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Is my boyfriend suggesting a threesome because I am cheap and easy?

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Question - (21 February 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2013)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *oungmistress writes:

We are together for more that 3yrs we fall in love with each other its just happen im not sexy not literally his type of girl we have great sex even sometimes rough and he wants 3some.he admit he never ask his past girlfriend about 3some.he never try to ask them.i wonder why only with me?how can you know if your boyfriend thinks your are cheap and easy?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2013):

No, he isn't asking you for a threesome because he thinks you're cheap and easy. He's asking because he wants your permission to have sex with another woman. And he thinks that by having you present will make it okay. Tell him no, and I would also recommend looking for a new boyfriend. You deserve to be with someone who thinks you're sexy, and also someone who isn't interested in having sex with other women.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHe wants a threesome... he asked you.. that does not mean he sees you as cheap and easy... but maybe he senses that you are desperate to keep him and will do anything to please him...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2013):

I love the Philippines, but the one problem over there is the male domination of sexuality. Just make sure that you remain true to yourself... don't do something you KNOW you are going to regret. Filipino women are some of the greatest and most compassionate people in the world. The sad thing is they are often used. Please don't let that happen to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2013):

I don't think he'll think you are cheap and easy, but maybe you let him get his way more than his previous girlfriends have? If you are quite laid back personality wise then he's just chancing it and hoping you will say yes. If you don't want to, tell him no! PS - you say you are not sexy, but he wouldn't be having sex with you unless he was attracted to you would he? Don't be so hard on yourself!

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