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writes: am I being too insecure? Like at restaurants and stuff--my b/f is easily able to talk to people he doesn't know. This doesn't happen all the time but for example the other night we went to eat with his friend and the place was somewhat busy--we were going to get seated and the host--who was cute- seemed really busy, grabbed the menus but didn't take the fork sets--my b/f just grabbed them and she turned realizing she forgot them and he said he has it..and then as they are walking over towards me and my b/f's friend he says but we will have to split the tip, and she responds saying oh i dont get a tip and he said something else..like really? bastards!..and im just thinking--is this flirting? not really flirting but like a step lower--and shouldn't he just be saying thanks and that's it..it kind of bothered me but i wasn't sure if its necessary to say something. AM i being way too insecure and just let this roll off my back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): my boyfriend is the same way but it doesnt bother me, he chose to date me and me only, as did your boyfreind for you, just remember that, maybe slip him a niice pasionate kiss right before the waitress comes over to the table, she should be the jealouse one not you.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 He's only being charming, I would forget about it. He's only being pleasant and courteous to the waitress and your insecurities are telling you he's flirting with her. Next time you're out, YOU try and say something to the waiter/waitress, maybe tell them to give your compliments to the chef as the meal was lovely. If you go to the ladies then start up a conversation with someone there. You'll find it gets easier the more you do it but I'd definitely say you have nothing to worry about here and I certainly wouldn't start an argument with him about it, he'll only see it as you being "needy" and jealous.
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