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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

We plan to meet for the first time soon but he is very ill and I'm worried if I see him it will make it harder. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - im 22 years old and been in a relationship with this 46 years old canadian guy online,there no exact words to express how happy i am to have him. I know deep inside my heart that i do love him more than anything in this world..and he also does for ...

Were we never really anything? Was I a fool to believe this was something special? I don't know how he could have done this....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - knowing someone online for over a year now. thought we were in a real relationship and now its all over as if it never existed. I deleted all my accounts I could not bare the pain. all I kept seeing was him posting away about a life he didnt have. ...

I am afraid to lose her but I think its certain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - i feel like a dummy for asking but...some people, including my gf are convincing. i met a young lady half my age a year ago online. fwiw, she spoke to me first and the first few times after meeting her, when i'd go online she'd be the one to ...

We meet as friends but I still have feelings. Will I ever be able to heal my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi, First sorry for my poor english language. In the last 2 years I,ve read questions and answers in this site hoping to find an explanation for my relationship but I,m still in ,, middle of nowhere,, and I can,t get out the pain from my c...

My Gf has major self esteem issues. will she ever change or go back to the way she used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - my fiance of 4 years has always suffered from self esteem issues, an eating disorder and was raped when she was 16. now because of this she dated men who treated her like crap because she thought she deserved that. she has had no support from her ...

Is there anyway I can reconnect with my husband and stop hurting him like I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I'm in need of some serious help... I've cheated on my husband and he found me online yesterday on a site and seen some comments some guys have made. When my husband confronted me on it he said he wasn't mad about the site in general, but he was mad ...

We were getting along so well, and now I have heard nothing! To contact or not to contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - I need a little advice. I met a guy on a match making site, we both are newbies to the online dating. Initially, I did the contacting and he responded. I was intrigued by his responses. After a few messages, I didn't hear from him again. (we were ...

It turned out my online guy was a fake.....how do I meet the right guy? I'm losing faith!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Dear all aunts, I wrote months ago to seek for insight if a guy i met online is real or not, he claimed a US military service man, well the result is, same as all aunts had reminded, this is a fake guy! Althought i had take alert but still i even...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I met this guy online and when i asked him if he lived in Singapore, he told me no, but he would be back four weeks later. I waited for a month and during that month, I spent my time talking to him. I am impressed and instantly know I love the ...

Online dating - no-one replies to my messages! How do I make girls interested in me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

27 October 2011 (M) - I have been using dating sites for quite some time now but no one seems to be interested replying me. I might not have look of Tom Cruise but I am not that bad either. So What I need to do to make girls interested in me and finally get a ...

I haven't had many boyfriends. Where is the best place to meet someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I'm 26 and not had many boyfriends, i'm quite shy and don't go out much - most of my friends have moved away and i prefer saving money. Where is the best place to meet someone? Are any online dating sites good?...

Should I be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - I'm wondering if I should be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on. Here's the background: - We've been dating for almost 6 weeks - We live two hours away from each other - He told me...

I'm not sure if I can take these rejections anymore! How do I stop myself getting carried away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I know this is probably one of the most common things on here so i apologize if i repaet anyone. Went on a first date the other day and when i asked the girl if she wanted to meet up again, she said she just wanted to be friends. I was very keen,...

I like him, not sure I love him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - i met a guy online am 16 and we started chatting and he gave me his phone number to text him, i texted him n later he sent me his pic and he told him he was cute P.s hes really nice and he told me to send him my pic i sent him n he told me i waz ...

He flirts and texts. But that's it. Do I give up on him? He brings out the best in me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago. I started liking him about 5 months ago, still like him. He keeps sending me mixed signals, and Im just really confused. Ive told him I like him, but nothing ever happens. Yet when we text or I see him, he flir...

I'm worried that ex put naked photos of me on the internet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - I was in an internet relationship with a man in a middle eastern country for 3 years. In the beginning I did cybersex with him and didn't have enough sense to keep my face off of it. I stopped doing it a few years ago but am terrified he might have ...

