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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Online crush met someone real..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Okay well 9 months ago i met this guy online. we kinda became cyber gf and bf. Well today out of the blue he told me he met someone....this is the second time this has happend to me( first he was a friend in real life not online) ... its crushing ...

I haven't heard from him in a while and I am very worried. He's in the Army.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi. On November 1st, 2010 I met a man who is currently in Iraq in the Army. We met because I am a volunteer through a website (send care packages, cards, etc to soldiers who don't normally get anything). He was requesting books so I wrote to find ...

He wants to talk but I'm scared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - In my life I have alot of drama so I perfer my love life not to be affected. I met this guy on an online dating site and its nothing for me me to lie to a guy because the relationship is not going to last long usually, but this guy I met I feel in ...

I love him but I'm scared I don't see how this can work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - in high school i date this guy name tim and he and i had a baby together i had to drop out as he finshed school i was very jealouse of him .. but anyways.. years gone by and his best friend in high school added me to his facebook.. he wa...

What are signs that he fancies me online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I have been sending messages to a man on a dating website for 6 months ,he is shy .I don't know if he fancies me ,or just likes me as a friend .He has now given me his email address ,but i don't know weather to email him or carry on sending messages ...

Why is he treating me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend online......1 year 6 months back... He is older than me I am 16 and he is 27...After 1 year he started ignoring me...started ignoring my calls.....I sent him e-mails....He didn't replied then I decided to move on....But he came ...

Boyfriend keeps lying and cheating, I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I met a man from a dating site and he is Australian.He is divorced with 2 kids. But his kids live with his ex wife in Melb. We met on the 2007 and after 3 months get to know each other he left me. He told me that his Indian friend from Malaysia told ...

I feel at a loss. why is he ignoring me when before we were crazy in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4569 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - hi there my problem is i love a guy and he loves me too , before he tells that he loves me , he was crazy about me ,i dont want to talk alot but he was completly crazy about me with all the word means like from 4 months ago he became so cold , ...

I was flirting with this guy on Facebook and then he broke up with his gf. Should I feel guilty that maybe it's my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - Recently I've been flirting with this guy I really like, and we seem to be getting on quite well. I was on my Facebook page, and it popped up that he had 'gone from being in a relationship to single'. the girl he was dating is a really nice girl...

Can I trust my online gf who I have never met? I even doubt sometimes that she is a girl!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - Hello first thanks for reading me and a girl met online. i met her while she was waiting for a boy that she said loved him. first she met him, so i hung out with her for sometime. then she started to love me but i used to love somebody else. i ...

How do you respond to "tell me more about yourself"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - Hi guys i was on a dating website and Girls have this auto reply message that always comes back with " send me a message, and tell me more about yourself" like what am i supposed to write? is there any ways to get her attention in the first m...

What is he doing on this network site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - I have just found out that my bf has being chatting a girl up on a social network site? He adds random girls every night all between the ages of 16-19 and they are tarty. He doesnt know any of them. He has added over 100 since january. Last night he ...

How do I come clean to him about the fake pictures, without losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - One day i was bored at home and decided to create a Smeet.I decided to use fake pics because I wanted the attention from guys. I searched on google pretty girls and I found this one girl that looked somewhat like one of my classmates in school. I ...

Can an online boyfriend actually be considered as a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - He's a very sweet guy. He has sent me videos, pictures, poems, and songs expressing his love and has posted/let known how he feels for me to his friends. He has also said all these beautiful things that make me fall in love with him all over...

Online dating. 17 year older woman. how to come around the hurddle of special friendship for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

23 March 2011 (M) - hi everyone, I have communicating with an acquarius woman for more than 3 months now.I am 23 and she is 40. Despite the age difference we have talked about everything. Her life, marriage, children, her passion, dreams, EVERYTHING!! Same with m...

On-line girl who is interested

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23 March 2011 (F) - I'm a grown girl, I'm 24 and I've never been on a relationship, ever. to be honest I was fine with it because I was busy doing some other stuff anyway I always been interested on boys, guys I still find myself looking at a gorgeous boy when I...

I almost feel like I have been dumped (!) and am feeling really worried and embarrassed about going to see our mutual friend again now that this has happened.

