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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

It's our first meeting, should we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i met this guy online about two weeks ago. we are planing to meet in june. we have had phonesex twice. he is 30 and im 20. i know if we do meet we will have sex. and i want to. i just dont want him to think that i am a slut. what would you think if ...

Why am I feeling so hesitant about a relationship with this younger guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year. We have seen each other 3 time (he lives out of town). Although, I am still unsure of my feelings for him "I run hot and cold" so does he. We have some sort of connection that brings us ...

How do I draw this man closer to me and away from his work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a 22 yrs old girl. I met a guy online who is 39 years old.After we spoke for online for sometime, he asked me for an Open relationship. At that point of time , i has no clue what does that mean. So i just agreed to be friendly with him....

What is the meaning of what he said to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I met a man on facebook and suddenly started to like each other. He lives very far from here and we are realistic about the few possibilities of meeting. The only thing I want to ask is this: one day he told me something that I couldn´t understand ...

Should I meet my online guy when he comes to my country on holiday? Will this ever work between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Simply i fell in love with a german man over the internet i am irish .last summer he asked me to marry him over the internet Bizaare yes! i told him i wasnt sure and in the end i blocked him because i didnt want to hurt his feelings over the last ...

Should I Be Angry At All His Lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Last Summer Of 2010 i discovered 'Dating Sites' . Over A few Months i got into Contact with an American Man Who was working with politics etc we Spoke For Months And I fell in love :) he came to ireland in autumn and asked me to meet him i was ...

Met online guy, 1st he wants to go slow, then 2 hours later he invites me back to his place. Whats up with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy online. I'm in my early twenties and he's in his mid thirties. We talked on the phone a lot. He was very outgoing! Really nice gentleman. We had a lot of the same interest and he was seemed lik a really cool person. We even talked ...

Should I put on the online dating site that I am looking so my ex gets the hint?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site. He lied, cheated and dumped me but I loved him and was really hurt. I wanna go back on the dating site but he's on there. Should I put look...

How do I overcome my status as a "divorced" man? It seems women think I'm damaged goods!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - Okay, so I joined match.com, and I'm a little dispondant. I'm divorced, I was treated badly by my ex who was emotionally and physically abusive to me, and after trying everything I had to leave for my own safety. I have ticked the divorced box...

Why did my ex message me on a dating website?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - HI All, Some insights would be welcome please!!I split up with my ex sometime back, but we have still kept contact. I went out with someone new for around 7 weeks, and did not contact my ex, then called him up to see how he was after I ended it with ...

I am good at online rapport, but struggle at flirting in person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4749 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Just a quickie... I have met a woman I *really* like but I am rubbish at face-to-face flirting! We met eac hother in person, but live about an hour on the train away from one another so although I see her at least three times a month, the majority ...

How can I tell online if he likes me or not?

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24 April 2011 (F) - Im so confused. I met a guy on mxit. Im 20. Hes 30. He seemed to really like me. He does still tell me that he likes me but i want to be sure. Any ideas on how to know? Exept for asking him? ...

I caught him having cyber affairs. how do I deal with my cyber surfing husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Ok I'm 23 and my husband is 43, we will be married a year in May 2011. We met on a online hookup site, yes I know it sounds bad but I had just been divorced a few months and joined and out of all the guys I chatted with he was the only one who didn...

A LDR chatroom for teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - I want to find a free chat room to meet other teens who are looking for a long distance relationship, texting, skype, facebook, etc. I really haven't had any luck at my own school and it hurts me so much inside to be lonely and have to hold a whole ...

How do I talk to my unresponsive gay online friend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4754 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - So this guy I 'used to' like is giving me some doubts, making me nervous. So we "met" online, we go to school together and I found him, and now we're friends on facebook. Anyways, I guessed he was gay, hit the nail on the head, he's openly gay, lik...

Sometimes we see what our heart WANTS to see..is that what happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - dear friends I'm asking for your advices because I'm facing something new and I don't know what to do.I'm 19,and I have never had a boyfriend before,because I have never been attracted by those who tried to approach at me.When I was at high school I...

The communication between us has gone way down...did he lose interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I met a guy on Plenty of Fish, we texted back and forth for a month with pretty standard 'get to know you' questions, e.g.: what would you bring on a desert island, what are your parents like, etc. After a few weeks of texting and establishing that ...

Anyone know of chat sat badoo?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Does anyone know the chat site called BADOO?? I need advice about it to see if my partner is telling me the truth or not. Thanks x...

I want to believe he likes me. Does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - HI, This could be a long one. I known this guy for years, but we lost touch for a couple of years. He kept all my photo's and emails I sent him. WE got chatting a while ago and I realised that I still liked him. I told him I liked him and that I ...

Would it be weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - A couple days ago I met a girl, we got a long great I was just wondering if it would be weird if I added her to msn, I already have her on facebook, but shes never on and I dont want to come off as creepy...

Is it normal to talk to a guy everyday that you just met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - I just met this guy two weeks ago via an online dating site and he seems like a good catch. We share a lot of the same interests and characteristics, and we plan on meeting for the first time this week. Hence the question above, we communicate ...

How do we chat on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4756 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - How do I chat with my boyfriend on my webcame instead of talking over the phone?...

Should I show my boobs to my online boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - hi i am of 18old .i have a small doubt can i be romantic with my boyfriend? when we generally talk each other in video chat,at that time he asked me to show my boobs(chest without bra and anthing like that) i want to know can i show him what he h...

