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writes:I was married for a short time 27 years ago. We got divorced,he disappeared, paid no child suppport and I did not look for him, it was done. Three years later I remarried, my husband adopted my daughter and things have been wonderful for years. Then my ex started harrassing us about a year ago. Not only just him, his dad and his sister. They were trying to find out where my daughter was. My daughter (I felt so bad)went to an attorney drafted a statement that she wanted nothing to do with any of them and they all got a copy. Of course with the internet they found out all they needed to know about me, they have my SSN, his sister even wrote to my daughter that they had all my personal information. I have no idea where this man is right now, but he was in New Hampshire. He let me know he knew where my youngest daughter went to school etc..etc.. really upset me and my husband. Went to my attorney and he said there was nothing I could do since he was out of state. I contacted the police in NH and asked them to please tell this family to back off. They did and he didn't. No laws have been broken. Both my girls have had to lock down their credit, their face book accounts and email accounts, so have my husband and I.I have had to change all my credit cards, I kept getting charges on my credit cards that I did not make, the credit card companies would not give me any information about who was doing this. He signed me up for all kinds of awful internet mail and sites. Just the other day (my birthday), I got two pairs of 5x jeans in the mail I did not order (I am a jr size 7)and it was charged on one of my old credit cards, I returned the merchandise (at my own expense). His sister works for Jet Blue (flight attendent) and has told my daughter she is watching her sister. They still have not broke any laws, they are just harrassing us any way they can. His father keeps leaving messages that on my answering machine demanding to speak to his granddaughter. My father tried calling his father but he won't answer those calls. This whole thing has emotionally drained all of us and he is punishing my husband and children for no reason. I don't understand why he wants to stress out my family! All these years no word from him and then all of a sudden I can't get away from his emotional abuse. I don't know how to stop this man, I don't have the $$$$ to find out where he is exactly is and I don't have the money for an out of state attorney either. How can I get this to stop? Law enforcement says they can do nothing, our attorney says he can do nothing unless he is in my state.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 September 2010):
What FA said. If it can be proved he is using your credit card, then that's fraud.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (31 August 2010):
 Record every thing. Keep copies of all communications. And, get an attorney in New Hampshire. You think he hasn't broken any laws but credit card fraud is a crime. It will stop when it costs him something.
FA
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