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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I Have been dating for 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him in March, and he's fingered me, we've done doggy style, regular sex(With condom and birth control pills, of course) but there's one problem. I've never given him or any other guy a hand job. Yesterday I brought it up to him that I've been wanting to(which I Have) and he said He wanted me to also but if I didn't want to, I didn't have to, that he wouldn't care(He's never pressured me into doing anything). Well, I was nervous that he would laugh at me or say that I wasn't good at it or go brag to his friends. I told him the reasons I was nervous and he told me he would never do anything like that. Well, I was still kinda scared but he guided my hand and showed me how he wanted me to do it but at the last minute, I chicked out. I wanted to but I couldn't get myself to do it. What I'd like to know is, Is there any way that I could stop being nervous, and get myself to do it? I've honestly been wanting to, I'm just nervous and I don't know why. :( Any advice is helpful.I'd like to plan something special now because..our one year anniversary will be coming up in October and I was just wondering, what is something sweet, and/or romantic that I could do for him and I on the day/night of our anniversary? We're both still young but I lost my virginity to him 5 months into our relationship so we're very..very close and I love him to death. So any ideas on what I could do that's romantic, would be helpful. [mod note: 2 questions combined from same poster]
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): So you've been at it for 3 months, trying various positions - and you're nervous about giving him a bloody wank?!!! I could understand if you've started intimacy by mutual masturbation(most normal people do) and are now nervous about performing the sex act. Sorry, but you've lost me totally!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Just try doing it for a little while at a time, till you want to stop. It might take you a few weeks to really get into it, but he sounds like a nice guy who won't mind that :) good luck! I'm not sure about the anniversary ideas, I've never gone in for celebrating them.
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