He never said he liked me. Do you think he's a player? If he does kiss me is that significant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4568 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Well, I've known this guy for a long time. We've occasionally talked, but not like we were friends or anything. Recently, he gave me his number and we've texted for a week STRAIGHT. Actually, he would text me. Then it just stopped. So I texted him,...

I am a shy, gay and socially inept. How have others in my situation formed relationship? Could my cyber friend become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4570 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - I was inclined to pose to my problem because I am not sure what to do. Well, like most who come here. Anyhow, I am a gay man. I am also socially inept. And recently, I joined this international social network (quite ironic with the former comment)...

Do I have trust issues? My G/f blames me for being upset at her, due to her exchanging flirty texts with guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - i just found out that my girl friend is exchanging dirty messages and flirts on the phone with a guy she says is her friend. i asked her about it and she got all defensive n blamed me that i had trust issues,plz help....

Why did he not want me when I was his girl but now he wants me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hi I have a question about a guy I met online. We met on a dating site and really hit it off he lives in another state but we kept talking exchanged emails and after about 6 months phone numbers We eventually decided to meet I was so crazy about hi...

Is he into me or does he only see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - So I just recently realized I have a crush my friend. I have never been friends with a guy first and then found myself attracted to them. So this crush really took me by surprise. But anyways. Out relationship is still fairly new, we have only known ...

He's flirty on videochat but then gave me a raincheck for a kiss, said he's not ready for a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

19 October 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. He is in a couple of my friends classes and we met several weeks ago. The thing is that we both just got over relationships. He says he needs time but we video chatted for hours late into the night. I asked him to tutor me. ...

Contact fizzles out after a date, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I have been a member on a dating website for a couple of months now,and have met a few different people,and the same thing seems to happen. There seems to be interest at first,and then it fizzles out. I actually made it through a few dates with t...

Online dating--I'm ok till they ask to meet and then I get scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I am not sure if any of you have had the experience of online dating? I have recently signed up on OkCupid, and it seems to be a very polite and good site - people there are not particularly sketchy, and are fairly friendly. I have be...

Was this online girl for real?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

17 October 2011 (M) - I started using Zoosk a couple of months ago, and contacted a few girls. One named Naomi replied to me, and we started to chat casually on email. She told me she wanted to exchange pictures, and although I regret it, I did send her some indecent ...

What can I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4574 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hey right iv been speaking to this guy via text n fb know him through a friend we get on great actually its scary how great we get on but i need ideas of things i can say like short texts to like turn him on and stuff if you get me wer both in our ...

Am I completely in the wrong and deserve this? Or is he overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website 2 months ago, we met after a week and kept seeing each other every weekend. At first it was a but bumpy and he wouldn't text for days, he works away in the week n so we would only see each other on weekends. He calls ...

We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...

Can I ever make things right between us again? I lost a dear friend, what to do? She's blocked me every way she can.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I apologize in advance for this long story, but it is just complicated and those who read it, I appreciate it a lot! Well, I met a girl on Facebook. At first we communicated there for over 6 months, exchanging messages on almost a dail...

Is getting turned on by his expressions normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Heloo :) Just a short question, i was on web cam with a boy ive been dating for a while didnt like him at first but he had grown on me. When i was on web cam i got turned on just because he was raising his eyes at me and licking his lips. Is that ...

Is it better to continue with this and see where it goes, or is this something I should stay away from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I have found an amazing gal, she has been out of a relationship for one year. Her relationship was controling and abusive. We have only know each other for a couple of weeks, and i know it is short, but she tells me she does not want anything ...

Should I just stop talking to the guy I met online? I think he is talking to other women as well as me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I used an online dating site for the first time. I met a man that I was interested in meeting. We have been emailing each other once a day for 1 week. He keeps pointing out how much we have in common and how great I seem. H...

Dad is critical of him. I like this guy. But am I falling in love too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hey folks, It's been about 4 months since I broke up with my ex, and now I've found a good guy. We met online, and began talking quite a bit. We got together, and since then he's asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, and its been a lot...

