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I'm 13, he's 17 we met online, is it wrong?

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Question - (19 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2011)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

okay so I know i'm still young and all but yes so here I go.

okay so a little while ago my friend showed me this website were I could meet new people and things like that, so one day I decided I would go and try it out ,so I did. I didnt expect to meet anyone there, but I did. I met this really amazing and really sweet guy on that website and after a while of talking we decided to try a long distance relationship. I really really like him its just my friends got pissed at me because i didnt tell the mand i was lying to them and so they got mad. I am 13 and he is 17 i know the whole age difference and all so people look at that as well but i just want to be happy for once in my life and he really makes me happy. but is it wrong what im doing? we do plan on meeting soon but i cant help but most of my friends think its wrong. I just dont know what to do anymore, can some one please help me out here?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 November 2011):

person12345 agony auntExactly like soon567 said, there is NO OK reason for a 17 year old boy to want to meet a 13 year old girl. He may seem sweet online, but that's the thing about the internet, you can be anyone you want to be and you don't even need pretend to be an actor. This is highly dangerous territory you're treading on. Do not meet him, do not send pics, do not give him any information including your city, school, anything like that.

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (20 November 2011):

Stop! Do not meet anyone anywhere for any reason. Any male regardless of your age that is interested in you would want to meet your family.

Think to yourself, what would a 17 year old boy want with a 13 year old girl? Theirs no good intentions here. Do your parents let you date? Dont meet this guy coz it could go so wrong, how would your parents feel if they have to move on without you. This guy could push you for sex, after that can he really let you go? It jail time for him if he does.

Tell your parents about him. Safety is your number one concern.

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