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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Torn between two brilliant online girls who I both care for but I know I have to pick one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I have met two incredible girls online and have met one of them but with the one i haven't met yet we have already arranged to go away in March for her birthday. I am having to talk to the one i haven't met yet online because i am currently on ...

Sex at the wrong time(too early)? I feel I've complicated our situation by over-analysing it, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - OK everyone, here goes with a daft question more to do with younger people, instead of a middle aged woman! I have recently separated and joined a dating site; met up with a local guy and visited him, just after Xmas. He sent a lot of emails an...

I'm in love but don't know how to take the next step, I'm really scared to mess this up so what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - im not sure wt the next stp is.... i mean i talk to her online, shes 16 im 14... i think about her ALL of the time and i mean ALL of the time... i kno we arent ready for a relationship even if she loved me - i dont see how she could love me tho......

He accidentally last night gave me a link to his blog - in which I read he likes me. I've been obsessed with him for months, and I'm confused about how to react to this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I'm so confused right now! I know this guy, who I have liked for aaaages and we talk loads etc etc. But last night over the internet he accidentally gave me the link to his internet blog before quickly correcting himself and giving me the one to ...

I've met a guy online. Should I meet him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have meet someone online. We are planning to meet but I am not sure what the best way to do this is. We live about 20 miles from one another. Does anyone have any advise on the best way to go about meeting? It would be wonderful to hear your ...

I'm a teacher and have formed a good online friendship with a quite mature teenager(17). Am I wrong to want to meet her - or even to be talking to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - hi there. i am a 28 year old teacher..been working near London for about 5 years.. problem is I met a girl on line about 4 months ago..she is 17 doing 'A' levels in a different school (about 100 miles away) i might add, and is quite mature.....

I'm experimenting with my sexuality and my bf was first ok with me dating other men as well, but now he has changed his mind! Is it wrong of him to change the rules halfway through, or am I just being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I'm bisexual and recently entered into a long distance relationship with a guy on the proviso that i be allowed to experiment with other guys because i have no sexual experience and am still in the middle of discovering who i am. At first he ag...

I love him to bits but just as a mate..how do I tell him without breaking his heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So, i met this guy on the internet we hit it off great, but when we met up, i really liked him but he didnt like me. We had been dating for a month online and when i finally met him, he broke up with me telling me im not his type, but i really d...

She's under the impression it's her idea to take things slow, when in fact it's mine! I noticed strange reactions, should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strang...

My (and her) biggest problem - lack of sex. She is already in a relationship but we plan to act upon the mutual sexual attraction. Should we do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I need help. I know what I plan to do is wrong, but it doesn't make me wanna stop. I met a girl, across the net on a game, long story short, both her and her partner share the account, he has become a good friend to me too. Although a ...

Should I proceed with my potential long distance guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - Greetings Dear Cupid! I have a very nice person aproaching me on yahoo personals, we live far apart. He's in New Mexico and I am in Wisconsin. I do like all about him...sure I proceed with it? What is he looking to get from me? just a client fo...

I met him online and think we are very well matched, but he has an unusual situation with an ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met a guy who is 32, and i am 48 through a respectable online profile a week or so ago, we spoke regularly and for sometimes hours on end finding we hit it off extremely well, i knew he had children from a previous marriage 2 boys and he said he ...

Am I just setting myself up for another painful episoide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - A few months agoI have asked help on how to deal with a man i have been chatting online with for 18 months as he had seemed to have pulled away. I found out later that he had met a girl and that he had been looking at houses in my country to move...

How do you succeed in getting to know an online acquaintance that you fancy, more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - There's this girl who I've met once with a group of friends. After about a month I added her on msn and for the first time had conversation. She said hi first and was very friendly. I fancy her. I'd like to get to know her more and hopefully meet up ...

Would we make better friends than partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hopefully someone can help me with this as I’ve got into quite a mess. I met my boyfriend when I was 19 (I’m 25 now) and just about to go into my second year at university. I met him at home in the summer break and he was my first real boyfr...

Is my online guy worth fighting for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - i met this really nice man online we hit if off straight away and met not long after since we have seen each other every weekend and rang and text each oher every day without fail he seemed so keen we even went way for the weekend he met all my ...

When I met up with my online date things weren't so terrific. I still like him though but he seems to have lost his interest, what should I do to make him come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - well, i met a boy over the internet, a few months ago, then we started dating, he looked really hot in his pictures and had a great personality, and he only lived a hour away in the same country. so me and my mate went to meet him. he was so ...

My online friend is threatening to kill himself if I say no to him. I'm 14 he is 19, I'm scared, what shall I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - please dearcupid approve this quickly! it might be too late otherwise! i have been good friends with this guy on the internet for about 2 years now and he has ever mentionwed having feelings from me. he lives a long way away from me and is 5 years ...

Where do I find decent girls with morals? Do they still exist?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

15 December 2007 (M) - Hi all, I have been a little troubled lately. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy 4 years older than me online and I found out that he is a rich sex hound. Sex-crazed, no morals, rich, conceited and he doesn't give a damn about screwing around....

