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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I'm shy. How can I tell if she really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5805 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - im 15 basicly there is the girl i like alot im not sure how she feels for me though i met her through myspace and we talk all the time on msn and text alot too ive only actualy met up with her once i am very shy so im not exactly good with gir...

I added him on Facebook. Now I need to tell him why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hi! I have sort of a question about whether to do something or not. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to an all-girls school. We have brother schools in which we are "supposed" to socialize with boys from. This is going to sound like a really s...

I don't really feel comfortable telling others that we through online dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 2 days met using a dating website, i like her alot and shes great but the fact that i used a dating site makes me feel like i was desperate and i dont really feel comfortable telling others that we met that way. Is that b...

Is cybersex classed as cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ...

How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and just realize he's just jerking me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me, and I feel torn apart. I can't seem to grasp my mind around the fact that we are not together. I need help moving on, finding my footing again, and regaining the desire to leave my house. Perhaps provid...

Why does my girlfriend role play?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - This may seem like an odd question but it deals with the relationship I am in. My question is, why do people Role play? More specifically online role playing with other people. My girlfriend does it like routine every night and she always seems...

What can I say that will get their attention and not just ignore or delete my message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I joined this online dating site a few weeks ago, and i have messaged like 6 or 7 different girls saying something like, i would love to get to know you more" and they usually read my message and never respond (it says when they read your ...

I'm in love with him, but he's going to be marrying the bride his family choses for him... I don't know how to cope with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi..!! i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get m...

On again, off again with my online girlfriend, tomorrow night we decide what our status is... I need some advice to help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi, umm.. i have a gf, well, i donno if its a "real gf", we met through a website called bebo, its similar to facebook and myspace.. i live in new zealand, she does in australia, i'm 18 in college shes 17 in her senior year. we've known eac...

Just found out that my bf has collected photos of women's breasts sent by email!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I just discovered that my boyfriend has collected photos of womens breasts sent to him by email. He met these women online and made the requests personally. I also viewed some messages that he printed and kept, telling a few of the women that he had ...

She wants space and to date other people, I don't have a problem with that. Should I back off completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - im a 33 yr old who has a realtionship question--i met a girl on the internet--it was supposed to be only a friend with benefits--but we clicked the first night we met---after the 3 rd time of hanging out i was staying the night--we continiued seeing ...

I'm not sure what to do with what I've seen on myspace!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hello aunts i need your help well i have a boyfriend who i love very much and i kno he loves me but he does some things i do not approve of well he has this so called friend and when i went on myspace today i looked at her pictures and i saw ...

He wants to meet me again, but is moving too fast, saying why wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Just met this guy online..... we met briefly and we kissed. Now he wants to meet me again, but is sending me texts saying he wants to make love to me. I'm not happy with moving so fast, and have told him this.... but he feels we have a great con...

Met online and I don't think he has a clue how I felt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - I've been chatting with this guy for about 8 months on AIM who I met through a movie forum. We're both from BC but live about an hour away from each other and have never met. I like him quite a bit, but we have only chatted as friends, although I ...

Should I take a chance with my online dater and really meet for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - i have met this kind and loving man over the internet he gave me his phone number and we have been talking on the phone for several weeks. I love him but i am not all that sure becuz its only been a couple of WEEKS.He is the sweetest guy i have ever ...

How do I talk to a guy online without giving the wrong impression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - How do I talk to a guy over the internet without giving the wrong impresson? ?...

I don't love my wife anymore, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Dear all, I know my wife thru internet. I live in US and she is in other country. After almost one year chatting and went there to see her. We got married. Because of the situation, she can't live with me or come here to stay with me. So she stud...

A cyber-affair and lies. How can I ever trust him after that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have lived together for 2 and up until last week, he was (minus a few stupid arguments)"Mr Perfect". last weekend, for whatever reason... i had a little look on his mobile phone. i saw a message from a...

We haven't talked on line for months, I'm wondering what happened, and if I should just call him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - so about ten months ago i met this guy online. Its not creepy and he's not a pervert. Im 16 and he's 18. We became really good friends and called and talked all the time. He lives on the east coast and i live in utah. Around christmas he started ...

Is he being honest and true about me, and the possibility of a relationship between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hello there! I've been seeing this guy by now 4 times in three months and talking on the phone many times. The last time we spent together was last saturday from 9:30am till 11:30pm. He wanted me to go to his place and meet his cats, after he showed ...

My job is to chat to other men online - but my Bf dumped me for it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Another question.... Can someone please inform me of why my BF of almost 6 yrs all of a sudden thinks I have an addiction to being a X rated chathost, when he has known from day one what I do for $$. I also have been working in his office for almo...

Please help me, I'm so desperate to save my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I made the biggest mistake of my life last march. I met some guy on the internet. We ended up having sex and now my marriage is on the verge of getting divorced. I want to know how i can fix it. I have two kids in this mess as well. I still love...

How do I leave the past in the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - ok, i am new to this site. i am at logger heads with myself. me and my ex were together for 5 years, we met on the net, chatted a few weeks before i saw a pic and then i panicked cos he wasn't what i hoped for..by this time we were already get...

He's pretty possessive or controlling, I'm just wondering if I should worry about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - I'm almost 18 years old and my boyfriend is almost 19. My boyfriend and I started dating online about a year ago, and we finally met this month and it was great. He's an amazing person and we're very very much alike, and very very much in love. ...

Did my calling him have any effect on him? Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - My crush send me a message that he's going deployed next thursday to Asia. So, I called him on the phone to wish him good luck. He was very surprised mainly cuz he's stationed in NC and I'm in Fla. so we keep contact by email. In his message ...

