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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love a boy and he love me too. we are in a relationship from the last four years. now he is ignoring me saying that he want to concentrate on his studies but one of my friends told me that she found him with a girl. after this lots of my friends told me about his ex girlfriends. when i asked him he said he didn't have any other relationships except ours. Some days back i visited his home there in between his books i found the photos of naked girls and some cd's. i was shocked. i left his home quickly bcoz i started weeping. now it seems he is losing his interest in me. he proposed to first and not me, then why he is doing this. i had asked him several times about this all but every time he refuses and blames me. every time i forgive him but he is determined that he will never improve.i can't leave him bcoz i'll die definitely, but i am not going to give him another chance. what to do its a very complicated situation. plz help. plzzzzzzz
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 You have no choice but to move away from him. He blames you to divert attention from the real issue which is what he is doing, so don't be fooled by that trick. He has made it clear that he will not change and this tells me that he doesn't care about you at all. This is especially bad because of the strong religious and moral values in India, just being associated with him will reflect very badly on you which will be much worse if it became public knowledge. If you can't go because you can't stand the pain of leaving think what it would be like if you had to face the shame of what could happen to your reputation.
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