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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Online he says he loves me but he won't meet me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - i meet a 26 year old guy on a dating site and we started talking on the phone alot his was perfect he made me feel so special..he is the first men in my life that made me feel good about myself.He would tell me me that he likes me and that he was ...

Should I show him the new and improved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Ok I like this guy on the internet. He seemed to be interested in me until I showed him a few pictures. He has dated models in the past, at least that's what he's said and I'm not the model type though I think I'm cute and pretty sometimes. So o...

Is it virtual love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I've been talking to a guy that I met on the internet a little over a month ago. He had posted a personal ad where he specified that he was looking for someone to talk to about anything and everything, and so I responded and now we communicate ...

I want to send this guy pictures of me, but I'm slightly overweight. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Okay I put up a profile for fun and have been talking to this guy. He lives pretty far in another state. We didn't meet on a dating site but just had a connection (pun Not intended) So the time has kind of come for us to exchange pictures. The ...

How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

Is he just trying to keep in my good books?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, ive been talking to this guy since september last year and we have never met, we met on the site plenty of fish. Anyway ive always wanted to meet him but hes always busy saying working or hes a big football fan so going to football all ...

Now that we've met he doesn't initiate contact like before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi all. I would appreciate some opinions on this matter. Thanks! I met a guy on a dating website. It is the first time I have ever used a site like that. We got to know each other and eventually met. I think it went well, and I really like him....

I am ashamed of my looks so I used photos of a model instead of myself online!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I feel so sad and ashamed! I am very insecure about myself even though some ppl have told me I'm pretty I just don't see it or see mysef like that. Then I did a Horrible thing I'm terribly ashamed of. I pretended to be this other girl online. ...

Is an underware picture a good conversation starter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I like this guy and we have sent each other pics naked but our faces are not in them and we trust each other, but we stopped and are our conversations are getting dull, I want to know if I should send him a pic of me trying on underwear asking him ...

Dating is frying my brain and I am becoming obsessive and stupid! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys. So, I'm sure this is going to be a bit redundant, as I'm sure others have asked similar questions in the past, but I really am confused and am curious as to what people think about my situation in particular. This is a book, unfortunately. ...

Met a girl online, but she has a boyfriend! Should I just stop contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I've met some girl online we get along really well, Always talking (alot) Very open and honest, Play games together and even watch movies together..Problem is she has a bf :/ She knows how i feel and i beleive she likes me but i dont know anymor...

Why am I so entranced by this freak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this guy I met online for about 2 years now. I like him so much and I am not sure why. He's not the nicest guy, for example, he refused to come see me for the longest time until I basically gave him an ultimatum. He also places ...

I'm going to lose him if I end things, but I don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - there's this guy i met on a penpal site last summer in July; he's from Jamaica and when we started talking; we just clicked; we had so much in common especially since my background is jamaican as well. we talked every single day for hours on the ...

B/f wants me to give up job to be with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. B...

We seemed so interested in eachother, what happened with this guy online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy online for a year and we talked for hours, made plans to see eachother, and I was seriously considering going over to him, and now we just don't talk anymore? I don't understand it, I feel like I've wasted so much ...

Met a girl from online site, date was wonderful but she hasn't replied to my emails after the date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I was contacted initially by a girl on a dating site. Her phtos were absolutely stunning and her profile was obiously written by an intelligent but very guarded person, ie. it was witty and interesting but told me almost nothing about he...

I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the ...

Do you think either like me? Right now it's my friend's GF and another girl I met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

19 May 2011 (M) - hi everyone i recently posted a question on here about a girl that i liked and my feelings towards her and all of the answers that i received to me that i was in love with her. she is one of my friends' girlfriends and since i have known her she has ...

I just need an unbiased opinion on what to do. I am confused about everything now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about six months ago through an online dating service. I found him on facebook and requested him as a friend. That is when we really started talking. This was in January. He told me he only pursues then dates one woman at a time. I asked ...

I just can't figure out where this guy is with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I met this guy online. I'm in my early twenties and he's in his mid thirties. We talked on the phone a lot. He was very outgoing! Really nice gentleman. We had a lot of the same interest and he seemed lik a really cool person. We even talked a...

I'm 5 years younger than he is and I'm worried that once I tell him, he wont want anything to do with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I met this guy online about 6/7 months ago and we started out as friends. He had a girlfriend but there was something obvious between us that we couldn't ignore, despite him being in a relationship, in January he decided the relationship wasn't ...

Why will he flirt with me online, but then act awkwardly towards me in school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy (i'll call him A) for a few years, but in the past 2 years we have gotten to know each other a lot better than we used to, we're much better friends now. A talks to me on things such as MSN and facebook, and we'll ta...

