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She sends texts to her male workmate every day. Does it sound like I have a right to be discouraged and want to leave her? She dismisses my fears.

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Question - (8 February 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My wife and i have been married 5 years and for the past 2 years, she has been texting her workmate and calling him on a daily.

We also live very close to her workplace and he takes her and picks her up.

Ive spoken to my wife about my dislike of this and she says they just friends but im sure its more than that because she deletes the text messages and on her log it show they text 5-6 times a day.

Any advice please im really thinking of leaving i cant stand to look at her anymore

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A female reader, Jeanette82 United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2013):

Jeanette82 agony auntYou need to stop allowing her to fob you off. Let her know how serious you are. I am sorry but it does appear she/they are making a fool of you and her actions would make most people think she is up to no good.

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A male reader, Jimmy.L. United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2013):

I think both of them are making a mockery of you. I would find it very difficult not to confront him and demand he shows me the texts that she keeps deleting out of her phone. You are allowing them both to make a fool of you.

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A female reader, thinkb4 Papua New Guinea +, writes (9 February 2013):

She is not behaving like a married woman should be. I think if you was doing the same as her, she would strongly object.

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A male reader, bronzed adonis United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2013):

bronzed adonis agony auntAt the moment you dont know if anything is going on or not. I cannot say if anything is going on or not, but she is behaving like there is.

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A female reader, holar United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2013):

holar agony auntIf there is nothing, why d she keep deleting d messages and what is a married woman doing texting a male Co-worker everyday? u need to wake up and see what is under your nose, something is hiding here, ur wife owns u an explaination.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2013):

it sounds very shady to me. trust your instinct.

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