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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I was going to meet my online date but he revoked the meeting. No sign of him since, do I move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have been online dating on and off for a few years and just haven't found that special chemistry. I emailed a guy from a dating site back in August and he finally replied just this month telling me his job kept him busy for that time of the year. ...

Should I continue this long distance love affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Here it goes.. I met this gal online almost 7 months back...im from a country in asia and shes frm the usa.... we met on a chatsite..n then she gave me her email id n frm the next day we started chatting..we really enjoyed chattin wid each other.....

I feel like I'm losing him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Hey, i really need advice, I met a guy online last february, met him and started dating, fell in love with him and all that, got engaged in july just gone, however he lost his job a couple of weeks ago and since then he's been stressed out abo...

Caught in an online love-triangle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though ...

Did he really sign up on this dating site...just as a joke??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hi i just recently found out that my long term partner signed up to a dating wbsite i used to trust him but after this i think i no longer can we have 2kids together and he has been bringing up my other 2 children from a previous relationship. i ...

He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) - I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...

My old friend has a wife and child now, but I love him from 10 years ago and want him back now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I have been friends with this man since we were 15yrs old we are both now almost 40. I always knew he was attracted to me, i was also but was always involved with someone else and he was so painfully shy he never tried or said anything. The day ...

We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...

He doesn't want to see me because of my depression but if he isn't interested then why spend so long on the phone with me???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Where to start. Started talking to someone on line October 06, we were supposed to meet 22nd October, never happened, had a huge online argument instead on a public forum. Started talking again Jan 07, he lived 280 miles away. He moved to within ...

Is 'micropenis' a real disease??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

25 January 2008 (?) - I was talking to a boy online that I have been chatting to for a few months, and he just told me that he had a disease called 'micropenis.' He says his penis is only 1/2 inch long when erect, and it is all red and itchy. It doesn't really sound be...

Finding and fighting for unconventional love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - We live in a world that is constantly evolving, technologically advancing and growing, slowly, more accepting. Finding love has always been the one of the most central societal issues and how and where we find it has always been a source for ...

Delayed answers, single sentenced. Anything I can do to raise his interest or should I write this off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I met a guy through a writing group and I immediately liked him. He was friendly with all the girls in my group, so I found it hard to tell if he would ever consider me as more than a friend. When we first met he would email me nearly constantl...

Betrayed and mortified! My bf was texting sex related messages to other females!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years had been texting girls and joined a mobile chatsite this isn't the first time. The messages were all sex related which hurt me really bad. I confronted him and told him he either stops or leaves. He has ...

Is there such thing as internet love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Is there such thing as "internet love"? I've registered for a website sort of like myspace just for fun however, I didn't know I would come across someone I thought I'd find interesting. Sometime, in the beginning of November of 2007, he sent...

Was I fooled by this man I met off a dating site?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am worried I may have been fooled by a man i met through a dating site. We went out five times, after every other date he mailed me and said thank you. He stated he wasnt looking for one night stands etc However after this last one I have ...

Should we allow our daughter to meet this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - My daughter's 16, and in college studying beauty therapy. She intends to work in tourism as a beauty therapist when she's older, and is doing well on her course. She's got a 21-year-old sister who's at university in Nottingham. Last week she ...

How do I make him forget her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

19 January 2008 (F) - There is this boy, who I've met once. I've been talking to him online a lot and I really like him. But i know that he's in love with someone else. And i mean IN LOVE. But she's using him, even he knows that. How do i make him forget her? And...

What are the best Adult dating/ sex personal sites for REAL results, and are some of them scams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

15 January 2008 (M) - I am recently broken up from a girl I loved very much, and Im living the single life. But I don't really want a relationship, and I'm really just looking for a few hookups in my area. So I joined 2 sex personal sites, www.hornymatches.com, and ...

I'm 16, he's 31 and I met him online. Should I meet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hey im 16 i have been talking to this guy online for a few months. To start with i didnt knw his age n he didnt know mine. I recently found out he's 31 he thought i was about 19 but now knows im 16. We both like eachother but know it would be kinda...

Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. ...

Should I wait for him to say something as I don't want to scare him off.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles: A couple of years ago I met a guy online and we became good friends. Eventually, we sort of fell into a relationship, complete with the daily calls and "I love yous" and fidelity, etc. I would have gone to the ends...

