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female
age
41-50,
*inda25
writes:I like my boss who is single and I am single too. In the first conversation, when I made a statement that he is so busy that he probably doesn't have time to date he said he has a GF but it is long distance relationship (going on for 2 years, and he doesn't see her every month). He never mentions her at all, but recently he brought her picture in the office and then I saw him with someone (she was wearing sun glasses so I couldn't make out) at the swimming pool (when I entered he was hiding behind the newspaper and pretended he has not seen me there, and they left immidiately after I cam to the pool). He did ask me very personal questions like if I want to be a mother and what do I think about marriages one time, how old I am and so on... He keeps seeing change in my mood, and asking "are you OK? what is on your mind? you look tired what happened?". He does respect me, for example he will call me to let me know that he will be 10-15 min late and so on...I had a strong feeling he likes me but I am confused at his actions...I like him a lot and want to be with him but I hesitate to even talk about personal things with him...Should I get him out of my mind?
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reader, Linda25 +, writes (14 May 2007):
Linda25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it is a long story, but for example one time we were supposed to have a meeting but he got stuck in another one and so I left home sending him e-mail saying that this is what has been done about our project and that he can call me even if it late and he called like at 12 midnight and first thing he said was "are you angry with me?" few days later he invited me for lunch. One time I caught him looking at me and when he saw that I noticed that he started walking away to his office...I mean maybe at the pool there was his GF who came to visit him? I am very shy and he is my boss although difference in age like 6 years I can't just let him know that I like him...Can it be he is just super friendly and I am confusing all this for romantic attention?
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reader, love-him  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 kai first of all he wouldnt be asking you these personal questions just to be friends..second, him being with the girl at the pool, clearly means either he doesnt have the girlfriend he told you about or he is cheating. third id suggest you tell him your feelings and see what his responce is, the fact he is ringing you to tell you he will be late, is a sign he likes you..gud luck and mail me if u wan 2 talk x x x
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