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Met him online, love him, but he wants sex before marriage

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Question - (17 November 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2011)
A female Ghana age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Gud evening , my question is . I met a guy online he live in abroad so since then we have been chatting on november 2011 he propose to me he said he's coming back next month and we will make love before marriage and am not ready to make love to him before marriage and since 2days he has change we no longer chat they way we use to . Am confuse I don't know if he still want me and I love him . Plz guide me on what to do .

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntIt does sounds like he is after sex, not marriage.

If he is a good guy, he will respect you and your wishes and not push for sex any more.

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A female reader, chickpea2011 United States +, writes (18 November 2011):

chickpea2011 agony auntHi,

Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable. Just because he asked you to marry, doesn't mean anything. Please, be careful...

Good luck

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntsounds to me like a scam to have sex with you sweetie.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2011):

Miamine agony auntGuy just wanted sex.. forget him.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (18 November 2011):

Aunty BimBim agony auntDid he change because you told him no sex before marriage? If yes, this might mean he only wanted to have sex with you, not marriage.

If you havent told him no sex before marriage yet, you need to tell him this is your belief and wish, so that when you meet he already knows there will be no sex.

good luck

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (17 November 2011):

The Realist agony auntYou have to stand by the beliefs that make you happy. Personally I don't think this is an odd thing. I wouldn't marry someone who I didn't have sex with first and that is for my own personal beleifs.

This is where you have to choose your beliefs or the guy who wants to marry you. I can't make that decision for you.

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