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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 586 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...

I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I like a friend as more than a friend, he has told me he feels the same way but currently has a girlfriend. I think i should talk to him about it but don't want to affect his relationship. Can anyone give me some advice?...

Do i tell him how i feel, wait it out, or just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Well, I have a friend that i really have strong feeling for and who I would like to be more than just friends with. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend. Now, as his friend he tells me that she is not the one for him but never made an attempt ...

Should I forget them or concentrate on being a friend to them both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I'm like these two guys who both like me too. They have both asked me out but I don't know who I like more. It's weird because they are both not my usual type but I have fallen for them. I know that if I go out with one I don't want to lose the ...

He talks about this one girl he used to date...a lot. Now she's moving to our town! Should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this man for almost 9 months but we have known eachother for ten years as we used to be neighbors when we were both married, we have 6 kids between us. we get along great we laugh and have a great time together I love him very ...

I'm starting to feel closer to my guy's friend. Do I leave him alone or continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 years and we kinda fell apart, and me and his best friend have been spending lots of time together. Should I leave his friend alone or continue?...

We had a developing friendship but he went back to his ex. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I am friends with this guy, we got introduced and hit it off straightaway, so much in common, have a blast together,and extremely attracted to each other. But were just friends, started to text more and more, but then he gets back together with his ...

She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels ...

Confused over two guys! One I have feelings with-one I can have a future with..which one is best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 589 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - ok so I'm dating this guy who was dating someone else at the time he figured out I liked him. About a month later he leaves his girlfriend and on the same day asks me out... saying he didn't think he would have asked so soon but... anyway he hugs ...

He said he really liked me so why is he sitting on the fence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Im so torn at what to do...An old flame and i have begun talking and him and his g.f have recently broke up...When he was with her he was tellin me he always wanted me and he loves me n such. Now hes saying hes too scared to get involved with me cuz ...

I love him more than my boyfriend but he's married but only for a visa, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - i have been going out with a guy for about a year and a half now, suddenly an old friend of mine and i get back in contact but it turns out he is married and we fell in love with each other knowing we always had a special feeling from before.he told ...

How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - How do you pick yourself up after the rejection of being left for another woman when you actually havent done anything wrong but because the other woman is having his baby? Why do i feel like it was all my fault and i should have been a better ...

Cheating on my bulimic depressed wife! I want to move on but I miss my children! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 590 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I am stuck. I have a bulimic, depressed wife of 13 years and 4 kids under 12. I have wanted to leave her badly as I have become so frustrated over the years, but the kids and her need me. Now I have slipped into another relationship with a ...

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

My friend is getting too flirty with my girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 591 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - okay i had had a problem with a friend that i felt was too flirty with my girl. my girl said she told her to stop and that she would.now n the past i had really really insecurities... my girl helped me to grow out of them. but now after this problem ...

My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, ...

The other woman has his baby and wants my husband back! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - me and my husband have been together for a lil over a year and he has a baby by another woman and this other woman hates me and wants him back and during christmas she brought him over to see him but the whole time they were talking together and he ...

His gf dumped him and now--he rarely talks to me! What's going on here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Im going crazy!! Plz any advice is soo welcome here...brutial honesty sure beats tellin me what i want to hear!! Ok...me and my ex started chattin few weeks ago and he said all the right stuff (i luv u n miss u..never luv another more then i luv u) ...

Really mad at my flirty friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hello, So this is the thing, my girlfiend and i have been together almost three years now, we have our ups and downs like all relationships we grow together, become stronger in ways. I was really insecure at one point it was killing our relation...

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month ...

We love each other but he needs to put a stop to the wedding to this other gal. How do we do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - have been in relationship with a gentleman but he is in a relationshp with a woman and he intended to marry her and gone to see his parent and because of me he want to stop the relationship and marriage between them, please we want to know how to ...

I am experiencing negative emotions about my married guy. Will this destroy what we have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend. He's married man and i love him very much. The problem is i understand there's nothing he could do that would be like dating a normal single guy. but i cannot live without him and i believe he loves me too. We have been togeth...

I'm his first serious relationship, he wants to be with me but wants to date others for a bit!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating this male who I am very close with and we are both serious. Im 22 and he is 20. He sees me as his soul mate and we are both in love and he cares for me. We have good communication and I trust him. One day he told me that he wants ...

He doesn't want to call us bf-gf anymore after over 2 years! How could he fall out of love with me soooo fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 1/2 years. In the beginning it was great, we always used to spend time together. He did little romantic things for me, we would talk to each other on the phone hours and hours. We then moved in ...

I suspect he's living with his family. How do I get him to confess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship with this guy I met on the internet. He has a wife and three kids. He says he loves me and that we are soulmates!He has made so many promises and sent me some really nice things. I have never been this in love! He says he ...

How could I get attracted to someone else when I love my boyfriend?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 583 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I'VE been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and recently i'm finding i'm getting attracted to a co-worker.How is that possible since i love my boyfriend? could you love two guys at the same time....

My best guy friend got a bit tipsy and told me he loved me but...he's got a gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 598 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Right. There's a boy with a girlfriend. I'm in love with him. He's my best friend. He always asks me to go places with him on our own and when I say " Won't your girlfriend hate the idea of this?" and his reply will always be " It doesn't matt...

She says she is 'confused' and we are arguing all the time!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I am having really bad problems and am looking for some help. I have been with my civil partner for 6 years and we had a civil partnership last August. The past five months have not been pleasant as my partner renewed a 'friendship' with someone ...