Do our flirty messages mean that when we meet up it's a date??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Just wondering about something. There's a guy I like. We flirt a lot over the internet - don't worry we've met each other. We met ages ago and have kept in touch via internet. We send each other flirty messages. He lives in another city tho...

She was taken aback when I revealed I was a transgender. Is it possible she still have feelings for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - I really dont know where to start. About 2 years ago. I met the love of my life online, i told her i was man. We talked almost everyday, and emailed each other everyday. I never knew what was love was till she came into my life. A year and a half ...

Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...

My partner sent a message to a girl on a dating site and I cant get past it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - I've found out my partner has joined an internet dating site, he has said it was just a bit of fun and did it when we went through a bad patch and hasn't been on-line for a while which ties in with what his profile tells me. I've forgiven him but ...

I'm addicted to him. How do I avoid ruining my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I fell in love with my husband with just one look nearly 6 years ago. Then I met his good friend and fell in 'lust'. Immediately. This was probably 4 or 5 years ago. We recently started chatting online, and the flirting has gotten pretty ...

Do I contact him or should I wait for him to contact me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - I met a really great guy online. He's a few years older than me, divorced - I was never married, just engaged, though both our partners cheated on us - both these relationships ended about 5 years ago. I have a kid which this guy has known about si...

He only wanted cyber sex with me! But I still want to be his friend..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 January 2008 (F) - i encountered an old boyfriend. I'm 40. Now back then I was 15. He was really excited and he gave me all of his phone numbers so we chatted. A week went by and he decided to stop talking to me. I'm married he's married. In the beginning he only ...

She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 January 2008 (M) - i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all ...

I'm seeing a therapist and a married jerk. Why can't I get rid of the latter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 January 2008 (F) - I'm very confused and am starting to get depressed. I'm seeing a therapist over this, but it has not been helpful as of yet. A year ago I met a man online and we dated for six months. He traveled between three cities for work and so lived in my c...

I'm a bit rusty - is it too soon for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - I have been divorced for about two years. I am in my late forties. I have recently started dating a man I met on line. We have been talking for about a month and have gone on three dates. The realtionship is taking a turn towards sex. I'm a ...

He drove 5000 miles to see me (that's a long way!) Should I have let him m ove in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - hello, i have been chatting on line with this really great guy for about a month now. its like we think the same and get along great. i have chatted with him on the phone a few times. well he drove over 5000 miles to meet me. he has family , not ...

Should I just give this up and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

5 January 2008 (M) - I have a question: Recently I began an online relationship with a young lady who is a stripper. We have been going round and round for a while, until we finally stated our feelings.And had set up a timein the near future to meet and see wherethis ...

Shpould I call the cops?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - I'm not sure how to go about asking this, or even what I'm asking exactly. This guy (who is 26) has been talking to me online for a few years now, I usually ignore him because he annoys me and is a pervert. After I stopped talking to him on ...

Got over infatuation, still have reminiscent feelings for my online date, any words of wisdom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

3 January 2008 (M) - This isn't really a question... I'm more after some advice, a few words of wisdom, or whatever. So anyway... I recently (i.e. a few weeks ago) finally got over a very large and badly handled online infatuation that had lasted about 10 months. I s...

I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

2 January 2008 (M) - I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...

How do you have cyber sex?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

2 January 2008 (M) - How EXACTLY do you have cyber sex? Becuase i've been going out with this girl for a while now over the net and she's implied she would like to do it... but i'm not sure if i want to..... ...

I sent him a photo of my friend instead of mine and recently he texted me to set up a meeting soon. I really like him, what can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

1 January 2008 (F) - Hi can someone help me I meet a guy online and we seem to hit it off well. He asked to see my photo and I sent him one of my friend "I know I know" I should not have done that but I liked his attention, the problem is he thinks that I am from the ...

I'm going out with someone I met online but my friend also likes me and might break up with his girlfriend for me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

1 January 2008 (F) - I'm really confused on what to do and i really need some help. I have been going out with a guy i met on the internet got about a month and two weeks now. Only one of my Friends know about him because I didnt want everyone to know because they all ...