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How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?

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Question - (30 June 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, *ollister beach25 writes:

ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other everything and i love her i just feel like she should know...plz help me out

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A male reader, hollister beach25 United States +, writes (1 July 2009):

hollister beach25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hollister beach25 agony auntno ok she use to live in my naborhood and we started datting befor she moved and we are still datting she might move back soon but ya...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 July 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWhat if the picture of her that you masturbate to actually is her best friend not her..

Don't go there, like The old Guy said some things SHOULD stay private.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

If you never see your girlfriend, and she lives in Alabama, and you only ever see her in the context of 'myspace' and her looking at pictures of you, she's not 'your girlfriend'.

The effect that these sites seem to have on younger kids is increasingly scary. God's sake, man, go and live in the real world and maybe get a girlfriend who lives in the same neighbourhood that you can maybe even touch and kiss!

(But no, I don't think you've any cause to be worried about the consequences of telling some online phantom 'girlfriend' that you masturbate like everyone else on the planet.)

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 July 2009):

Danielepew agony auntTell her you always have her in your mind. That will do.

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A male reader, hollister beach25 United States +, writes (30 June 2009):

hollister beach25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hollister beach25 agony auntwell i never see my gf she dont live in my state she lives in albama (cant spell) so ya she cant see me execpt when i text her pics of me and when she looks at my myspace

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

I can't imagine that she'd be anything but completely creeped out if you told her this. Imagine her passing that comment along to everyone in your school, and how long it would take you to live it down (like the rest of your life).

Masturbation is fine and all, but it's *private*. Trust me, this is not something your g/f needs to know.

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A female reader, lovnlife United States +, writes (30 June 2009):

pleeze tell her i mean why not she should be glade to know that it is her you are fantasizing about i would be happy to know its me and not some random chick on a porn i mean you already told her the hardest part the rest should come easy hell she might want to watch you you never know dont be scared becuz she might be doing the same and if not she prolly thought about it suck it up tell her

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntYou don't have to tell her this.

Its not the normal thing that comes up in conversation and its something you don't really need to share with her.

Only say if she asks otherwise she might think its a weird thing to say no matter how much you love each other.

Livia

xoxox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

dont have to tell her it dunt matter im guessin she could probably work out lol my ex told me he thought of me when he was doing it and i was like okayyy.............. urmm ow this isawkard lol dont tell her

*hugz*

mm

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (30 June 2009):

Danielepew agony auntTrust me, too: don't tell her. It won't be nice to hear that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

do you mean you just want to tell her because you feel like it? or is it because you're worried that if you don't say you think of her while you masturbate, she'll assume you're thinking of some other girl instead?

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntTrust me, you don't have to tell her this! X

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