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My girlfriend says she loves me, I think she's cheating and I'm insecure, any suggestions to help us?

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Question - (13 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

two days before me and my gf started dateing she was talking dirty to another guy through internet on myspace and i think she lies to me alot i love her and she says she loves me but i think she cheats on me and talks to other guys she dnt want me talking to woman so idk im jelouse and insecure and want it to last any suggesting to help our relationship thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

ok thanks to u all its just hard cuz she said she dnt want other guys and stuff and we talked bout it but its still kinda there would it be better if we lived together and even thoe it was 2 days before she said she only said that stuff becuz she new nothing would ever happen she said she dont wanna talk to other guys or me 2 talk to other girls?

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntWell short of asking her or spying on her, I would simply not put up with any online drama. Ive said it before and I'll say it again, the net can be a relationship killer, so if you feel that insecure about it, you may consider moving on. This thing happens everyday to alot of people online. If you dont get the answers you seek from her, then get yourself a new GF

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

I doubt she's cheating - I'd say she's just talking to other guys. But if she's being secretive and it makes it hard to trust her then talk to her about it. Once she's aware you don't like it she'll probably feel guilty and stop.

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A female reader, angelsrock18 United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

angelsrock18 agony auntwell i'm a girl and i did the same EXACT thing to my boyfriend. My boyfriend always accused me to my face and on the phone, and i had a thing with another guy while we are dating and we've been dating 7 months, the guy didn't kiss me but put his lips on mine and on top of me licking me and everything holding hands. but my boyfriend found out i liked him but not the other stuff, if you think she is doing this talk to her about it, i know it;s a bad thing to do ssooo you never know but thats just how i am.

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