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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

There is no contact inbetween our planning to set up a date. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I met a guy online and we met for coffee a few weeks ago. It was ok, there wasn't an instant connection but wasn't completely awful either. When we were leaving he told me if I wanted to do something to get in touch with him. I figured I had no...

Why do I feel so depressed after he made an offer to let me watch him have sex with his future girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, before anyone jumps in and bash me for being immature and naive and stupid, I do hope you can understand that I only came here and ask for your help because I'm desperate and don't know where to go to so please try to be ...

Are long distance relationships all about the sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm just gonna go right out and say it... are long distance relationships just about sex? I mean, if you meet someone online and see them, say, a couple of weekends a month... and it takes around 3 hours to get to them and you're paying for the ...

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Everything things my guy and I have the perfect relationship. But I feel confused and I'm thinking of breaking up or cheating. I already talk online to a guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4093 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me. I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult w...

Could this really be love at first sight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - For starters I have been single for about a year now... my best friend joined a online dating website fore gits and shiggles. well she found a wonderful guy and they have been together for quite some time.. i got bored about a month ago and thought ...

I thought I'd finally met a great guy; now I'm not so sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Ok I met this guy on a chatline, and he we texted and then he called me and told me that he would provide for me,love me,care for me, and would want to eventually marry me but he works as a tow truck driver. whenever i text him he always tells me ...

Why is it online men in their 50's only want young women?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I have been online dating + looking at online personals and I cannot believe how much most men online suck about age. I will be 25 in a couple of months + was shocked to see that there are tons of men in their 50s who specify they want women 18-25! ...

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer inte...

I assume he is a swinger!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4096 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Given that I am not too familiar with Twitter, is it possible to accidentally "follow" someone? I ask because I noticed that a guy I like is following a swingers club. It's only the one, and all the other stuff is famous people, rock bands, etc. ...

Why has my older LDR friend started being distant? I feel like he is giving me the "cold treatment"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I am just very confused right now. I met a guy few months ago who is a bit older than I am and he seemed to be really interested to me. Initially, I was not into him but after going out with him and I got to know him a bit, I started to like ...

Out of the blue he says he loves me but can't be with me. I don't know what happened!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - i met this guy on a dating site.we are talking by mails and on the phone before to meet 5 mnths ago.was a romantic trip.after that we met few more times.he wanted me to be a part of his life and share everythings with me.met me with his friends and ...

Why does my BF keep going on dating sites if he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend swears down that he loves me. For the past year or so we keep on arguing because he wants to keep talking to girls on dating sites. I dont think he is going there with the aim of meeting any of them. My question is this. He is very ...

Online date turned out to be much bigger than I expected. How do I let her know I am not physically attracted without hurting her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - Hi so recently i set up a profile on a dating site. I was contacted by a girl that looked really cute. We talked for a bit exchanged phone numbers, and texted a bunch, she was really cool and we had some common interests. We met up recently and i ...

Do I need to get over him? It wasn't meant to be something serious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4100 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I know this will sound a little pathetic considering my age, but here it goes. Last year I went to a sort of convention, and I met a nice guy. He was kind of cute, but I knew I'd only see him on those two days or so, and I didn't think anything...

Me and this guy have been in contact for 5 months but haven't yet met up. We arranged a meet up and he's gone silent. What should I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - So I've been talking to this boy for about 5 months by text/phone calls.. we've been asking to meet up and that but it hasn't happened yet.. So yesterday we decided to meet up today and we was not really keen and I texted him this morning asking i...

We are married but separated and husband has signed up for dating site. What steps do I take now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - Hello I've had problems since I married and moved in together (been married 2 years. We have taken a 'break' where he has moved out. I find im a happier on my own, no stress of arguing about how much he drinks each evening, him not going to bed...

We have been going out but she is still on website every day where we met. What's up with that?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

21 January 2013 (M) - I have a met this woman on Match. She is divorced, same age as me. We have been talkling on the phone everyday, texting, emailing. I spent this past weekend at her house. We have been going out for a month. She told me that I am so different than ...

Is it creepy to have a relationship with him when he posted online for causal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Met a guy on a dating site, we totally clicked and I really really like him and he feels the same about me. We have so much in common too. Seems great right, but I recently found that he or someone that looks amazing like him, posted pics and ...

Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Met this guy online. First date was at his house, and yes ended up making out in his bed but no sex. Second time i was drunk and lonely. He texted and ask if i want to go over to "cuddle". again i agreed, and i ended up at his house. No sex as ...

How can I break up with my internet buddy? Shall I just tell him the truth, even if he thinks I used him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi there, my problem is that I started internet dating and met this guy and slept with him on our first date because I wanted to show my ex-bf that I could and had moved on. This guy is nice but now he is still around, he told me he loves me and w...

I'm confused by her actions. Would you describe her actions as disrespectful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

18 January 2013 (M) - Okay first off let me thank you guys for taking time out of your day to listen to me ! Well me and this girl let me call her A and my name C. Okay so i started talking to mid december and we had a blast talking to one another and even see...

Can anyone pls explain how someone can be in love and then just lose feelings overnight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Can anyone pls explain how someone can be in love and then just lose feelings overnight? I joined on line dating. Not to date, not to cheat, but because I was bored because he would rather be out football training, than be home with me. He doesnt ...

Why do my online dating experiences never lead to an actual date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I've been using a dating site for awhile. Where I live there's really nowhere to go to meet men, unless it's a bar, which I'd rather not do, so it's the online dating. Anyway, every time I seem to find someone that seems interested, it only lasts ...