Am I pushing him too hard to have relationship with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - hello guys.. i need your advices / help.. so here is my situation : I met this guy online this Sept 26th. 2011..he is a US NAVY but he is in Japan for 3 years,but going back to USA this december.. we always chat everyday, we text during his duty.. ...

How do I cope with the downsides of a FWB relationship? tips please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - For those of you in a long distance relationship, how do you cope with saying goodbye (til next time)? I normally get a few days with my man every couple weeks but I only got one day this time around and at the risk of sounding like a big, fat ...

I think I screwed up by getting drunk on our date! He has updated his online dating profile but is 'too busy' to contact me, is that is it for us now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy on match.com about two months ago. We talked for about three weeks and then finally met. We really hit it off and for the next month saw each other three to five times a week with texting in between. I think there were only one or two ...

He seems happy to have a FB relationship, but I find myself wanting more

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I met this guy online a year ago.Yes it was based on sex.. but mind blowing sex. a year later and i find myself wanting something more, im just not feeling fulfilled any more. We see each other once a week or once every two weeks. He wont just come ...

Ex-boyfriend and I remained best friends until he found someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I'll try to keep this simple, since it's a complicated situation to begin with. I'm 24 years old. I was in a serious relationship with my ex for 4 years, we shared our lives together, he even lived at my house for a year. All though we fought a lot, ...

First it's all good. Then he stops replying. Then stupid excuses. what does his confusing behaviour mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Why would a guy who seemed really into you, told you he liked you a lot, text you all the time, suddenly not reply to your text message? Secondly after a couple of weeks you text him again, but this time he replies, with a stupid excuse as to why...

If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...

What is do the numbers signify? What's normal for you? Is more sex with more people success? Or is more relationship with one person more?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

6 October 2011 (M) - Out of curiosity, how many a) romantic relationships (i.e. dated for a while, no sex) b) full-on-committed relationships (i.e. with sex) and c) sexual relationships did you have by the time you were 22/23? This question is both for men and wom...

What's wrong? I'm cute and fun he was not bored but something happened right? I'm lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy in 2007 but at the time we lived in different cities so we stayed friends through email then Facebook. We talked frequently with laps in between when dating other people etc we are in the same industry so we have lots in common but he's...

I think I might be falling out of love with my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him. What do I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I'm in a dilemma and really need some help. Although I have a boyfriend, I've started to fall for a different guy, which sounds really shallow I know, but please read my explanation of the situation. I truly don't know what to do. :( I'm 19, a...

Am I being a doormat for her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Here is my agony. I was in a long-term relationship with my partner for six years, when I met a girl online that I developed a great friendship with, after about 15 months of corresponding daily we started developing feelings for one another. These ...

Nude Pictures. I just did a mistake. Do you guys think my friends would understand me and forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - hi will i ever find a boyfriend? i did something a year ago its almost two years. i went to a chatting site and i have friends who are gay,bi, etc. and straight a lot. and i was so bored a few days before i took pics with my pc nude. i know i shou...

Stuck between my ex and two other guys. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - hey, right this might be abit confussing so sorry in advance. before i met my ex i signed up to this dating site, i admit i didnt want nothing from it just one of the girls was on about it so i thought id give it ago. through this site i met ...

Why would this guy still be on the dating site? I feel so used and disillusioned!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

2 October 2011 (?) - I met a guy last week from a dating site for the first time. We had an amazing time and had sex which was fantastic! Of course this all sounds quick, but I believe it was the right thing to do at the time even though we only knew each other couple ...

I don't want to lose my online guy!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

2 October 2011 (F) - i have been talking to this online guy for 7 months over phone everynight for hours. we laugh and joke and sometimes have phone sex. I know everything about his family, ex etc and he talks to me when sad. He told me he likes me alot . the last ...

We've Been Together For Two Years, Now He Suddenly Won't Take My Calls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

2 October 2011 (F) - I really need help,I have no idea what to do. I have been with this man for 2 years..we met online. We spoke every day on the phone, sometimes two or three times a day.Unfortunately, neither of us has had the means to travel, but we've been okay ...