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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

What is he thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now..met him online. I still haven't met him in person. He's a great guy..but the whole online thing.. hmmm I'm giving it a few days. I guess it all comes down to him asking, when, and when am I going to ...

He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think ...

She proposed to him over the internet and they haven't even met yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend has meet this girl on the internet, well dating site, they started going out the day they started talking she asked him, anyway she seems madley in love with him, talking about moving down to where we live, she lives in Scotland, we ...

Is it worth trying to get him back? He's fallen in love with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years and we have just split up. i just dont know what to do. he joined friends reunited and got in contact with a girl he knew at school, they have been chatting on msn and texting and apparently have ...

Should I try to keep my feet on the floor or just go with the flow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Just over 3 weeks ago I was on a dating site I occassionally visit. I normally go on and wait for guys to approach me (even though I don't usually have any interest in the guys who do) but on this occassion I decided to message a guy 5 years ...

How do I make a decision when I have strong feelings for both of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I had been dating a man for over two years. As he is in mining he was hardly ever home, and I lived about two hours away and would travel to see him when he was. We were in love, but then when I suggested it was time for us to live together he ...

Am I stupid to keep giving him money I don't have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 47 year old man who has just met a 25 year old man on a sex web site. The problem is I have just admitted to him that I am gay and no one else knows apart from him. He is also gay and a very understanding man. He is a student in another ...

My question is what can I do to GET OVER HIM!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so I'm sitting here trying to figure out how to get over this crush with a guy I barely know. I mean, I know him because we attended grammar school together but that was so long ago! We came across each other online recently but it hasn't gone ...

I just want my normal family life again. You think that is possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I could really be doing with some help at the minute. This isnt the first time ive posted on here and this is the same problem. My husband and i were going through a difficult time which i can now see improving, the problem is that while we were ...

Was I just a game for the "Internet man", something to play with whilst he was bored?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Hi, Back in August 2002 I met online this fantastic and exciting man. From 3 seconds in there was this amazing sexual attraction. After about 4 months he asked me to meet him and so I went along and we became great friends. I realised that he wanted ...

Online dirtiness until I found out she has a BF. Now I feel bad and I still like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - ok me and this girl really like each other, we was talking online and we did dirty things online also but then she told me she has a boyfriend, i felt really bad for what i did with her i didnt know she have a boyfriend what should i do? ...

I'm worried about my friend's LDR with a girl he's just met on a dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 330 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - One of my best friends, has joined a dating website, hes meet this girl throught it they been going out for about 2 weeks she was the one who clicked on him, and they exchanged numbers, by that evening she had asked him out and he said yes, she ...

I think she is cheating but it's weird..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - Ok I am in a bit of a problem and not sure how to handle this, I am not new to the dating game but this is one of the more complex problems I have had. We will start from when we first met, I met my girlfriend online one year ago (a few days ago ...

How can I stop myself from obsessing over the girl who almost ruined our relationship??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a female and I need serious help about this guy... We dated for nearly 2 years when everything went bad. Another girl interfered, they dated for a month or so, then broke up because he wanted to be with me. Yet, we still had problems bec...

Found wife's e-mails... bad news, or harmless?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - O.K. here's the situation..... I've been married to my wife for 7 years and we've been together for 10. I've always been able to trust her, that's one of the qualities that I always loved about her. Myself, I would like to think I am a goo...

What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. ...

Should I meet him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - James (one of my freinds at work) has toled me that there's this guy (one of his freinds) that thinks I'm hot but would never say anything because he's shy. From what I have heard about him he's realy nice. I toled James that I didn't want to meet ...

I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...

I feel like he has a secret life and fantasies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - em i crazy been with a guy 10 years he thinks i want and need sex all the time with him and he thinks i have other parnter he always has but he says he loves me he recently wanted me to exlpore and tell him about it after words so i tryd we meet ...

Where did I go wrong and why do I feel regret?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Anybody, somebody, please provide your input for my situation. I feel stupid, but I need sincere words from someone to tell me where I did wrong or if I am doing the right thing. I met this guy over a chat room, who I felt deeply emotionally. We'...

Can I continue on in a relationship with a guilty conscience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I've met my current partner few months ago over the internet. I was far from a happy person at the time, I was shortly after being rejected by someone I was courting and all in all it everything was going just... plain bad. I wasn't even considering ...

On and off... why is this happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 335 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hi: I am not sure where to start. About 2 years ago I met this guy online. I wasn't looking to flirt or make a relationship, it was more of a social site. We both were in long-distance relationships at the time, and we started talking. One thing le...

Do you think he's ready for a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Earlier this year,this guy i knew in person a long time ago,and have recently got back intouch with online,asked to see more photos of me,as he didnt recognise me,since we hadnt seen each other for a long time,and only knew each other abit in person ...

Are there any dating sites about relocation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 335 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Is there a dating site that will introduce American women to Brits who want to relocate to America? ...

How do I move on from being in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - This is the first time ive done this so please bare with me. Im 27 yrs old, im currently married, have been for 6 and a half years and i have 2 kids. For a little over a year my husband and I have had our ups and downs and I suffer from depression. ...

I've met him twice but he never calls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I am dating this guy I met on the internet. He was honest by saying he want only an affair. The problem is the last 2 times I spent the weekend, after I had gone back home, he does not write me or ask how my journey back home was. Is it normal i...

I don't want any forced commitment from him, only for him to acknowlege his child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

20 December 2008 (?) - I am 26. I met this guy on the internet. We had a date. I asked him what type of relationship he wanted from me. He said he wants an affair that he is dedicated to his work and have no time for serious relationship. I decided to go on with him h...

