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I can't get over my exboyfriend

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Question - (30 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, so my boyfriend {now ex} broke up with me a few weeks ago, and i really can't get over it xD. He told me it wasn't working out and tht we were better of as friends. I had saw it coming I guess...I just had blindsighted myself to just ignore it. We were really good friends before we where together...and we didn't last long as a couple xD...but like I haven't had complete closure because of the breakup. He never told me why it wasn't working out, and after that he stopped talking to me period. I really do want to remain friends with him, as he was a really good friend, and i'm scared he doesn't want to be my friend anymore. xD

This was only my second relationship...my first one wasn't really anything {my mom sort of made me go out with the boy}.

In this relationship I was truly happy and it really upset me that we had broke up. I had liked him pretty much since we had became friends, so it's kind of weird to me :[

I had realized that after we broke up he never stayed in a relationship that long. That actually helps me get over it a little, but I am still upset x-x

:/ Yeah I guess. I really do still like him...I mean he always seemed like a great guy to me.

I'm scared to talk to him :/...I'm scared that he thinks badly of me or something...that's one that really is bothering me.

The thing that pissed me off was the fact that he didn't start this till after I asked him if he wanted to come over to my house for once. I had been to his house multiple times and met alot of his family, and all that is at my house is my mom so it wouldn't be that weird. Then it was just sudden changed the attitude with him :/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

its alright sorry for the bad grammar i think i was havin a hypo at tht point (im diabetic) x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

x-x i feel stupid when i made this.

I was kind of frantic xD

I don't know why...i kind of regret making this

Thank you missymalone

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

you will eventualy get ovah him i was liek that with my ex we were basically best friends b4 we went out then we went out for 4 months n he dumped me asked a different girl ovah it well iwas torn up i thought ihe was the one my advice is allow yoursef time to get ovah him dont go out with someone new sstraight away. try n remember all the bad things he did he istn worth it if he didnt want to meet your family obviously something to hide there and asl odont try and be his friend till your weel n truly over him trust me he'll know if you still fancy him

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