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If you got together after a break up, how did you achieve this?

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Question - (31 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi

I've recently split up with my boyfriend...and I'm just wondering if any people have gone through a break up and got back together at a later point.

If so how did you achieve this.

Thanks

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (1 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou could find more resources if you Google ,'How to get the ex back.'

Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems .You need to have peace talks to settle those differences .Communication is the best tool .

reference

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Your-Ex-Back---The-Simple-Guide&id=1322495

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A female reader, betrayed03 United States +, writes (1 April 2010):

Hi! 8 years ago my boyfriend broke up with me for whatever reasons. I wanted to get back with him, we talked and finally he told me it was never gonna happen between us again. At the same time I had a male friend who was my crying shoulder the entire time. I saw him only as my friend who is there for me in time of need. After my boyfriend and ex at that time told me that. I stopped calling him and seeing him. This friend of mine (whom we'll call Louie) was there for me and watched me cry my eyes out. We went out as a group of friends alot and it helped me get my mind of off my ex (whom is still my boyfriend right now). Well Louie days later confessed to me that he liked me and wanted to know if I could give him a chance. I know I should have waited to go out with someone else but I decided to give him a chance. Well my ex found out and he started calling me and begging me to take him back. I was playing hard to get and also I didnt want to hurt Louie. So I ended things with Louie. Talked things over with my ex and after weeks of convincing me we got back together and have been together since. This year we will celebrate our 11th year anniversary. Hope this helps! I'm not telling you to go get a boyfriend but I guess what helped was that he didn't see me vulnerable and I kept moving on with my life.

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (1 April 2010):

Stayc63088 agony auntI have done this with a few of my boyfriends. Most of the time we end up getting back together within a week. But one time I dated a guy for like 8 months, we broke up for 2 months and he randomly texted me. We met up and got right back into the relationship. Didn't last obviously because the same problems just came back. And it just didn't quite feel the same as it had before because of all the pain from the breakup. I didn't do anything specifically to achieve this though. Just a random text from him led to getting back together. I always just tell myself if it is meant to be it will be. If you are meant to be with this guy he will come back into your life somehow. Sorry if I didn't help you much. You probably wanted to hear of a specific way to get back an ex.

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