Was she just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on ...

Do you think I did the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I broke-up with my boyfriend 6 months back...Its not break-up he started ignoring me and it was online....so I decided to move on....I'm 15 and he is 26.... After few months I met one guy online... He is 24....he is nice guy...He helped me to forget ...

Should I be experiencing life and dating and not in a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long-distance relationship. He lives in Boston. I live in California. We met online in a chatroom. We have known each other and have been talking for the past three years, but have only dated for the past 2 years...

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. No...

I don't know how my BF can give up a girlfriend of 10 months for a girl whom he's been talking to for a week??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. I live with him and his family as my mum now lives in Canada (we're both moving there in October) and I don't talk to any of my family. Basically he's been talking to this girl for th...

Should I let go of this person I have grown an emotional attachment to online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17, I have been talking to him for one year, I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable, I sent him 100s of pics of me, to keep him interested, I felt like he was...

Was she ever truly in love with me? Did she only want a trip to Ireland?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on ...

Second thoughts about using this as an opener?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Ages ago, I signed up to the chat and dating site, faceparty. While I was on there, I got chatting to a girl, who was 18 at the time but now she's 21. I got her Facebook friend request accepted. We didn't chat for ages, and we haven't even met...

Do I deserve to be loved again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I never been a real relationship... But a few months ago I met this guy online and we fell in love with each other... We became girlfriend and boyfriend... We see each other on cam often, spend hours talking on the phone, and I did show him my upper ...

I put up a fake profile to monitor my son, but now I've fallen in love and don't know how to get out of it.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I set up a social networkng acct only to keep an eye on my son. Since I was only there for that purpose I put in all wrong info and a pic that was not me. Age 20 years younger. Different state etc. The problem is that I accepted a friend request ...

Does anyone think online dating can work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I joined an internet dating site. Some people said it’s worth a go, a lot of people warned me off, and told me there are a lot of users and losers out there. I met a guy, he was nice (although he seemed to have dated a lot of women via internet...

Do genuine relationships develop from internet dating or is it just a game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I joined an internet dating site. Some people said it’s worth a go, a lot of people warned me off, and told me there are a lot of users and losers out there. I met a guy, he was nice (although he seemed to have dated a lot of women via internet...

What is with this guy and his avoidance of me online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - First off, I want to apologize in advance for this question because i know how ridiculous this is going to sound, but it's driving me insane not knowing the reason behind his thinking. So here goes..... Lately I've been noticing that this guy...

Is it a good idea to talk to these people I've met online? One is an ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - In the past few years I have been talking to many people online, first in a multiplayer games site for many years (pogo.com) and more recently, a few months ago, on a teen site. I have had two online girlfriends (long distance and purely online as...

How to deal with online dating rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I've started to try online dating. It's so frustrating for a guy. I'm not the best looking out there. I send my responses. No response. One girl messaged me. I asked to hang out with her. She says she's busy. We still talk to each other. ...

I lied about being 13 and told him I'm 15; turns out he's 18 and he really likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - i really need anyones help i could get at the moment so any comments will do. i met this guy on the internet a few weeks ago,then the other day i asked for his age,turns out he's 18! so i told im 15,but really im 13! then we've been talking so much ...

I had cybersex with someone else. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Let me start off by saying I feel really bad about doing this but I cheated on my boyfriend cause I cybersexed another guy. He doesn't know about it and I feel really horrible about it but I don't know what to do. If to tell him or bury it. Help. W...

I want to go back on the dating site, but my ex is there. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site, we dated for a long time, he told me he loved me everyday and I loved him a lot. But he lied to me, cheated and dumped me.. He really hurt me.. ...

Has anyone here has been lied to by an online love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Please guys I dont want any negative comments, Okay, I have known this guy for about 6 years online, and we developed feelings for each other, I love him, and he loves me. Problem is I lied about my identity (name and race, but, he has seen...

Warcraft relationship. Is it just distance that keeps us apart or do I have other issues to consider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I know a lot of people would laugh but I figured this was a good place to ask about my problem. I met a guy while playing World of Warcraft about 7 months ago. We are in the same guild. We started talking, I mean REALLY started talking, and I deve...

Does my ex have amnesia? Or has he been playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I'm just really confused right now. Here's the thing, my ex-bf of 7 months broke up with me through email 2 years ago since we have had a long-distance relationship, he told me he faded his feelings for me but wanted to stay friends even after the ...

I met the most amazing girl online - should we meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other. There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her. We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went through a p...

How do you get away from a manipulator?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - How do you get away from a manipulator? My bf and I have been together over 2 years. Its long distance as he lives in the states. We met online and its definitely been a roller coaster from the jump. He's "cheated" on me with many other women on...

She led me on believing she wasnt dating anyone when she was, why do I still badly about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - This is about an online relationship. My question this time is, why do I care so much about my online ex girlfriend? We dated in january and it was fantastic, she was the "perfect girl" emotionally, and we shared lots of values and hobbies. ...

Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help ...

Online dating..he led me on and then just disappeared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Please help solve this puzzle: 1. Girls notices guy on dating website 2. Girl approaches guy 3. Guy responds positively and begins to chat 4. Guy disappears without responding for 2 weeks then gets back in touch full of apologies. 5. Gi...

I have not PHYSICALLY cheated....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I recently had a long relationship (2yrs) with a woman, who is still technically married, and only recently seperated. I have duriing this relationship met her 3 times, I live in the UK and she in Texas. I know inside she is all I have ever wanted. ...