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writes:Dear cupid,Okay i was just wondering when having sex can guys tell if the girl is a virgin? Would they feel any different?Thanks :) Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): i had sex but i bleed a little i dont know if it was because of sex or my periods because they were just finished. i need to get married but i am scared to tell him because i love him and i think he will leave me and i can't handle that please answer if he will find out.
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reader, AngellicaWaters  + ♥, writes (2 July 2009):
 Since everyone else covered your question... Hopefully I'm not out of line mentioning this...
If you are considering having sex for the first time and the guy doesn't know you are a virgin, you should definitely tell him. And you should totally be with someone who you feel comfortable enough to be honest with.
If you don't feel like you can tell a guy anything, then imagine how hard it would be to tell him other difficult things that might happen if you have sex and the condom breaks and you become pregnant... Or even other difficult things that happen in relationships.
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reader, im-the-one-to-ask +, writes (2 July 2009):
i think that many people could tell depending on how good they r(but they might not be good all in all) so pretty much u cant ever really tell...
-hope this helps
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reader, koenig +, writes (29 June 2009):
Yes and no.There is no definite physical way to tell whether someone is a virgin or not. A lot of girls bleed on their first time, but not all do, and some bleed when it's not their first time.It's more likely that they'd be able to tell by how experienced you seemed with sex. If you're good at it, you're probably not a virgin, well not even close to a virgin.
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (29 June 2009):
 Not that I know of, but being a virgin is nothing to be ashahmed of if thats what your worried about.
Take pride in it actually.
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