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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Does anyone think that I should remove her as a friend from the social networking website?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I broke up almost an year ago but I'm still having some trouble getting over it. My ex has moved on and has made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. We're both members of a social networking website and since I have her as a ...

Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. ...

We met online, then in real life and everything clicked. Now all of a sudden he has backed off, what is going on??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I have met this wonderful guy via a dating site on the internet. We were chatting, phoning, text messages, Skype messages and calls until the early hours of the morning. We were getting very close to each other and yeah, fond of each other. After 6 ...

He sends me random sexual texts and I really want to meet him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - right well im not going to give too much detail because that would make my post extremely long but theres a guy, call him *R* and ive liked him now for like 3 years or something! since the day i met him ive fancied the pants off of him, ive not even ...

We have only met once but I'm already feeling insecure. How can I protect myself emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - It's been a year since I split from my ex partner. He played mind games and made me feel I was going mad,because he wanted a relationship with someone he works with. Anyway a few months ago I joined a dating site and have had a few meets. some w...

My new online dating guy is ignoring me--what should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I met this guy through an internet dating site, and we've seen each other 3 times... and had sex. I last saw him last week, and he said he didn't need to go on the site anymore, which I took to mean because he liked me. He said he'd call on ...

He coming along way to visit me..should I 'put out" for him? I feel obligated..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I've been on 3 dates with this a guy who lives 2hrs away from me. He's coming to visit me this weekend and staying over for a night. We get along really well and communicate via e-mail a lot. Am I expected to put out, since he's coming all the way ...

I found my husband online dating, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi im 22 and my husbands 25 , we've been together 4 years but lately ive been having real trusting problems which isnt healthy for the relationship, you see i found out that he had signed up to a online dating site not just any though a one for ...

Which one of these men from a dating site, should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Two gentlemen from dating sites which i'm very interested one is an economist, so sweet, the other is retired, and just the kind of man i always wanted. Both express their desire for me. I will meet them both, yet I dont want to lead them on. I live ...

I met a boy online, and he likes me way more than I like him - What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - There's this lad on msn and he's apparently 'into me' yet we've never met in person nor even spoke on the phone. Anyway, he wants to meet me (we've only spoken on msn about 2/3 times - long convo's though!) but i aren't sure whether to, he seems a ...

How can I know if someone I know from the Internet likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - how do i know if this guy likes me?? when we are both online we always talk together....is there like something i can do to know if he likes me in that way or he thinks of me as just a friend....we actaully know a lot about each other! soo can u ...

Anyone have any tips on how to lessen the nerves for when we meet cause I think its gonna happen quite soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) - hey, im jordan female and im 16 i met this guy called liam around three years ago on the internet, ive never met him in person although ive seen him twice, we have talked for around thre years and over the past sort of year we have both started to ...

How can I tell if I am attractive to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I met this guy on the internet and was not immediately attracted to him, but he was persistant and I agreed to meet him. We got on well and since I was previously married for many years and so was he we had mutual interest. We started a ...

What do I say to this guy? We're both very shy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Ok i really need advice. I just met this guy over myspace IM and we started talking. i don't no him and i am a very shy person. we both don't know what to say to each other, b/c weve never met. His mom wanted him to meet me and it was my sisters ...

How do I approach my online friend for a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - This girl is sending me signals.. But I've never met her, was supposed to hangout but never did and now I dont know how to approach her. I've only talked to her through the computer and she hasn't been dating but she wants to date. I really like...

Can love really happen this fast?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - I met a wonderful woman online a few weeks ago. It took me one week to fall in love. I met her online first, and in only one round of email correspondence back and forth, we both had made one Hell of a connection. We both immediately sent our ...

Anyone else got really close to a married man while chatting online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 108 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - i recently got too close to a married man i was chatting to online . We fell for each other without ever meeting i no longer chat with him it is over and i miss him. What I want to know is anyone else out there that and how has it affected y...

