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writes:hey guys, my boyfriend and i have been going out a year he works away a lot. recently we decided to go on holiday we argued a lot on holiday as we real we have grown apart a bit and have decided to give it a go still and try harder but i noticed he didnt really care to much bout me he was very distant and i feel hes slipping away i also worry hes cheeting on me while hes away as while we were on holiday he told me i had put on weight while he'd been away... hes in the army so hes very fit and very active all the time i just dont no what to do to make my realtionship better! ive joined the gym and have wokred out alot since the holiday but i still worried hes gonna stay as he dont seem that interested any more?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Do you want my opinion? He's lost interest in you! The spark has gone and he's only seeing the negative things about you and not the positive. He's been away from you too long and the spark has gone out. Don't mope around though, continue to go to the gym and tell him it's over (before he tells you).
There are plenty more fish in the sea! ;o)
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Sometimes relationships reach their natural expiry date and that is the end of it. You cannot control how other people think or feel so there is no point worrying about something that you may not be able to fix. Perhaps it is time to think about moving on with your life.
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