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22 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'll try and keep this as short as possible. I met a guy on new years eve through mutual friends and we seemed to be getting on really well. However he was texting his ex so I wasn't going to let it go any further than just chatting. A few ...

Internet dating... he thinks it's too soon, but I want him!

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20 March 2011 (F) - ok well lets say the guys name is shade well my story is we met online and he had a girlfriend but we were only friends but then they finished and i started seeing him im living in limerick where he lives 2 maybe 3 days a week the rest the week he ...

Am I just a woman in a box to him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - I have been committed to boy friend online for almost 8 months now. I know, it sounds unusual since working relationships usually happens in person. I don't have a choice here really. He's 8000 miles away from me and I just can't go there for visa ...

My boyfriend wants me to travel to him! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been dwelling with this thoughts of me for a couple months now. It is about my boyfriend whom I met online 15 months ago. He used to tell me about coming here to be with me and then after a few months he stopped doing that in...

My boyfriend has a fake msn account, I can't help but wonder if he uses it on chatsites...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - I found a hotmail account on my boyfriend's computer as a 14 year old girl, and he had contacts on MSN. When asked, he said it was to wind up a male colleague, but the contacts on MSN were a girl (not sure of age, but her posts lead me to think she ...

My husband receives slutty requests from every single one of his exes who know he is married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - my husband has had slutty requests from every single one of his exes since he put married on his status, even one from one wh is now a porn star asking him to join her site and keep up with her sexual adventures, and one half naked, who when she was ...

Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ...

Online dating has messed up my life, how do I stop and start afresh so I can get a real life girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - Okay, so when I was 13 (now I am 18) my dad used to play chess with other people online and he introduced me to the site (pogo.com) because I told him I wanted to play too. So I started playing billiards, which I found to be very entertaining. My ...

Online date: Confused about initial interest and the waiting game...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - I was recently on a popular online dating website. I had intended on leaving upon the expiration of my membership. Four days before expiration the customer service of the website contacted me to tell my that a past match wants to re-open ...

Online relationship; different sex drives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

17 March 2011 (M) - I'm in an online relationship. Without getting into specifics, we've been going steadily for over 10 months now. But there's a schism, it seems. Despite me being "the male," her sex drive is, by far, much stronger than mine. Typically, ...

Why does a guy act like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

17 March 2011 (F) - The end of November I met a guy online from a neighboring state. He was 2 months away from his divorce being final and I was 1 month divorced. We were going to take it slow since all of this was new for us. But, we really hit it off. He wore his ...

Why has he suddenly gone quiet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Hello! I'll try and keep this brief! I've been chatting to a guy online for the last month, everyday. It first started off with 4 emails each everyday. Then as I've been off work it was more frequent, sometimes chatting for 5/6 hours etc. He ...

We have been talking for 3 weeks but never have met, yet now he says he loves me! What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - So I joined this dating site a few months ago and went out with a lot of weirdos, than I started talking to this guy on the site who seems the most normal of them yet. To make a long story short, we exchange numbers and start talking on the phone ...

I think I like someone I've met online - How to meet up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Hello, just joined here with the intention of asking this question because where I would generally muse over things, I gotten to know certain people so wouldn't feel comfortable, especially considering the topic at hand specifically concerns one ...

Does it seem like I don't trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Ok here is my issue, my bf is on a dating site and several months ago i asked him about it and he told me he only has it as a fun thing and that he does not subscribe to it, he gets messages and fans etc but would need to subscribe to the site if he ...

Will he betray me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - i have a boyfriend whom i met online. we have never met. we have been talking for a while now over the phone and its recently that we decided to be more than just friends. i trust him but there are days.. Especially cause he is younger than me... ...

Help! Best way to get over someone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

13 March 2011 (F) - Ok first I'll say do to a family situation at home and the fact that I don't drive yet makes it kind of hard to go out. I just moved to a new town so I decided to try out this dating site to meet new people, I know pathetic right? But that was the ...

Parents have come between me and my LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

12 March 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I'm dealing with such a devastating moment now where I have to decide whether to let go or to go on. I've been in a 15 months relationship with my boyfriend whom I met online. The thing is, we live a world apart so we dont meet each o...