Does he fancy me or see me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I need advice about a man from dating website ,he said i'm a really nice person and we are friends ,but he keeps sending me messages ,saying i have a really nice photo .Can you tell me if he fancies me or does he like me as a friend ? thanks...

Should I meet up with this guy I have feelings for? Or should I stay in an okay relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone eachother constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we ...

Birthday ideas for my online guy?

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16 May 2011 (F) - Hello again aunts and uncles! It's been a while since i posted on here, but i'm back again for more help and advice... A couple of months ago, i finally binned off my ex and joined a dating site. I met a man on there and we have been dating fo...

We're met on a website and will only get to spend time together this summer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - Well I have a boyfriend his name is "Dustin" and we say we love each other. Anyways he lives in FL n i live in Maryland. We met each other on a website. We skype and text all the time! This summer we are planning for us to hang when i go to FL to ...

I did something I regret... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I did something that I really regret on web-cam a few months ago. It was with my internet boyfriend. I still can't believe I did that. Now that we've already broke up, all I can feel is regret. I'm still a virgin, never been a real relationship, ...

Looking for advice about my online friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I have been sending messages to a man on a dating site ,almost everyday for the past 8 months .We get on well ,last week when i didn't reply to his message ,he sent me a message saying why didn't i reply and if i didn't want to carry on writing just ...

Should I end with him or try to talk to him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - I've been chatting with this guy I met on a dating website since the end of February. At one point he asked me if I wanted to meet each other and I said yes. Then he said, let's aim to meet at some point in May, because I will be BUSY in April. I ...

Headline for my online dating profile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - What's a good headline for my online dating profile? ? ? i need a catchy, flirty, headline for my dating profile. Nothing slutty.. Just something cute and sweet.. Please help? Thanks..x...

He doesn't want to appear "pussy whipped" to his online friends and makes comments at my expense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - This is a bit of a weird question. I want to know if I am being insecure of if something is amiss with this issue. My boyfriend plays games a lot as a way to escape. He has a close circle of online friends whom he speaks to a lot as he plays wi...

I really do want to trust him. How do I learn to trust him more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have some serious trust issues. There is this guy i met online with whom i get on really well and been extremely good friends for a while now. So recently we started a long distance relationship as we will meet in July and then i will move to where...

My boyfriend breaking up with me over a girl he has been talking to online!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - i am heartbroken. my boyfriend has dumped me for a girl he likes online. we live in england, and she lives in america. i cant stop crying. i have tried contacting him but he wont talk to me and he insisted its over. i have made some mistakes, and i ...

Are there others who find themselves getting attached so quickly and if so, how do you handle it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - First off let me say that I'm in my early 20's and have had so many heartbreaks, I have lost count! I have adult ADHD which I think is what makes me so impulsive in relationships and makes me become attached to a guy way too fast and end up falling ...

How do I get to see my long distance girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I can say that I am 100% in love with this girl because I've never met her in person. I'm 17 and I turn 18 in May, which is soon, and she just turned 15 this Feburary. She lives in NY and I live in CA. I want to be able to know for sure if I love ...

I feel like the biggest idiot, I used an old account on FB to flirt with my boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I did something super dumb. I had this old facebook I made a while ago for kicks and I logged back in because i was bored. I saw my boyfriend online so I decided to start chatting with him. He started flirting and I let things get out of hand. I ...

She is trying to regain my trust. Does she deserve a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - This could be sort of long. I met this girl in mid-December on a website. I had no intentions of ever getting anywhere with her. As the title suggests, we wound up in a long-distance relationship. After a little over three months, she decided t...

Do I contact him again? Or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - So, I joined an internet dating site. It's been pretty fun. So far I've met up with three guys. The first guy is now a friend, the second didn't go very well, and the third...aw, the third. He messaged me a couple of months ago and I could tell he ...

My boyfriend asked him to take me out! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I have a Very low self esteem. I had this boy friend for 3 months. Well 1 because he dumped me. Because he could no longer take me putting myself down. Well i met this guy. He was really sweet and geeky. He wanted to take me on my first date. My ...

His ex wants him back! Why did he tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Hai. Ive met this guy online since then we have been texting alot and we are about to meet tomorrow. I love this guy very much even thou i havent met him yet, and he said he love me too so we decided to date online. We have been dating online for ...

We've never met but he said he loves me. Is this strange?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - On the 7th November 2010, i started to talk to this guy online, he is 19 from California and im 16 from London, it wasnt on a dating site. So, we started talking on msn, it became every day that we would talk for at least 3 hours i asked if he had ...

But he's a player. He loves another. I love him. How do I breakup with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I fell in love with a guy... and he is a player.. I know that he is a player. He is my good friend. We met online. I know him from 4 months.I am 16. And He is 23. He helped me to come out from my last break-up. We do sex chat. (We don't do on cam ...