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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

How long should I give him before I decide its not going to happen?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy online and after two months have passed he asked me if he could contact me on my mobile, so I gave him my number and we chatted a couple of times and texted each other. The thing is he keeps telling me that he want...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a...

After 1000 messages should I meet this online man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Okay, I met someone from Turkey over the internet I did not ask to be his friend he asked me. to make a long story short and numerous phone calls, and 1000 messages later he says that he is in love with me, and I feel the same for him my question ...

How do I convert this one way love into two ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Recently , I joined dating-site and got a 49 years old American lady interested but she said she could only be good friend as I am too young for her being 30 years old. She added me on Yahoo Messenger and she looks 10 years younger than her age....

I'm scared because I'm starting to really like him and I think I should hold off on the sex, but our sexual chemistry is through the roof.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy on an Internet dating site, we spoke on the phone for 3.5 hours before meeting up and numerous texts. We went out for a very nice dinner and made plans to see each other a couple days later. We ended up sleeping together and he ...

Is he going to come around and realize he can find a way better looking woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - This may be a little long,but hopefully people will still take the time to read it. A couple of months ago I had decided to start online dating. I was tired of being single,and being a single parent didn't allow me to go out and meet people in the ...

Could he still be pining for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been single for a while and have decided to set up a dating profile, while I was browsing the guys profiles I noticed an ex of mine had a profile on there, when i looked at his ideal date he had described me.. right down to hair colour and ...

I thought we were dating but he's still remaining active on his online dating account!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Three weeks ago, I started dating a guy through on-line dating . I think we are a really good match for each other. He is exactly what I am looking for in a guy and seems really keen on me. He treats me really well and we have the same values, ...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relation...

Is is cheating or is it my bi-polar disorder?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys I'm Tiffany My fiance is Elvin and I love him very much. I have bi-polar disorder,anxiety,and depression. I do not take pills do to no insurance but doing teh best I can to figh the sickness:/....I have been having anxiety lately because I ...

Could use a little advice on what to do after my first date...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

24 November 2011 (M) - So had a really awesome first date with a very pretty girl that I met online last night. Honestly a little out of my league, but I am very into her. I'm just being real here that I am fit, have a great job, witty, confident, etc... but I am balding ...

Involved with a married man and need unbiased thoughts, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hello all, Please take the time to read: I met my boyfriend of almost two years (in December) online by chance. I actually caught his attention and made the first move, but we took a lot of time to get to know each other as friends first be...

My friend created a fake profile to trap my long distance B/f, when she realized he too had a dating profile. I'm upset at both of them. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - I need some advice on a situation with my friend and my Long Distance boyfriend. My friend created an account on a site to meet friends that she found my long distance boyfriend had an account on. She didn't tell me or ask me before doing this, so I ...

How do I greet him and how do I figure out if he likes me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - I recently met this guy online and we really hit it off. We text each other practically every day. I'm going to meet him in two weeks, but I'm really nervous. I'm taking a friend with me, but I'm not sure how to react. I'm a really shy person and ...

If online dating fails to work, what other options are there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

22 November 2011 (M) - I've tried every sensible dating site in the last 16 months. Paid and free. I have had two dates in that whole time. I've had profiles reviewed and everyone has come back saying my photos are good, my profile is interesting and they don't ...

My friends will laugh when they find out I met him on a dating site

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - Hi, i have recently met my new guy on a dating site. My friends will laugh if they know where i have met him,but he has no embarrassment and refuses to lie about it. Also me and my ex broke up over me being on dating sites. Even though its nothing ...

Distance made me feel safe -- what about this online girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

19 November 2011 (M) - I had met this girl online during September, she is about 8 or 11 hours drive from me so i never met her in person. At first we didn't talk much of relationship related topic. I was really careful with her because i really like her in the pictures ...

If I send him a gift would that make me look desperate or obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - Hello, is it ok to send a gift (nothing expensive) to someone I have not met in person yet? -We have been writing emails to each other for about a month, and lately he has not written much, but he sent me an email a week ago saying that he was very ...

Does his email sound genuine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - I met this guy online and I really like him. -I am aware from the very beginning that he is trying to finish his PhD dissertation, and I know it can get very stressful. He used to write me about twice every week, but lately he just does it once ...

I'm 13, he's 17 we met online, is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - okay so I know i'm still young and all but yes so here I go. okay so a little while ago my friend showed me this website were I could meet new people and things like that, so one day I decided I would go and try it out ,so I did. I didnt expect t...

I met someone online but everyone is always concerned for my safety!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - I think it's terrible how a minority of wicked people can forever tarnish something which could be used for the good. I met the love of my life (and I'm not using those words lightly) online in August 2010. It wasn't a dating site, just one for ...

Can my new Facebook friend be trusted? Should I send him the picture he wants?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - I met a guy on Facebook, he said he likes me, he is really nice and sweet. But there's something weird about him, he wants me to send him my picture but he doesn't want to give me his phone number. He said he is just being careful and I'm being ...

Was she using me? Never interested in the first place?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

18 November 2011 (M) - This is about a girl I met on the internet about 2 years ago. I'm from Norway, she's from Spain. We've always stayed friends until this summer she asked me, surprisingly, to come visit her in Spain and she wanted to know my relationship sta...

Online dating etiquette...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) - I am trying my hand at online dating after being newly single and out of an 8 year relationship. I keep getting bombarded with messages from men I am not interested in. If I ignore then they keep messaging me and plus I feel it is better to be ...

