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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I am unsure how to help my online girlfriend with her sexual needs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - This will probably sound odd at first, but please bear with me. So for the past eight months, I have been dating this girl in MA online, and for the most part, everything has been going fine. We have our ups and downs, but we love oneanother deepl...

How do I get out of this awkward dating thing with this guy I met through a dating website? I'm just not good at saying no or bringing up these things. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hey All! So I met this guy through a dating website but Frankly meeting someone through a dating website is not a ideal thing for me and I just did it because my friend forced me to join it. I have quit it now because I don't think it works f...

Should I have phone sex when I don't think we'll ever meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I met a guy online who appears to like me, but only wants to have phone sex with me and although we live in different states, I don't think we'll ever meet. What are the chances of our ever getting together?...

I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to ...

When is the right time to take down dating profile when you've met someone you like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts I've been dating someone for several weeks, all is going well, and it's getting increasingly intimate though we havent had sex. I only date one person at a time, which is still normal for my generation in the UK. I met him online and...

Text him again? Wait a few days, then text? Or just forget about him altogether and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I sent a guy I've been meeting a text last Monday at almost 12am (end of monday). Monday was a day off here for most not sure if him since he always works night shifts and he doesn't always know when he works. Usually he's off Mondays and Tuesdays ...

Should I go for it or not? Is he into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Last October I got to know this guy on a night out (found out we had stuff in common, are on the same course, same uni etc) nothing happened that night but he emailed me on Facebook about timetables got talking and he gave me his number. We w...

Is there a lie I can make up to get myself out of this awkward situation or do I have to tell the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I recently meet a guy online and we've been on a few dates. I really like him and I see a future there and so does he. But I'm constantly sneaking behind my families back because I'm too ashamed to tell them I met someone online. I've met peo...

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...

He wants a break after 3 months, he's not sure when he'll be ready to start dating me again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

21 May 2013 (?) - I met a guy online around 3 months ago. I wasn't initially into him but I liked him so I decided to give it a go. He runs his own startup business therefore we had an understanding from the off that we'd only see each other infrequently. He'd had ...

Online dating: yay or nay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I signed up for an online dating site and received a few messages already. Then I realized I was too shy to even reply back to a simple message! Ugh! I thought I would give it a try but I'm still a little on the fence on whether it's a good ide...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3995 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

After connecting via a dating site, then what do I say to a potential girl friend, who I've only met online, in a first email to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - Hi. I use dating websites, but when it comes to emailing someone I have no idea what to say. I suppose I could just say "Hi I like your profile and would like to get to know you." But that just doesn't seem good enough. Do I ask her things about...

I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty y...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

Date asked if we could cut date short then said we'd go out for a drink but when the time came he never responded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - I went on a date last week with a guy I met online. We got on well, but after a few hours he said he had to leave to go to a friend's party. He asked me if I was free the next week to go for another drink. I said yes, we arranged to meet on a ...

She flirts virtually, not as much in real life, I'm interested: not sure what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

14 May 2013 (M) - Very recently, I met a girl through a professional social network (weird, I know!). We started chatting, texting every other day, till we decided to meet. After the first meeting, I made it clear that I was interested in her romantically. (I said it ...

Had a very positive message from him on the dating site, then nothing. How long do I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

12 May 2013 (M) - Hi there, so this story is a bit a complicated so it requires a little bit of background before I get to my question. So I transferred not long ago to the current university that I am attending. When I transferred I went to an official LGBT meeting ...

Fake profiles on match.com?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

12 May 2013 (M) - I'd like feedback from other guys who have used match.com. I've had a profile up for a week and already I've received quite a few winks from real hotties. I know sites do this to get gulible men to sign up so I expected one or two, but should I ...

How do you talk to a girl you don't know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

11 May 2013 (M) - How does someone get into a relationship when he has no friends? I've tried talking with girls on these social online sites but i find it awkward trying to start a conversation online with a person i've never met. I mean how do people do this?....

My friends are open about going on internet dating sites despite being married, yet I don't feel comfortable with this. Opinions please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - What do you think about this please. I have some friends they are a married Indian Hindu couple with a year old child. I have learnt from her that her husband goes onto Internet dating sites for fun. He was contacted by an escort who said she ...

He has wanted to do phone sex with me almost from the beginning. Now he wants sex face to face. How to discourage him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - I am a student. I have met a boy via facebook 5 months ago..and we started talking by phone as he wanted my number for helping me in my near exam as he was from the same stream as mine and was my senior. In the meantime my ex- boyfriend broke ...

Our online chats have left me feeling pretty intense. I don't want to screw up the first date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - So I'm separated for over a year and there is this guy who I know who has been separated as well for about a year. We've known each other in the past through mutual friends but barely ever spoke. I was on Facebook 4 nights ago and he commented on my ...

Is he still interested in me or is he saying this out of guilt or politeness??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - My ex who dumped me and moved interstate calls me a couple of times a week. I am getting mixed messages. When he phoned the last time we had a good chat about general stuff and he said it was really good to hear my voice and he said if I need a...

Advice for online dating and dating sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - What are your tips when it comes to online dating/chatting? Pros and cons of online dating? I've tried two dating sites so far. Eharmony began with a long personality questionaire. After finishing it, you're presented with your best matches ba...

Should I love him even if I know him only in Facebook and we're not seen each other yet personally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

3 May 2013 (M) - Hi friends, I am 17 now, boy. I just want to share my story and ask for help. Last year I met this guy(but only through Facebook). He was so far from where I am living right now but we are on the same country. When I saw his pictures I felt ...

He's 24. He was texting me. Then he just stopped. What can I do? Because I am aggrieved.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - I'm a 22 year-old woman who had been harbouring initial feelings of fondness for a man who happens to be two years senior to me. We had been Facebook friends since a long time, but had conversations once in a blue moon. A fortnight back w...

Sexy pictures? I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So what to do? Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. I need help i want to send my bf some sexy pictures of me. Problem is i don't know how to take these kind of pictures. Im a chubby girl with small breasts. I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So any ideas? I would like guy...

I'm confused if I ever liked this girl I met thru a friend or was I just using her as a shrink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

2 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm 27,I was in a live-in relationship with a girl for over 3 years,my family knew about it and everyone welcomed her with open arms!I belong to a very priveldged family and with god's grace we have more that what we asked for! I loved this gir...

How to approach girl. Will I have to make a random approach on Facebook or is there a better way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

2 May 2013 (M) - Hey everyone, So a while ago I saw a photo from a female friend of mine on Facebook which was with her and this really attractive girl. Didn't think much of it. Turns out I saw her on the bus going home a few days ago, I couldn't approach he...

Could I fall in love with someone who is always abroad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - I have recently started doing online dating. I was just quite tired of trying to meet nice guys in clubs because it doesn't seem to be happening for me. A lot of guys were just plain sleazy and boring on the website, but I have started talking ...