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female
age
51-59,
*oralsmatter
writes:My 40 yr old boyfriend has a 17 yr old daughter. The daughters friend is 15. They have been friends for a few months and the 15 yr old has stayed at our house a few times. It appears to me the friend has a crush on him but he doesn't see it. If he is sitting on the huge sectional she will sit right next to him. I was sitting next to him on a fence rail. I got up and she sat where I had been. She tells him "I love u" and hugs him. Something wrong here or is it just me? Last week she sat next to him on the tailgate. Said she had a crush on someone on his ball team. He was teasing her about how he thought he was her crush and wanted to be her crush. He was just joking but I thought his behavior was inappropriate and we argued about it. The girl has issues with men. That same day the girls went for a walk and the 15 yr old yelled at a 20 something telling him he was hot. My opinion is she already has issues with men and he should be acting like a father figure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): You may well be right, that the girl has issues. His approach would be fine for a well-adjusted girl, but he probably needs to be more circumspect with this one.
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