I want to secretly visit my LD bf - who lives abroad - without telling my mother. Good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - they say people will do ANYTHING for the love. so okay i got to know this guy who lives in another country. and we're currently on a long distance relationship. i love him so much i swear and i guess he loves me back the same. and recently i have t...

Worried I've become to fond of a girl I've only met online...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - I really like a certain young lady, who i came across on the internet, she has said that she really likes me as i have to her. I have not yet met her in "real life" however we regularly speak on the phone, i feel a bit stupid being so concern...

We have a brilliant relationship and hot sex life, so why does he need all these virtual chats?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - why is my husband addicted to chatrooms and online flirting? why can't he realise what he's doing to me. i've caught him many times and every time he says it will stop. we have a brilliant relationship and hot sex life, so why does he need all this ...

I don't want to pay to meet someone - any good sites that you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I would like some advice about online dating sites. I would like to know if any of you have any recommendations about what sites are good or what might be scams. I would prefer something free since paying to meet s...

I lied (and lied) to a man I met online...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - i lied to a man i met online. i lied about almost everything except my views on certain subjects, my feelings for him, some things about my past,my clumsiness and "dorkiness", things like that. i didn't want to lie to him, but something inside me ...

I don't think he trusts me anymore after he broke off our LDR.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and as things may seem great to others. I'm not happy. We only chat on a chat site cos he lives about 2000 km away but he comes to visit me every holiday. He is really sweet but when we apart...

How can I gain confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - I am a very shy person, especially when it comes to girls. I am very confident and creative when i text them, weather its flirting or not. Unfortunately, as soon as i call them or attempt a conversation in person, i either freeze up or feel like ...

I don't want to end up end up comprimising our relationship because of my trust issues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - I have, almost major trust issues, with my girlfriend. she is christian and she says that its against her religion to cheat. but i have strong feelings that she is affiliated with another man. im 14 and shes 15 and we are crazy about eachother. we ...

I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...

How do I get out of this nightmare relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 December 2007 (F) - Im stuck in a hopeless 'relationship' with no way out and its making me feel so down. A few months ago i met a guy, we were chatting on the internet and decided to meet. After our first date though he text me and said he doesnt want a relation...

I talked to a boy from a fake account created for other purposes - and we fell in love, but he didn't know I was a boy! How can I make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 17 year old male and I have done a terrible thing, something that I deeply regret and am ashamed of. About a year ago, a friend was having problems with her boyfriend and wanted to find out if he was cheating on her. So to c...

Is it possible to think the person you're with is lovely and shouldn't change, but you don't want to be with them any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - I have posted previously here but would love a new perspective on this so I can move on. I was seeing my girl for just 2 1/2 months after we met on an internet dating site. We prob went too fast too quick, slept together v.early, met eachothe...

Shes a fun girl...but her last minuete cancellations throw me off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - Met this girl on a dating website. Talked to her a few times over the phone. I've tried to get her to go on a date with me twice. Both times she's said yes, but both times she's canceled and been really apologetic about it afterwards. She's a really...

My ex seems to expect me to simply be her friend after all the hurt she's caused me... But her Father died today. Now I have the chance to be a friend, but I'm worried that I may hurt myself. What can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 December 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I posted a question earlier today, but there has been a serious and tragic twist since this morning. My girlfriend broke up with me almost 6 months ago after she decided our long distance (240 miles) relationship was too much to bear...

I gave my phone number to an on line acquaintance, he initially said he was 18, then admitted to be much older and asked for a date in matter of days. Should I keep this "friendship" ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - Okay, so we were chatting in a chatroom and I am right now fifteen. I ended up giving out my phone number to this guy who said who was eighteen. We did have good conversations for a while and then today he admitted that he's actually 25...

I've asked her a thousand times if she has cheated on me and she denies it, however I still have suspicions. Any way to monitor her online and other activities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

8 December 2007 (M) - I met my girlfriend online. She lives about 3 states away from me. I suspect that she is cheating on me. We onl get to talk by emails, chat rooms, etc. and she isnt comfortable about her giving me her number. Whenever she does get on, its already ...

Does this online guy seem like a player??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

6 December 2007 (F) - I'm 32 and a single mom, been on my own for 4 years (kid is 4.5), had been with ex for 12 years on and off (emotionally abusive relationship). So 3 months ago I met a guy online. Since then we've texted couple times a week, and he calls every ot...

Whats the nicest way to tell a girl I am not interested, when online dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

5 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am trying online dating, and starting to have some success. But what if a girls sends me her picture and i know that i dont feel any attraction towards her. What is the best way to deal with this? Is there a nice way of saying it that i dont t...

I met her but she looked nothing like her picture!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

3 December 2007 (M) - I'm a single gentleman thats been divorced for nearly fourteen years. During this time most of my spare time has been raising my only child - a son. Now that he's off on his own at college there has been an enormous void in my life. I've tried to go ...

We are in a long distance relationship...and are thinking of moving together but are scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) - I met this guy over the internet like 6 years ago we have met 3 times (he have met my family and I have met his). We live like 4,000 miles apart. I love him and I know he loves me too but we are not too sure about it. This time I don't have this ...