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writes:I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was wondering if I should stop now or go ahead because of the love we share but I'm so confussed? I don't know what to do, I really love him from the bottom of my heart! Reply to this Question
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reader, fuglyone +, writes (22 April 2009):
 Do you want to be in a relationship with the guy? If so, then do it. If not, then don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): armymedic, i am so glad you questioned about the so called sexual relationship from 10 yers old. i was about to start frantically typing about that.i think there is more to your situation than what you have revealed. i have many questions because it is not just the age that may seem inappropriate but circumstances too:he is 45, so is he married, divorced, have kids.you are 19 - are you just broken up with someone, is he a close family friend, a so called uncle.did he try anything with you when you were younger?sorry, but have to ask these hard questions
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (18 April 2009):
 Well as long as you haven't got Stockholm syndrome from years of childhood abuse, and you truely want to be with him, then that is now your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionclearing this question up i was 10 when i meet him but it grew in to more later when i became older
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (18 April 2009):
I'm a little concerned how a 10 year old can fall in love "sexually emotional and physically" this sounds a little like child abuse, can you clear this issue up for me as I probably have got the wrong end of the stick.
If you think it is wrong you will always doubt yourself, at 19 you are an adult legally if not mentally. So it is up to you as a consenting adult who has the mental capacity to understand right from wrong.
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reader, Soph.p  +, writes (18 April 2009):
The age difference may scare you and others but if it is what you feel is right, then go for it. Times are changiing and people need to go with it. :) But one thing, if you want to make this work you need to ignore what people say about you.
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