He doesn't trust me because I'm a chat host and love to talk naughty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Try to make this short for you. I am a chathost on an internet service, my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs knows what I do and the reason being the money I make? He recently intercepted an email from a friend that implied that I was emailing...

Woman I fancied and had fallen in love with now has a boyfriend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone! Over a year ago I started speaking to a young woman on a social website in Lithuania. I eventually met her a few times in Lithuania(as I was visiting the country to see friends. We went out to bars and restaurants to chat and soci...

My online girlfriend is starting to ask for things that make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Ok well I suppose it's like this I began internet dating over a while now and I found a good one I made some friends on it and got to know people well. I met a girl on there and we got to talking and everything was going fine she sent me a photo of ...

We met via on line dating, is it too soon to ask if he has other dates in parallel? We have been intimate already.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I recently met a guy on an on-line dating site. We have been dating for a couple of months and sleeping together as well. Out of curiosity, I went on the site to see when he was last on-line, and it was TODAY. How do I approach him about this? I ...

We've been together for 6 years after meeting on line. I dislike his on line activity and do not trust him, should I end it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been chatting online to strangers. I know that he has done it in the past and he promised that he wouldn't do it again. He has said that he hasnt and doesnt want to meet any of them but I feel I cant trust him. Should I try agai...

He wants naked pictures of me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. Its a long distance relationship. To be honest Ive never met him before yet. He is a friend of mines boyfriends brother. We enjoy talking to each other everynight for more than 4 hours. We just ...

What to do, bring the ring with me when visit her, or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

19 May 2008 (M) - So I met this girl online, I live in canada she's in the US. Shes been married before and it didnt work out, also in a pretty shitty relationship where the guy turned out to be married. Im a single dad, my daughters 11 and they've met and are fine ...

Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his ...

The man I met online made me feel like a princess. Now he wants to take things a bit slower. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - I was married for 16 years to a man who in general treated me well but ultimately chose to cheat on me throughout the marriage. We are divorced now. I went on a dating site and met a man who was very intersted in me. Everything happened very fast ...

Is it wrong of me to want some answers as to why he chats with other girls on his MSN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - OK, here's the scenario. I've posted a question before about 2 weeks ago about how I think my partner is cheating on me, to which I got some good replies. My question now is connected to this, but its been kind of bothering me. My b/f and I have b...

He still denys the internet chatting even though I've seen the emails with my own eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - please help as i dont know if im making the right choice....i've split up with my boyfriend of 2 years because of lies about money and talking to girls online but i dont know if im making the right decision. he still denys the internet chatting even ...

I met someone through online dating and now I don't want to mess it up. Advice please.

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16 May 2008 (F) - I have recently met someone through an online dating site and, to my surprise, I really like him. We seem to have lots in common from things that seem trivial to really important things. My problem is that I have had some really bad experiences ...

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) - I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

Is he making enough of an effort? Or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I recently joined an internet dating site, after my long term partner and I split up, as I thought it would be a good way to meet people. I initially went on for friendship (with men and women .... i do already have my ...

I'd like to go on a date with her, but I think I might have been too keen. Have I made a mess of it all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

14 May 2008 (M) - I gt talking to a girl a couple of weeks ago from a dating site (plentyoffish.com). She said she was just looking for dating, nothing else. We messaged and texted for a couple days until I mentioned 'girlfriend' in a message. (I'd like to date ...

Should men pay on the first 'date'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

13 May 2008 (M) - Question #1 I met a woman on an online dating service. She suggested we should meet up for coffee and I agreed and suggested a time and place. When we finished she said she would go to the restroom while I took care of the bill. She didn’t offe...

Should I include her in my future or not??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - About 6 months ago i met this really great girl through the internet. We met on a dating site, but we were there just to find people to chat with (wasn't strictly at dating site) because we had both just come to terms with our sexuality. An...

What do guys in their 25's think, and how do they think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - I need some help from the guys, girls can help too. My question is what do guys in their 25s think, and how do they think? I am very close to this guy, we talk over msn almost everynight, and everybody knows that we are very close friends. To the ...

My 'perfect' man with a girlfriend....Is he giving me signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Hello newbie here!! I have been single for over a year now and recently been email/facebook flirting with a guy who is quite local to me. He instigated it by emailing me first off (approx 1 month ago). I originally know him from university altho...

Should I be worried about the girls he chats to on the pc or should I just brush it under the carpet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Hi, any suggestions or help would be gratefully appreciated. My partner and I have been together for 3 yrs and had a baby son 4 mths ago. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do, mainly to do with money as we own a house together and...

I think my husband is having a cyber affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having a cyber affair from his work computer which I cannot access. He is on travel, and appears online claiming to be working very late at night. How can I go about seeing that he is telling the truth or not? ...

I don't want to tell him I like him. Not yet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Hi! I really need some help. I kind of like this guy...He is soooo cute, tall, green eyes...He is also charming and smart, funny, etc... We have been flirting for a while but I don't know if he likes me too... I don't want to tell him I like hi...

I met a guy on a dating site. I'm nervous. Am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am looking for some advice. My partner left me 3 months ago when I was ill and although I have my own friends, i joined an internet friendship and dating site for company and interaction but for friendship only. Howe...

Should I stay or go....internet cheating???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I recently got back into a relationship with my ex. We've known each other for 3 years and were apart for 6 months. We've been back together for 3 months and everything was going so well until I looked at the cookies on my computer and noticed ...

I want us to live together but how can that happen if he is reluctant to even see me?? He says he feels pressurised, I think he is not used to being in a serious relation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now. He's 23 and i'm 22. I met him online and we met almost instantly despite me living in Manchester and him in London. 8 Months in to the relationship I decided to move down here to be with him. ...