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than ...

Facebook and Badoo contact: He's a friend of friends. But how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hello I saw a guy (we can call him P) on my facebook first site and this guy isnt my friend but is a friend of my "friends" on facebook. These our common friends added me years ago on facebook and I accepted their friend request. We dont kn...

How should I greet her? First date with a girl I met online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

12 January 2013 (M) - I have been speaking to this girl on a dating site now for a week and we are going on a date tomorrow. Any tips? When I greet her is it just a casual hello,? Any advise or tips will be muchly appreciated !...

Online comments from girls: should I take notice? Does a guy's personality change girl's opinion or perceptions about a guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

12 January 2013 (M) - When I asked girls (online) to rate me, the majority of them said I was okay but I wasn't their type of guy. One girl said I was okay but no panty dropper (kinda hurt my feelings). and a couple said I wasn't good looking. I wanted to hear the trut...

Saw my GF for the first time on Skype and she didn't look like her photo. Is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - So I have met my girlfriend about a year ago over the internet, big mistake. She said she does not date over the internet first time I asked her, then I won her heart and we have been together for a month now. She sent me pics of her but this mor...

How can I retrain myself not to think of him so much? 2000 miles away and he broke up with me due to the distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, Now this is a situation I'm completely new in. During the summer last year I started going on a website and I met this guy and we hit it off and became friends. As the months went by we learned more about each other we began talking...

Dating -- When should I pose the question of exclusivity to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I'm a 27 f currently dating this guy I met nearly a month and a half ago on an online dating site. Everything so far has been great. Although he's a couple of years younger than me (24), it feels as though we have a lot in common in terms of ...

Boyfriend is going on online dating sites. Do I have a right to be upset about this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I am having had a bad time again with my boyfriend. We have been back together after we broke up because of his online dating sites. Over the course of a year, we had argument after argument over his lies and refusal to accept that I had the right ...

It's complicated. He will visit me. But often pushes for more physical content than I want. But he discourages me visiting him. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Have been into a relationship with a guy for more than 4 years now we both love each other. He calls me and he pays me a visit. I need a new jobc so that occupies my time, but I'm less busy in weekends. Each time i pay him visit he kisses me on...

I told him some guys wanted my number and he hasn't returned my texts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hi I met this guy on line about 4 weeks ago,I felt a attraction to him and he expressed he was attracted and interested in me and wanted to talk more and we have been flirting like mad via text more than phone. when the txts or conversa...

Met him on online gaming site. What should I keep in mind? Is this too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - I met this guy on an online game site and he is 3 years older...I really like him but I just got out of a serious relationship and I don't want to move to fast and mess it up. He is really great and he gets me but he lives 3 states away. he alre...

I was expecting him to visit 2 days ago and haven't heard a word! I don't know what it means or what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - Really confused by this guy's actions. We met on a dating site about a month ago. Really seemed like we hit it off. We started talking every day and we went on a several dates. We went out to dinner and I met his parents. He wanted me to hang ...

So nervous on the first date, I think I blew it! How should I proceed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - Hello aunts .... I've posted on here before and the advice helped me greatly .. so here I am again with a situation I could use some help with .... Having been out of a serious relationship since last summer I decided recently to try online datin...

Maybe I should just give up and accept I am single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - I split up with my partner of 4 years over 7 years ago. I was 39 then and I shall be 46 soon. It was an unhealthy relationship. I had a brief relationship (6 months) about 7 months later, but nothing since then. I have been doing interne...

Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

5 January 2013 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas ...

What do you think about the age gap and races, or have any of you been through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - Hello. I met someone one month ago. He's 31 and from California, and I'm 21 from Malaysia. The thing is, we are still in a friend zone of course, but he believe in me so much. Well I trust him too without any doubt. He said he like me so much and me ...

How can I tell him the truth? Now or in September, when he has such high expectations of how I look?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4119 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - So I met this guy on the internet three years ago and we started talking. I lied to him and told him I had, had sex. We stopped talking for a while but recently we re-gained our friendship. When I say friendship I mean he is a really good friend....

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

I'm running out of things to talk about with my LDR, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

3 January 2013 (F) - Hi I met this guy online and we both live in different countries. he said he was blown away by my profile and I liked his alot too so we started writing and skypeing several times a week and he is planning to visit me in 2.5 months (even bought a ...

PNOK? What does that mean? He's in the army and wants me to be his PNOK? Is he being genuine?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

3 January 2013 (F) - I met an army man in the dating site and now he's and Afghanistan and now we're talking for more then 2-1/2 months I like him so much and love him, and this's my first time a date someone from the Army, and also he told me that will be returned...

How do you tell someone that the girl he fell in love with doesn't exist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - How do you tell someone that the girl they fell in love with doesnt exist. It wasnt meant to turn out this way. I never wanted him to fall for me, but he has. Now we are meant to meet up tuesday and i cant becasue the girl he.l fell for is a fake. ...

My online love interest said we weren't just going to be bed buddies!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I started internet dating and first person I spoke to was really nice, we spoke for a long time and he said wasn't looking for just bed buddy but a relationship. Ended up sleeping together, thing is he seems to be treating me l...

We feel like we are playing with fire and we're trapped in an emotional stalemate. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4122 days ago

1 January 2013 (M) - I've fallen hard for a co-worker. I'm married, and she has a long term boyfriend. When I started the job we both noticed each other but neither of us were looking for anything more. I realised the crush I had on her was stronger than I had inten...