After I met him in person he changed and I am so heart broken... what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - To dear cupid, i am having a conflict. i have found my bright sunshine. he make me happy all of the time. i love his personalities. we actually have alot in common.so we chatted through messages for about 2 months already and we've decided to...

Why is it men run when things get serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Hi. need some someones perspective on this please. i'm left feeling very down and confused. Why is it that men run when things get serious? and this guy is 40! I been online dating for a while now as i don't get much time to myself and my friends ...

Online guy won't give me his number, why not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Hi ! I have been chatting with a Guy from February 2008 onwards, Initially he was trying to chat with me about sex... but I changed his views/ideas completely and I told him that I am only interested in a real good guy... who will be able to give ...

How can I show him I'm trustworthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) - so i was in a marriage of 12 years to a man in the USA. it was really rough. constant physical and mental abuse and i was pretty much trapped in a hole with this man as i basically needed him around just to survive. i was not allowed any friends or ...

I had been playing online with this girl that I really like and now she is with someone else... how can I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - Hello everyone.Here i go.18 months ago i started to play an online game and a year ago i met a girl there.We were just friends but after a while we started to do everything together.We were spending whole day together.When i logon in the morning she ...

Should I wait for him to give us a chance? His ex is obsessed and deluded and has just had a baby - that might be his.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - I got talking to this guy online, and we quickly started getting on really well. He got attached to me and wanted me to visit - we'd already planned a joint birthday party - so I did. The first few days were great. He said he was the happiest...

I want to meet an online friend who lives in Italy... should I make him come to the UK first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - I have met a man on line - we've been talking since February and would like to meet. He is in Rome, Italy and I am in Hertfordshire, UK. We've spoken over the phone and I've checked him out (I wasn't meaning to be devious but I had to do it ...

Will my Internet 'boyfriend' change his mind once we meet in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Please comments, advise, help. What should I do? I have been talking to this guy online for about 3 months, we say we like each other and that we are deeply in love. We wanted to meet and we had set up to meet in December but I was able to get the ...

Is my Internet Lover having an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Right. Im in a long distance relationship. We only ever talk over msn. I really like him, hes a really nice guy and i met him over facebook. Yeah i know its risky, and hes 3 years older than me. But we get on really well. But Im really scared...

How do I help my shy love feel comfortable with me (we met online)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend online, WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MuCH it was love at first talk, and we are going to meet each other finally, this friday. He said that he thinks he's going to be shy when we met. How do i help him to feel comfortable...

Should I go against myself and be a FWB, and enjoy myself with him and be heartbroken if he finds true love elsewhere, or do I cut my losses and run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - I'm 32 and recently began chatting online to a really great 37 year guy. We got on really well, and after about a month, we met up. And got on really really well. I stayed at his and we had a great weekend together. (yes we slept togethe...

No idea what to do about our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up a couple of days ago. We have been together for five years. This is going to be long in order to give you all the details you might need to help me. When we got together he was still in Iraq. He had went home on ...

She more or less ignores me - Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

15 June 2008 (M) - She is waiting to be with her text man. even though they have never met. No sex just text. She writes in her diary that he is what she allways wanted in a man and feels nothing for me, It reads they will be together one day, she has been playing me ...

Should I meet this bi older girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

14 June 2008 (F) - i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet ...

What do these men want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

14 June 2008 (F) - Hi, would like some advice on this please as i just don't understand what went wrong. I am in my late thirties, independent, good job, my own house, just trying to find my mr right but tired of getting messed around and hurt. i met a guy online last ...

Anyone knows of an Internet site to meet people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

14 June 2008 (F) - I am a divorced woman in my mid-40s. I'm thinking of signing up with an Internet dating site. Which sites are the best is I want to meet a man interested in a long-term exclusive relationship? ...

Should I wait for her? If so how long?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

13 June 2008 (M) - Ok there is this girl I met online as friends at first. Well she was married so no interest from me. Well we found out how much in common we got and she fell for me. One night she confesses her feelings and that her husband treats her like ...

