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Confused about my sexuality.

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Question - (31 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, you maybe as confused as I am after reading this! . . .

I've never wanted a 'boyfriend' or drooled over males and its never bothered me. . . It's Bothered my friends more,coz they couldn't understand WHY I didn't fancy anyone. Few yrs ago tho I was asked if I fancied women instead. .i'd never thought about it. . . Yeah, ok, I noticed how pretty some were and how I prefered to be around female teachers in school etc. . But shrugged it off. Now i'm older and still never bothered with a partner.. Find myself still liking the look of other females and have a painful crush on a playful lesbian female boss.. Who i've mentioned to ' I don't know what I want' in one of our conversations. I REALLY don't know what to do! :( or where to turn from here. Help!

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A female reader, lonesum dove United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

lonesum dove agony auntAt anytime you have to wonder if you are attractive to the same sex, well let me put it to you like this... welcome to the family lol, I think right now you are struggling with your sexuality, go get urself a girlfriend and be happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010):

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Thanks for the replies guys. :)

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A female reader, WiseAngela23 United States +, writes (1 April 2010):

I have noticed that their a special bond with my friends that are girls that is WAY stronger than the bond I have with guys. Girls are easier to talk to, you can talk to them about anything, and you can trust them. I say, go to your nearest mall, by yourself, and see if more guys or girls appeal to you.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (1 April 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think that there is just that special connection with females that you just can't find with males. You should try dating a female and that should really help you work things out in your mind.

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