He wants to marry me, but he's still chatting to other women on the date site we met on..

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12 March 2011 (F) - Hi guys out there, my name iz Anacia and I'm 34yrs old Please help me with this one. I use to visit dateclub where one day I happened to meet this guy from Pretoria we started chating as friends bt then after we realise that we both have feelings...

She lied and then said it was my fault

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 March 2011 (M) - dear users, Yesterday i got into kinda trouble with my relationship. But let's start from a very beginning. Im a 18 years old guy that is very jealous. She is almost 18 years old and loves to play rpg with guys. The games are played by two player...

I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship! As I get older I get more and more desperate, turning to internet chat sites etc. Please advise me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hello. So I'm 19 and I've never had a relationship. Is that weird? It's not that I don't want one, trust me I do, but it just hasnt happened. Also as time goes on I find myself more and more attracted to men who are older than me by 5 to 30 years...

I've never felt the connection like I did with my online guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - About 3 yrs ago i got talking to a guy on a social networking site, i did not know what he looked like or anything about him, but instantly liked hes personality and i was kind of drawn to him, i can`t really explain how, nothing ever happened ...

Not only is my husband of 13 years registered on a dating site, he is looking for transvestites, transsexuals and cross-dressers!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

8 March 2011 (F) - Hi I have recently found out that my husband of 13 years is registered on a dating site, and if that isn't bad enough he is looking for transvestites, transexuals and crossdressers. I am so upset I haven't been able to eat or sleep, I don't know how ...

Online dating: IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls! Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

8 March 2011 (M) - I met this girl through a dating site. We've been IMing for only a week and now she's telling me that we're twin souls, that I'm what she's been looking for all her life. She said fate brought us together. We've been exchanging fantasies about ...

I want to prove my parents wrong and defy the distance and make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

8 March 2011 (M) - Hello, i just got done talking to my mom about my girlfriend brianna. Brianna and i live a little over 3 hours apart. We met online using a website for meeting people in high school and college. We have been dating for a month and 1 week now. We ...

Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a mont...

Would it scare him if I make a move again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I have joined a dating site about 2 months ago and have recently started emailing a guy on the site. I was the one that initiated contact and initially he responded very positively. We exchanged a couple of nice chatty emails and then he went...

Can someone please explain long term, online relationships to me, I just don't get it???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am fairly new to this site but am really enjoying sharing my years of experience and advise with others. And I see a lot of questions here from the readers asking various questions about how they should handle a problem(s) in their relation...

If he is in love with me why is he keeping other girls around? And why won't he put a pic of us together, or change his status on Facebook?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

7 March 2011 (F) - I met my man 7 months ago. A mutual friend gave him my Facebook address, he added me as a friend, and three months later he contacted me. We chatted for 8 hours the first time we spoke, which had never happened to me before, so I took it as this is ...

Did he think I was desperate when our mutual friend gave him my number? And why did he accept the friend request on Facebook if he thinks that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 23. I met a guy (aged 24) on New Year’s Eve through mutual friends. He seemed really nice and we were getting on well. He was texting his ex at the time though so I didn't let it go any further than just friendly conversation. I found o...

I feel like she was expecting me to make a move and was surprised I didn't! I am new to dating again, and I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I am looking for some dating advice. I met a girl online. We have had 2 good dates and the weekend was the third. We had a great night out and we ended up at her place. She said I could stay but no funny business, so I probably took that to ...

A guy fell for the 'fake' me on Facebook

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - 6 months ago in september, i created a fake facebook profile with a fake name and fake pictures of a girl. In september i met this guy and we started a relationship. Now he is very serious and wants me to visit him, we almost make 6 months, i need ...

I just started seeing this girl who I met on Facebook. She cancelled our date today. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

6 March 2011 (M) - I have been seeing a girl for the last 2 weeks. We met on facebook and I really like her. There seems to be a spark there already. Trouble is, I’m very paranoid. We went out Friday night, had a good night and yesterday, she told me she would co...

Should I never listen to anyone just to be with the one I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

6 March 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been dating my boyfriend for 15 months. We met online and everything was great at first. We're so into each other. He lives a world apart so we don't meet on a regular basis. At first he thought about coming to visit me. I was ...