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What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

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Question - (31 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *angsta204069 writes:

If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them?

How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010):

first of all, shes a person too so just take a deep BREATH and approach her. Just dont think too hard on it just do it. For the breast thing, idk what to say other than just show her your not just into her for looks, that u like her for who she is, complement her on her smarts or personality.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010):

lol I remember this feeling man. A girl is so HOT you tremble in her presence. relax, she's human, like you. The nervousness is still kinda cute at that age and some women like the innocence. However, Id suggest you find a way to contact her directly, dont be emailing or seidning anonymous flowers. That'll creep her out. Be straight with her and tell her you like her and would like to treat her like a real woman.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010):

It made me laugh when you said you cant breathe around "them". That made my morning. i like boobs as much as the next guy but trust me you will be able to calm down some with time and experience. Like Gabrielle said she is just a normal real person like the rest of us.

If you like her for "more than her breasts" then do something to show her that. Show you have something in common. Make her remember you for something besides a boob obsessed teenager the next time you interact with her. Don't try too hard just take it easy.

And please, don't stare her chest. Make eye contact. Keep your eyes up and level the whole time even when you are not looking right at her face.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (1 September 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntYou'll have to be more specific you know. Mostly we'd need to know:

a) Are these 2 questions related to the same girl?

b) Has she indicated that she thinks you only like her breasts?

c) Why would she say this - have you done anything to indicate that you only like her breasts?

As for your breathing problems, you'll definitely get nowhere if you're that nervous. Calm down. She's a person, not Darth Vader.

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A female reader, Sincerely Kir United States +, writes (1 September 2010):

Sincerely Kir agony auntOkay, well first is there a reason she feels that u only like her for that reason?

u need to back track and think if she caught u staring at her breast or if u were commenting on them to ur friends and they may have told her. if not, then maybe she just thinks u do because alot of other guys are that way. u need to put in an effort to talk to her and see her. and u need to keep tellng her that u really like her for Her, not just her breasts. and the more she sees that u are working for her , the more she will notice that u really do care.

now, the breathing part, thats just ur feelings getting the best of u. its only life, u have to take a step at a time. dont push urself into it if u are not ready. u need to aproach her wen the time is rite and u are confident.

but take it easy and Breath .

goodluck, (:

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