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writes: Dear cupidme and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up because about 2 weeks ago he disappeared and i waited for him to call all day and he never did until the next day and he could not give me a reason so i got mad at him and he hung up on me so I called back and he never called me back i waited and waited for him to call so after a week i called and he said that he has moved on but then he said will talk about things later and he never called since I have wrote him twice and sent him some e-mails and I called him but he i still never hear from him but he has been passing by my house, what does that mean, does it mean that he still cares? If he cares how come he never calls? Do you think I over reacted when he didn't call me for a whole day I been thinking maybe I should of just let it go but I just get so tired of him doing it to me. Do you think he has someone else. Do you think I should keep trying to get him back or just leave him alone it so hard I just want him please help I need some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): I would not sweat this guy so much. Apparently, the arguement seem petty and he is acting very petting. Place a time limit of yourself. Waitng for him to call you. If he does not contact you after a week, move on. It seems that he is using this situation as an out. Maybe to "test the waters" with other women and if things don't go right, he'll come running back. After dating for 5 years and if you meant alot to him, he would have already squashed this incident.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 After 5 years together the least he owes you is an explanation for his "moving on." Only he knows the reason why though. It could be that he has found someone else and was with her on the day he 'disappeared'. It may be he's been bored and felt the relationship was stagnating and used he argument as a way of getting out. We can presume many things but only HE knows the real reason.
Give him a couple of weeks, if you don't hear from him then call him but withold your number, that way you'll catch him unawares and he won't know it's you calling. Keep calm when you call him and ask to meet him for a coffee to sort it all out.
Eve
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reader, love-him +, writes (1 June 2007):
 hia babe, the most important words that you have written are 'he has moved on' that to me means that he maybe has found someone else, and/or just wants a break from the relationship.. i suspect he maybe playing a guilt trip on you, by ignoring you, for all you knew something could have been seriously wrong with him the day he didnt call.. so you were right to do wat you did.. if he doesnt come round and make up with you, hes not worth the bother chick, you deserve better x x x mail me if you want to talk x x x
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