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writes:me and my boyfriend used to date a couple of years back and we have just recently got back together and he has changed too much, it was fine for the first two weeks of us getting together but now its all changed he always wants sex and i dont enjoy having it with him, he tells me he loves me and keeps telling me how happy he is we are back together but i dont feel the same and i dont know how to tell him i dont want to be with him because he has changed too much. if this sounds confusing im sorry just i am confused about everything also.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (29 May 2007):
 The reasons we have relationships with others is to see if we're compatible with them. As the years pass, people change, he's changed and you're not attracted to him the same as you used to be. Just be honest with him, tell him that you like and respect him as a friend but you just don't feel that "connection" any more and think it's best if you both move on. You're not only being unfair to him prolonging this, you're being unfair to yourself too so tell him tactfully. He'll get over it with time.
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reader, ASK me! +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Hun, weve all bin through that at least some time in our life.But really he's gunna get more hurt, and it will be more difficult if you keep building it up. Catch im when your alone because lets face it nobody likes a scene plus you'll hurt his pride if others are thereSit him down and tell him the reasons why you guys shouldnt b together tell him your better at being friends with him. Tell him whats in your heart!Good luk frm Askme! xxx
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Dont prolong this get it over with as soon as.
Tell him you think you are both in different places and that you dont want to be with him anymore.
be as nice as you can about it.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Tell him outright. Do it in a nice way. The longer you wait, the more hurt he is going to be.
DV1
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