted being in love until my mom said that I just cared deeply for my friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I were doing great, and going on over 8 months. However, my parents found out about us and now we have to be even more careful about hiding it. When my mom and I were talking about it, she said she doubted that I was 'in love' and instead just felt a very ... (126 words)

How can I find out where this will lead or if I stand a chance with him? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My dilemma is this. I have recently met a guy who is everything I could dream of or want in a man, he is caring, compassionate, level headed, hard working, good looking and intelligent. Although we are ony friends he is extremely supportive of me already and we both help each ... (295 words)

So the not perfect guy with spark or the perfect guy with a little less spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend. And I love him. I really do, but I just can't help but seeing his flaws all the time. He is not really smart, he's a little immature and sometimes I just can;t help but being irritated by his behavior. But he's really sweet and he makes me happy most of... (128 words)

Why is he being so complimentary?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - the last two days ive worked with a guy i have worked with for over two years. it was so weird because i have really enjoyed working with him and this is whats weird, hes highly complimentary of me makes me feel really good about myself as i have little confidence and is fun to ... (74 words)

Why would my ex care anything about what I think of her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my ex were together for 5 years. First 2 years were great, we talked about the future, made plans, saw each other as often as we could. Only one problem, none of her friends and family knew we where seeing each other because she didnt want to tell anyone at first because ... (503 words)

What is wrong with this girl seriously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is she behaving this way? Did I do anything wrong? So when I was 15 my cousin was 18 and her and I were very closed. There was this guy that liked me but cause I was so young and wasn't into that kind of stuff I introduced my cousin to him and they started... (316 words)

It seems like she spends all her time on social media

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I'm really struggling here and need some advice been with my gf 5 years but I have started noticing all she does is bbm text facebook Twitter and I mean from when I get home from work till midnight so I assume she does this all day, by no means do I think she's cheating ... (137 words)

My first female sex partner turns out to be one of my tutors! Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and make this as short as possible. I'm 20 and I am coming to the end of my first year in college (I left a few years in between school as I had a job at the time). Well I was out one night in town after splitting up with my boyfriend (The summer before I started ... (321 words)

Should I leave him? The drugs and drama are really bothering me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to be a long one sorry, So me and my boyfriend first got together nearly 2 years ago. The relationship was a bit of a joke nothing too serious at first I cheated on him when I was incredibly drunk, it was just a kiss, however later on around the same time he had s... (732 words)

LDR broke up..does she just need space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my long distance girlfriend in Chicago broke up with me a few weeks back over her self esteem issues. Well when we talked 2 weeks ago she said for now we are on a break. She is open to us getting back together once im moved up there in Chicago. She said its possible. She ... (639 words)

Is it ok to tell him to tell her mother that if he breaks it off she will kill herself so she can get some help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf has this female friend that they hardly see each other because of distant but they text twice a week at least. She doesn't have any other friends and she got out of an abusive relationship with his help. She refused to meet me and when I finally did meet her. She was ... (266 words)

What can I do to stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well my question may sound very stupid however please bare with me so ive been in a relationship for one year and two months and im happy, couldnt ask for more , it is a long distance relationship so its a little hard. Now me and my ex dated for eight months , he was m... (293 words)

Will he ever realize his mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So this guy used to be interested in me. Now he's not anymore. He goes from relationship to relationship where the girls either cheat on him with his friends, or leave him because they aren't that into him. Or they break up for some other dumb reason. We never dated but I did ... (122 words)

How to move forward? How can I tell if she just misses our friendship or us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Right I'm in a pickle I can't get out of , when I was 17 I met a girl 1 year younger, who was amazing,she was kind, funny, didn't drink nor smoke, and well I loved everything about her!! And she loved me in an obessive way.. I always felt she could do better she did about me.. ... (301 words)

He's told me he's open to a relationship down the road, but there is the problem that he's married. Input is needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy through a sort of "friend of a friend" thing and initially didn't give him much of a second thought, as he was married with kids and almost 10 years older than I am (I'm 20, he's 29). We talked on and off for a few months, but it was mostly just friendly. Every ... (301 words)

Am I fool for believing him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know from mostly men lol if my boyfriend could be telling me the truth. we have been dating for over a year he broke up with me in nov for 2 wks because according to him he thought maybe there was no spark and maybe he wasnt feeling it for me. He came back and ... (452 words)

He doesn't have much sex drive with me, but won't delete his porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Would anyone else think this is strange, my boyfriend doesn't have that much of a sexual apetite for me but yet when I tried to get him to delete his porn he went mad. We did attempt to have sex and did sexual things everytime we met (me suggesting it mostly) Would this worry ... (66 words)

With a mobile is there a chance that your number may be set to private without you realising?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether people would know the answer to this one or not, but with a mobile is there a chance that your number may be set to private without you realising? Because this number has called me a few times and i reckon it's the guy who i gave my number to last week... ... (115 words)

Should I give up on dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as though I'm burnt out and tired of dating. In the past year, I've met four guys, the first was an uncaring narcissist already involved with someone (he did not tell me about it for a long time, then I thought I could wait for him until he broke up, then I distanced ... (420 words)

We want to get married, but I'm afraid the process wont be easy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great guy..he belongs to india i mean ... (133 words)

Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy for 5 months, and we are in a committed relationship. I have always believed in him and trusted him, But, my trust in him is disintegrating. He asked me a question through text, whether I have thought about breaking up with me, I said no. ... (244 words)

Should I just forget about this guy, and move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age - I have been with this guy for 7 years, i bought a house for us to live in which went great for the first 3 years, then his parents bought him a house which he eventually moved into his kids never speak to me , he spends all holidays with his family but says he loves me and ... (156 words)

