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I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

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Question - (31 May 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *atie-needadviceasap writes:

Hello.

Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened.

In January this year we both ended up with an sti. he denies anythin and i have always been faithful to him. I gave him another chance and then have found this. He says he wants me and no one else and that he loves me and wants to settle down with me. But i dont know what to do! I love him so so much and miss him but feel empty without him.

Please please help

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A female reader, bumbelina United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

Whilst it may be hurting now, in the long run, you will be so much better off! Breaking up with someone even if they have hurt you is REALLY hard but you have so much to gain from not being with him. You just have to take each day as it comes and look after yourself. He is not worth you tears or your upset. You can do it and you will find someone who loves you, cares about you and respects you, which is the least that anyone deserves. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007):

Ok, are you serious? The idiot gave you an STD, god only knows which one, which by the way you best figure out the type and complications it has. All you are to him is a toy. In fact, you should tell this "friend" of his about it too, just in case. This guy is a total piece of cr*p. I believe you need to sit down, get your problems figured out (without this guy) and work on your self esteem. He has complicated YOUR life now and probably for the rest of your life. I'd like to talk to him all right! (Yup, I'm in the medical field). Get rid of this dip shit and use protection from now on.

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (1 June 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntYOU'RE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!

Honestly hun, you can do so much better than that. Find someone who will love you and respect you.

This isn't respect or love he's giving you. He's abusing your trust and he'll say to this girl that your a complication while he's saying to you " I still love you" so that it keeps both girls suited. This is cheating! Don't stand for it!

I've been here hun and I know how hard it is to find out they're cheating and then turn around and walk away but believe me, ( from experience) you will be so much better off.

Get a MAN and get rid of the immature player.

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A female reader, Katie-needadviceasap United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

Katie-needadviceasap is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the advice.

I finished with him on monday. But he's begging me, saying he realises now that its me he wants.

Im so upset cuz i want him. I just dont want to be hurt again.

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A male reader, Sharky United States +, writes (1 June 2007):

you should have left when you found the computer stuff!

quit being used!

hit the road and dont look back.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (1 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt's time for you to pack your bags. It sounds like he's playing with you.

DV1

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2007):

love-him agony aunthia darlin that is sumfin i rly dnt fink u shud stand for! he has clearly cheated on you (the STI) and i think you shud get out babe, yea the hardest thing to do.. but hes a cheater.. darlin im sorry 2 say it but my advice is tell him its over, you have proof he is sayin ur a complication.. hope i helped. mail me if u wana talk x x x

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