Met him online, love him, but he wants sex before marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - Gud evening , my question is . I met a guy online he live in abroad so since then we have been chatting on november 2011 he propose to me he said he's coming back next month and we will make love before marriage and am not ready to make love ...

Email traffic with my first love suddenly quit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - A few months back I started talking to my first love. It started off innocent and then got flirty. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me and I said the same. We made plans to meet but it didn't work out. Our emails started getting ...

Does she not want me to succeed? Any suggestions to get her back too, if you can?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - Hey guys I am 19 years old ,and I had been in a relationship for a little over a year until recently. She broke up with me a couple of days back cold heartedly. Info:she has been my friend since childhood. Her and my parents get along pretty wel...

He left me for harmless online flirting. Why?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

15 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my chap going on 4 years. I have flirted online which was harmless and meant nothing. Just a bit of a joke and no more. I understand i hid it from him,but only so he wouldnt get the wrong idea as we had a break up over it once. ...

Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...

I'm way more into him than he is to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We have talked almost everyday since than..but never met in person. Over the past 2 years we fell in love. But we are not and never were in an exclusive relationship. He has had one girlfriend since ...

His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...

How do I word something to her that makes her realise that it's not appropriate to cancel dates at the last minute when a lot of prep has gone into them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - I met a girl through internet dating. She was lovely and I'd really like to see her again. We've been texting each other etc and seem to get on ok, but she doesn't seem as keen to chat as before we met up. Having said that, she's been ill and - ...

At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage? There is this old saying that love is not enough, how many of you believe this? For example, i have witnssed a couple risk their children's lives by driving dangerously beca...

He's confused me. Why would a guy tell you he likes you and is dedicated to you and then just stop talking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - I recently started talking to a guy online. We hit it off right away and were constantly talking via texting and video calling. He expressed a lot of interest and said he would work really hard to make us work..he'd always call when on break at w...

I would hate to fall for her and find out she's playing me.Am I a convenient fantasy or a genuine love interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I met a woman online in a chat room. It wasn't any sort of "Adult" chat room. It was just casual. She lives one state over from me, but we have never met. At first we were just friends, but over time our conversations became more intimate and ...

Why do some guys like women to send them nude pictures???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Before I say anything just thought i say that DO NOT judge me for this cause I`ve beaten myself up about it and regret it, plus i`m an adult. Also i have another question which relates to my post so instead of making another post I decided to post ...

The Guy is Distancing himself from me and I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - I started talking to this guy on an iPhone dating app and he seemed to really like me. I gave him my number and we startes texting and Skyping the same day, we really hit it off. Only problem is he lives about 1000 miles from me :( well we've only ...

What to do about cheating husband who is into porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Hi to all of you.i have been with my husband for almost 4 years.we are married for almost 3 years.he was married b4.he has a child with women.the reason he is not with her anymore is that he cheated on her. My problem is that he has cheated on me an...

Internet cheating -- harder to get caught, addictive, what?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I am suprised to read so much lately about internet date sites being used to cheat on partners. I am interested to know what goes through the mind of the one using the site and the opinions of those who have caught their partner doing it. Does ...

Chatting is fine, but I freeze when they suggest we meet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I posted a question a while back wondering if I was gay or just having a little fetish but now I believe i am bisexual and I am attracted to men. In light if this I decided to join a dating website to try and find a boyfriend or just a a friend t...

My boyfriend is setting up secret online relationships. HELP!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was on the Internet last night and I found out he was index websites and he had set up a profile saying he wanted to meet girls for 1 on 1 sex or secret relationship he says he was only messing but not sure I'd should believe him please ...

How can I trust him knowing he was sneaking around on some dating site?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs. Well just the other day I found out he signed up for a dating site. I know that it was somewhat recent because in his description it said has a kid and we have a 4 month old daughter together. Well I co...

I'm feeling used up and am thinking would I feel more used up if I went over to see him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 November 2011 (F) - Dear Readers, I am wondering whether my disappointment and hurt is warranted in a siutation that has just occurred. I have been in contact with a guy over the Internet for the last 3 years. I was particularly vulnerable when I first started talking ...

Feel like I'm falling apart. Am I a fool to think happiness could be mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

5 November 2011 (F) - I have just split up from my partner of nearly 12 years. We have 2 young children. I had stopped loving my partner many years ago although i only told him it was about 2 years ago. It took me a long time to admit it to myself and even longer to ...

Any advice on how, to, I don't know, worry less when it comes to relationship issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

4 November 2011 (M) - I met an amazing girl online a few months back. I know ALL the issues about online (risks I mean). We talk a lot on the phone too. My worry is that I am too insecure to keep things going until we actually meet. (we don't live too far away...

I want to meet up with her, but we didn't meet on a dating site. Am I reading too much into her being nice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

2 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, I have been talking to a girl on a penpal site and she seems really nice and I was considering after a bit more talking to ask about meeting up. The problem is, she says that people seem to just message her saying things about her being'...

Should I just relax and enjoy the friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

1 November 2011 (?) - I met a guy on an online dating site. We met ofr a first date over two weeks ago and got on great, attraction was there etc. However, after only a couple times after that he said he wants to just be friends. Admittedly, we had by this point ...

Technically speaking was it not cheating? since we had had a break up. Am I right in my assumption?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me and after three months she came back . We were together for 2 years before I picked up fight with her over small issue which resulted in a being dumped in the last week of July this year. During those three months, I was ...