Does he actually want to see me again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, im nearly 17 and single. The other night i went to a festival with my friend and we met her boyfriend there and one of his friends he had brought along. After about an hour of being with them, his friend told him that he liked me. Later on we were all dancing then he ... (165 words)

Is he just insecure, or is there a side to him I don't know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - HI all, this is my first time posting on a relationship site, so please bear with me if I am too unclear or longwinded. I have been dating someone for 2.5 years now, and for the most part, he is amazing and treats me really well. He is 3 years younger than me, so sometimes... (842 words)

My boyfriend is very religious, and it's starting to make me uncomfortable. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, and although he was always religious, this past month he's gotten a little out of hand. He's 28 and I'm 25, and I guess you could say we're both looking for something serious. I grew up in a Catholic household, so I'm used to ... (159 words)

What are the UK laws involving sex at this age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - ok i recently turned 16 and i dont know the laws on sex. i just want to know one thing i like this girl who is 15 now i dont want to go out with her because im scared about certain laws that i think are in place.( pedofilia i definatly dont want to do that.) i live in the uk. ... (66 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant, and her parents refuse to let us see each other! Can they do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I could really use some advice on my current situation with my girl friend. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and half and we get along great. Her parents liked me for the most part. Her dad and I had a few issues with her being a few minutes late past curfew b... (375 words)

Boyfriend is stressed and acting like he wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 10 months. 4 have been long distance because he got a real good job out of state and moved, and I stayed where I am for now. The last week and a half he has been real distant. He is trying to buy a house and I guess it isn't going good... (258 words)

Does a cyber relationship has a possibility to become true in the real world?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in an online relationship with a US Army in the middle east who is married. I don't really want to get myself into this kind of relationship that makes me the third party, and on the internet for that matter, but i just can't help myself, he is very irresistible ... (229 words)

I might get dirty on the phone but I am not ready for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind has been away for some time now,we do comunicate ,chat and get naughty on the phone(dirty).I am a virgin and he has made it clear that when he comes back his going to f*** me,now mi feel am not ready for sex,hw do i make undertand inspite of my cool response to ... (61 words)

Why do his comments about my friend give me a pang of jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, not sure if i,m reading too much into my boyfriends comments and could do with other peoples opinions. We have been with each other for 2 years very happy and in love. He is always complimenting me and telling me he loves me. A few times now, in a joking manner he has ... (136 words)

Is this considered cheating? Help!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Need help. Is this considered cheating? My fiance and I are 3 months away from the BIG day. I'm 29 and he's 38. Never married and no kids. We're having a coed bechalor/bechalorette party in Las Vegas. We're best friends so we figured it would be fun to celebra... (740 words)

I say it's cheating and he says it isn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4044 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

My parents have banned me from sleeping with my boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, my parents found out we was sleeping in the same bed and have now banned me from staying there, i wanted to know if they are aloud to do that?... (42 words)

I can't seem to get her to reach orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and am have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months. I have had sex before but I was my girlfriend's first. The relationship is really strong and we are both very giving people. She trusts me completely and says she is completely relaxed, but here's my problem. ... (153 words)

What is he getting to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, there is this guy I can't take off my mind! He is not the outgoing type, he's the type that talks when talked to. He seems very friendly n nice. I'm the type who likes to make friends even thought im shy, so i approached him and he kind of gave me a cold look and i was ... (454 words)

I saw noticed my girl check out another guy, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I saw noticed my girl check out another guy, should i be worried? Ok lets put it into perspective, yes iv checked out other girls, but not infront of her, difference is i dont 'want' or 'feel' the need to be with these other girls, i just look cuz of human beuty (i know i ... (200 words)

He has never taken me out and now he wants to when we have no chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - DC, short problem today: Last nte I admitted to my flirt of 4 yrs that I like him..he replied he always knew..but he also said he has a girlfriend he loves, and will marry someday. I said fine....well sorry, I was wrong abt us. And just before I logged off chat, he asked me to ... (124 words)

I have to go to College but we want a baby together. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been best friends since middle school. I am 17 and about to start my senior year of high school. We want a baby but I have to go to college. What do I do?!?!?!... (39 words)

I'm unemployed so he wants to delay marriage. Does he have a point or should I get out before my heart's broken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have talked about marriage but he recently started using the fact that I don't have a job to not to get engaged or even move in I understand his worry about money but it seems money is more important than our relationship. At times it doesn't help that mem... (134 words)

This girl seems crazy to me. How do I tell my friend he is making a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i tell my friend he is making a mistake. He met this girl and within i guess three weeks she is telling him she is in love and that god sent him to her. I know prior to this she was with three of his friends i just think she is crazy and he is moving too fast, might i ... (78 words)

Do you think he'll eventually snap out of it and want a normal relationship we once had back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I have had a rough two weeks. Basically long story short, he texted me 2 weeks ago saying he needed a break. After that text and asking him why; the contact had stopped. We didn't speak to each other until we finally met up a week later. We w... (417 words)

She won't tell me to my face that she made a mistake breaking up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Six months ago, I dated this girl for a month. She broke up because she said she still had feelings for previous ex whom she dated off and on for over a year. She said she doesn't think she will ever go back to him because he's a jerk. Now six months later, she says she regrets ... (101 words)

The love of my life used to be an escort... can I forgive her?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

19 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met the girl of my dreams... or so I thought. A little background... She is a senior in college and I'm a few years older than she is with a solid career. She is beautiful, intelligent, exciting, fun... she was the perfect woman. I never thought that I girl like that w... (678 words)

Is his low sex drive because he's no longer attracted to me or because I put off sex sometimes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

19 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have issues with my boyfriend of 7 months. When we first met he was meant to be a one night stand and the sex was amazing. I'd never had any one like him before. He'd took me out on a date that evening, and he made me laugh and I liked him, but I was more interested in having ... (299 words)