Why the heck is he calling me "buddy"?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so I've known this guy since May of this year..met him thru an online dating site. At the time I was starting a new relationship, so I just saw it as friends. We get along just great and have so many things in common. After the break-up we went ...

What do you think he's trying to tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - hi ..l just met someone online and we r gettin along so good so far then when l told him l will be leavin myspace then he replied back to me sayin tht ( u cant leave me and l need you ) !!! now what is he tryin to tell me ??? does he like me or mo...

Does my Internet guy genuinly like me? Friends think he wants to use me for sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

19 December 2008 (F) - I've known a guy know for 3 years over the internet. Since then we've really got to know eachother well, and became really flirty with eachother. Over the past 3 years I've started to really fall for him, but the problem is, he lives 4 hours away by ...

Silent treatment after six months of constant contact

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Six months ago I met a man on-line. We e-mailed each other several times a day, talked on the phone constantly and developed a great friendship. Being on different coasts I suppose made it safe for him. He's 43 and has never been married and ...

Fell in love on-line, now heart broken, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I know this is going to sound sad and pathetic, but I really need help. On Myspace there's this thing called Roleplaying(they probably have it on other sites like it too), it's where you use someone else's (famous or not) pictures and talk with ...

Should I just give up on being in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi and thanks for reading this! Ok here goes ...i joined an online dating site for about a month i was feeling really down because all my friends seem to be in relationships and i'm the odd one out!i'm very attractive and i'm a very educated wo...

What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hello! Ok so I'm getting to know this guy..met him thru an online dating site. We're calling and texting each other frequently..he even called me a few times while around his friends. Or during his break.. I was playing a little hard to get at ...

How can I make this relationship last till I can come and get her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - I am inlove with one lady, we haven't met, we just started this relationship in the net, and suddenly we start falling inlove with each other, well i am working as an offshore worker that is why i haven't seen her, all i want now is a little advice ...

Two long distance romances at once.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - in the world there are 2 people i really really have a crush on. but they live so far away. one of the girls is 16, she lives 5/6 hours away by car (but still in england) and the other girl is 16, and lives in New Zealand... and im a 16 year old boy ...

How can I keep my online guy interested. He is not ready to meet yet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - Hi there all, iv met this guy a month ago on internet, i do like him alot, he lives near me too. jus from talking, i can tell we get on well. we swapped numbers and talk everyday, through sms. And we flirt like crazy. I asked if he wanted meet...

He said he can't give me what I want...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I have been chatting to a guy on the internet for a year, said he loves me, but can't give me what I want, says loves chatting etc, he has my address but I don't have his. He has never mentioned meeting, but sent flowers for my birthday. We are ...

Am I crazy... for even wanting to be his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 341 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I met someone on a dating site. We agreed to meet mutually after a few emails and about a week of telephone calls. Our first meeting was ice cream. Our second meeting we had great sex (we are a 50 something couple) and this continued on for about ...

How long should I wait before texting her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - i am asking for a little advice! ive been kinda talkin wit this girl, but just through emails and her house phone bc she didnt want me to have her cell # just yet! well tonight she gave me her cell and told me she wanted me to have it. im the type ...

How do I go about meeting her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

16 December 2008 (M) - This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol...

I am so confused, so hurt yet so drawn to this guy!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

16 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy online just over 2 years ago(about 3 months after my divorce was finalized) and we've had a on off relationship since then. The very first time he broke up with me after we slept together the first time because he is scared of ...

Do you think she'd still be interested even although a lot of her friends are all body builders?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - hi, met a girl this weekend. we'r talking on a networking site now. im not sure if she is into me or not yet but heres the thing..... she was living with her last BF and has a child with him. im in uni and living with my parents. shes a y...

Why doesn't he answer my e-mails? Is he trying to forget me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 341 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - My friend and I are in love however we can't be together for several reasons, the main one is that he is living in another country at the moment for some time (he is still not sure for how long) due to work. We normally e-mail each other a lot but ...

He asked for my address which I didn't give him, now he's gone and called it quits.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been talking to a guy in Denmark for 4 months, my family are so againist this and tried everything to get me to stop but I have fallen so hard for this man. This was so new to me, never cared much for the computer before. Anyway he ...

Am I thinking too much? Or we are simply over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Hi all. We haven't meet each other after a fight 3 weeks ago. Few days after the fight, I called her, she said it is over. When we met online, she is there talking to me. It isn't as much as before but from her saying, am still her bf. 2 we...

Is it right? Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 342 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Okay. Well I'm 15 and he's 21. We met on the internet and I am in love with him. We have spoke about the relationship and how it could work and he says he loves me and he is not just with me for sex because he said he will wait till I'm 16 which is ...

Online dating: should I message again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 342 days ago

14 December 2008 (M) - I'm trying an online dating site. If anyone has any experience with this, I would appreciate your insight. I really don't care if women read my messages and don't reply but sometimes I message prospects and my message is never read nor is my p...

I never know when he is joking! He said he wants to marry me before we went out for the third time!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

14 December 2008 (F) - Hi! I met this guy from the internet and started to go out with him. I'm starting to like him but it seems we have a communication problem. I never know when he is joking. He has always been hinting that he seriously wants to marry me before...

Do I love him or is it just a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

13 December 2008 (F) - I have known this boy for 7years now and he asked me out on msn... i was thinking about it When he phoned me i went shy and then my legs went like jelly thursday he was talking to a girl and i went quiet and i felt pissed off with her my b...