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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I'm tired of faking happiness when I know my wife's getting so personal with someone else... in the Internet. Is this tolerable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, and God Bless you all. This is a good thing that you are all doing. I feel guilty for doing this, but about 6 months ago, I had this strange feeling that my wife was using her computer at work and the computer at home to talk to ...

Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...

Was I being oversensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - me and my lover are both in our late 30's and we get on really well, trouble is, on the internet we both use this chatsite and we both leave messages to other friends on there,both male and female......now my problem is,my fella does get women flirt ...

What can I do about this guy who goes from one extreme to the other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Right, so, there's this guy. I am totally, hopelessly, head over heels in love with him, and he used to feel the same way about me. I've never met him face to face, we used to go to the same school though, so we have a connection. I talked to him ...

How I Got Here

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - Finally I decided to write a synopsis of how I ended up here some six weeks ago. The following story is true in its entirety. I guess the reason I am writing it is because I would like others to hear my story and how even the most well intentioned ...

Do you have any tips to try to get rid of my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - (Sorry, this is a repost after getting an account.) So, I've been looking for some help from various places, and this situation I'm in is quite the rough one. To start this off, it's an online relationship, we talk on the phone, but there's n...

Met him online through a personal ad...can anyone answer my questions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - Ok, so i met this guy online through a personal ad. hes totally cool and he wanted to hang out almost immediately. he seems kool and he understands that im not just in it for sex and neither is he. i kinda nervous tho. i think about him alot and i ...

Any ideas of where and how we can meet in person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - Hi, my best friend's cousin is my boyfriend. I have never met him though. She introduced us over msn and he said he really likes me. I really want to meet him and he really wants to meet me too. He gave me part of this chain that he wears everyday ...

Wondering if many people out there have met someone later in life and whether there is hope for me yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm in my early thirties and still haven't met the love of my life. I've had quite a few short term relationships (weeks/months) but nothing that you would consider serious I don't know why this is the case. I've had my heart broken a few tim...

Am I bored with my boyfriend or this realtionship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I met online and it is now one and half year were are together. I am now getting impatient cos we still haven't met each other though he always made plans but for some reason it alway postponed. Latest plan is he is coming this ...

I am thinking about meeting up with this online guy, but worried it might ruin any chances of getting back with my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriends recently split up. I've been talking to this guy online we get on quite well n he seems like a genuinely nice guy. He's 5 years older than me. Im meant to be meeting him tomorrow. But im starting to have second thoughts...

He never follows through and hangs out with me...should I write a note to get closure??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Basically I met a guy online about 6 months ago, we seemed to hit it off, met up a couple of times (just chatted but he seemed keen) and every week almost he texts to say we should go out to a movie or for a drink the following week. But then when ...

I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

12 February 2008 (F) - Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....

Shall I continue talking to this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

12 February 2008 (F) - Hi, i registered for online dating 3 days ago and messaged a selection of guys my own age,(26) and got no response, and got messages from some unsuitable people. i was just about to write it off when i received a message from a guy who it said ...

Confused about my two online friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I have two friends that i met online,the other one is in Europe while the other one China,but the one in Europe has helped me alot. He later stoped calling me,it was the one that is in China that is calling me,and i have started loveing the one that...

Should I or Shouldn't I???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - I recently met a great guy online. However he lives 1200 miles away. Anyhow, I was supposed to visit him few weeks ago and although he didn't know I had already booked a hotel. (he thought that I would stay with him cuz we do have mutual friends ...

Finally met him in person, and he came out as very shy and reserved. How can I make him open up more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 February 2008 (F) - Well i meet up with this guy a few days ago, we have talked over the computer for a while and got on well though i know when you meet someone in person they can be very different.Well he was very shy and nervous and would hardly look me in the face ...

Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...

Met her in the internet, she said she'd be back in my life by the end of the year as she planned to move closer to where I live. Do I drown my suspicions and wait out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a year ago on the internet, she lives across the country from me. We instantly hit it off and spent hours talking to each other. After a few months we met up and we were inseperable for the whole day. A month or two lat...

My partner still flirts online, can I salvage our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for nearly a year, I have been cheated on in the past and my now partner keeps really hurting me by flirting online and with most women he meets. I really blew my stack at the weekend, as I logged on to my email, and cl...

I met him on line, do you think he is a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and I need some opinions from people. I have msn and lately some one added me on their msn list. I clicked him/she and asked them and it was a boy. He said he gave me his email. He said he was 17 and I saw his display pic so ...

I like her, I want to ask her out, but I'm shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

6 February 2008 (M) - aRGHHHHH!!! I need help! I think I did something stupid. There's this girl I like, and I'm kind of shy. Whenever I see her, I look/smile and do the shy guy thing, and look away pretty instantly. She sometimes smiles back, but im totally unsure when...

Met him on the net and there is a 14 year age differance. Should I meet him in real life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - Right i been talkin to this guy for a while now. We met over the internet n originally age wasnt mentioned i thought he was roughly in his 20's and he thought i was about 19. We both later found out eachothers real ages, he's 31 this year, im 17 ...

Deluded dating vs real dating..friends with benefits...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - i met a guy over the internet for sex. it was first name basis, it was midnight, and it was fantastic. i only do one night stands once in a blue moon, and they are rarely so good. and afterwards, he really wanted me to stay the night. i know the ...

My husband is having Cyber sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return w...

How Can I kick the strip club habit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

4 February 2008 (M) - I am trying to kick going to the strip club and be with my wife instead all of the time. I am hung up on sex all the time. I don't know what to do. The girl I was emailing has stopped now that she knows I was looking for a relationship. She just ...

Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

1 February 2008 (F) - Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...