I feel bad he has a gf, but if he was happy with her...would he be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 589 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) - Hi I recently started a new job and i met this chef, he is amazing and after i was there about a week we kissed and it was great, the next day i found out he ad a girlfriend. so the next day i met him to confront him but i ended up kissing him agai...

Together 10 years, broke up, continue having sex, but now I've met someone else and I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - I was involved with someone for over ten years and over the years that we were together we broke up numerous times. It seemed that everytime I asked where are relationship was going he would find a million and one reasons why he did not feel ...

Am I overreacting because my BF spends so much time joking with other girls online and ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and we are very much in love. The thing is, lately I have been becoming increasingly jealous of the girls that he talks to. He talks to one girl all of the time online and I know that he ...

Married 7 years, 1 child but someone else has captured my heart - do I stay for our child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

17 May 2007 (M) - For the ladies..... You are married for 6 or 7 years. You have one child, 9 years old, which is adopted. Your husband is a good man. Your marriage is best described as living with a roomate or friend because of the lack of intimacy. You meet som...

His ex gf wants him back and he let me go until he can decide what he wants to do! Do I have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - ive been seeing a guy for a few weeks and things were going great, until of course his last girlfriend came along and told him she wants to give them another go! he has told me he is confused about how he feels and until he decides what he wants its ...

I'm in a very sticky situation. I just recently decided to tell my friends that I was bisexual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 601 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation. I just recently decided to tell my friends that I was bisexual. I always had a feeling that I was, but I didn't want to tell them till I was completely sure. The first person I told was my very good guy friend- ...

Should I tell his girlfriend that he's sending me all these cute messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 601 days ago

16 May 2007 (F) - There's a guy... he's taken. I love him. I can't get him off my mind. He texts me loads outta the blue just to say " hey how are you?" and the other night he asked me to call him for a chat... He doesn't know I love him... I try to back...

I can't help but feel that there was someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 603 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - Hi, i have recently moved back in with my husband after he decided after 7 months of marriage he did not want to be committed and was not sure what he wanted. After giving him this time he wanted me back, he said he is sure he will not do this ...

She got pregnant with another man, we're about to sell the house, I don't know if I can forgive her. Should I get back together with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

15 May 2007 (M) - I have lived with my partner for twelve years but the last 18 months the relationship has deteriorated and we decided to split.We put the house up for sale but continued to live under the same roof in separate bedrooms.My partner has now hit me with ...

Should I tell his wife he cheated on her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - I was seeing a married man for 15 months. He is 46, 13 yrs my senior. Married 24 yrs, with 4 kids and 2 grandkids. I should say he was also my boss and sunday school teacher.After months of pushing him away he held on strong. Everyone knew except ...

How do I choose between my two boyfriends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - i love 2 guys as much as the other,i know i cant carry on like this but i don't want to be on my own either,i know it isn't fair on any ov them or myself. they both know about each other and i feel suffocated as they both want 2 be with me, i love ...

She told me she had fallen for me, I needed time to think it through, but now she is seeing someone else! I am so hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 604 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - ok a friend told me she had fallen for me but i wasnt sure how i felt so i said i needed time to sort out my feelings because i wasnt sure. She said she would always like me and would wait. However, ive just found out that shes seeing someone else. ...

I am offering her a life of happiness but she still stays tied to her abusive ex because of their kid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

14 May 2007 (M) - Hi. I know this woman wants me and she's said that I'm the best man she's ever met. Yet, she has a child from a previous relationship and her ex has started making more demands of her time, expecting her to take the kid to and from him for visits. ...

I am in love with a friend I know has a girlfriend and we have fooled around a few times to the point of almost going too far.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 604 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - I am in love with a friend I know has a girlfriend and we have fooled around a few times to the point of almost going too far. I also have a boyfriend but have not been happy in the relationship for a while. Im confused because i know this guy likes ...

He wants me out of the house but half of it is mine!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - Today my partner has just got back from another weekend away to get away from me. He wants me to move to my mams as things are bad and he doesn't want to be around me. The house is in both our names and i keep refusing to go until he gives me my s...

I thought my boss was interested in me, could it be that he actually cares about his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - I like my boss who is single and I am single too. In the first conversation, when I made a statement that he is so busy that he probably doesn't have time to date he said he has a GF but it is long distance relationship (going on for 2 years, and he ...

I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for 4 yrs. During this friendship I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life. Although i accepted it i never liked it and i have never told him this - i have put up with it i guess because no one ...

What do I do here... stick with my boyfriend or give this other guy a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - Hi there! Hopefully you guys can help me. My question is: What do I do? My problem: I have a boyfriend whom I like a lot, possily even really love. He and I have been going out for a year and a few months, much longer than any of my other frie...

Who should I choose, my husband or my mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 605 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Recently I found out that my husband of twelve years has had an affair with my brother's wife for just over a year. My brother and i were devastated by the news and trying to work through our marriages. Problem is that only a couple of days ago ...

I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 606 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work. Me and my cousin started work at the same place, and on our first day there was this guy there who was really nice to me. We got on really well and I really liked him and it ...

I feel I've lost my best friend now I'm about to lose my husband if something doesn't change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 607 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 years. About a month ago he came to me and told me he wasn't happy any more because I have a gambling problem. I told him I would stop gambling if he wouold give me a chance toprove to him, so I did and ...

Do I date him even if our best friend also has a crush on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 608 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - I asked out my friend last week because for months now we have been in love with each other and we had told each other that but he had never asked me out so i did it. He said he wanted to say yes because he does love me. Our best friend had told ...