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

13 June 2008 (F) - Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

I fancy a guy I saw on You Tube, should I contact him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

12 June 2008 (?) - I think I'm a little crazy ... here's why My friend told me to wacth a really funny video on Youtube of this guy and it ws hilarious! he had like 14 videos and he's soooo adorable !!! I got his myspace but I've never talked to him or met him...

Did he give me his business website, in hopes that I would call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - i have met a guy on myspace and we clicked and have spent hours on instant messenger, we have not exchanged phone numbers yet but have made tenative plans to met in the future. he owns his own biz and gave me his website address, this has his ...

Never met, long distance relationship, soulmates, strong feelings. Anyone else in the same boat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - Im a 22 female and im seeing this guy who is 23. Long story short...... About a month ago i was on myspace and i was looking around tryin to get add more people to my list of friends. I came across this guy. I requested him as a friend and never...

My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined ...

Finally met up with my online friend, and now he's grown distant. What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - Almost 10-12 years back i started internet chatting. I started talking to this guy( the first guy i ever spoke to online) We made good friends and chatted everyday for an hour or two. \a year passed then two...he was from another country. We got ...

What should my next move be to obtain the maximum out of this situation? She is ignoring my calls for now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

9 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a girl on the internet and got on well on a 1st date on a Thursday. Lots in common, held hands, smiled a lot. I phoned her on the sunday, asked whether she wanted to go out on tuesday which she couldn't do. She then offered up friday but ...

The only person who actually listens to me is a Dutch girl on the Internet. Will it ever work out with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

8 June 2008 (M) - i've got talking to some dutch girl on the internet. we do the webcam and microphone thing all the time and i think she is the best person in the world because she is the only person who actually listens to me. the problem is i dont think she likes ...

Does this girl likes me, by any chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

8 June 2008 (M) - Uh well there's this girl who I met through a writing website half a year ago. So as an extension of collabing story with her (and along with the other 3), I got her email and we start to chat through msn. She's always appearing offline, so it's...

I'm completely confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

7 June 2008 (M) - ok so things seem to be getting a little better. atleast we are not yelling at each other any more but now its really getting me upset and confused because when she talks to me on the phone she still knows we are married just kinda denys it then ...

She dumped me but now she's got pics of us on Facebook as a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 122 days ago

7 June 2008 (M) - Hello all, Me and ex g\f broke up about 3 months ago. We keep in touch every few weeks, just to say 'hi' and catch up, nothing more. She does not want to get back together However, i have just logged onto Facebook and she has just posted...

My friends keep pressuring me and she's not worth the wait!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

5 June 2008 (M) - I've been talking to this girl that I met online for more then 4 years now, and practically our relationship is maxed out. But she lives in a different state, and I've never met her. Yet we really really want to meet, we don't talk anymore because ...

I blocked him on facebook but I'm still worried about my safety! Should I notify the police?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

5 June 2008 (F) - alright so there's this boy who was really socially awkward so I tried to talk to him every now and then to help him out of it. Then he asks me out through facebook so I say that I'm not interested but he hunts me down and tells me in person, I tell ...

Am I hanging on to a dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

4 June 2008 (F) - I had been dating a guy for over a year and split early in the new year. Initially, it was my choice as he had become so negative, always talked about his ex wife and forgot about my needs. After a couple of weeks I realised that I really wanted to ...

I'mm not sure if she likes me -- how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

3 June 2008 (M) - im 15 basicly there is the girl i like alot im not sure how she feels for me though i met her through myspace and we talk all the time on msn and text alot too ive only actualy met up with her once i am very shy so im not...

I want my online guy back, will it help if I surprise him with a visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

3 June 2008 (F) - i really luv him lyk anything...but thatz not all...he is being 11 yrs elder to me..and am now 18.We met through net..chatted..been friends for long.... shared our pics and slowly got intimate...and fell for each other..We even decided to marry each ...