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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

What is the reason why guys send texts, but then disappear when you reply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - There are 3 guys that text me every now and then. I have been on dates with all of them (over a span of time). One of them I like a lot, we have been much more flirty with each other and he asked me on another date but it's not even set in stone. ...

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

My husband has joined an online dating site

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...

Is there a way of asking a guy if he's tested and free of all those things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Sort of embarrassed to ask this, but has been on my mind. So months ago I signed up on a site where I met a man from another country. We have skyped before and talk virtually everyday Now he's told me, he and his boyfriend have an open relationship ...

Now that I'm all warmed up he's put me on the back burner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

26 January 2012 (?) - There is this guy who I met online about 6 months ago, we chatted a couple of times, he liked all my profile photos and albums, he seems like a big fan of me and comments on my photos things like " very attractive" beautiful and such complements, ...

Am I sending mixed signals or is he just not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

26 January 2012 (?) - I met this guy online, he travelled miles to meet me and now that he's near, we only went on two dates and he went up north to join a course for three weeks. He emailed me saying he was sorry he didn't keep in touch (for a week) saying he had ...

He flirts secretly with other women on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend is pretty much perfect. he always makes time for me. he trusts me. we never argue. he always tells me he loves me, and how he wants to one day get married and have a family. he always tells me he never speaks to other girls anymore, ...

One final meeting with the ex to talk things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a few months. Now that I think back, it was really unsatisfactory. I put up with a lot of crap and I was miserable but I put a good front. I mean, I was happy, but only when things seemed to be going great. So we ended it...

I met her on FaceBook and found that I love her. But she doesn't want a bf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - I know her only on fb. even though she gave me her no, I have never talk to her on phone thats cause she live is USA and I live is South Africa but her Origin is in South Africa, anyways we were best friend on facebook, one day I faced problem then ...

Is he a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hello. Recently I got chatting with a guy on facebook who 's friends with some of my friends. We got on well, made each other laugh, and so after about 2 days of this he invited me for a drink, which also went really well. Fast forward 2 weeks, I've ...

LDR advice please?. Because I need it. He's stressed out over his exams. He's not giving me the attention I need. He thinks it's not big deal..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years, we're pretty serious about each other and are planning on moving in together after I finish my Foundation degree next year. We're both 18 and we've been in a long distance relationship for ...

Has he hidden his profile or is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - Okay this is complicated. I've been dating a guy I met on RSVP. We actually met for the first time yesterday and it was great! the day ended with a hug and a kiss!! and he made so many hints about seeing each other again. about me going to visit hi...

I gave the new guy false hope but I've just realised I'm not quite over my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Basically, I’ve been with a guy for two and a half years but a few weeks back we broke up. Reason he gave was he couldn’t deal with having a relationship because he was too stressed…Actual reason, he had been cheating on me with another girl. I...

My boyfriend seems more interested in himself and his games than he is in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - So, I'm 19 and I have my first boyfriend of all time. I'm excited, I adore him, I find him to be the sweetest boy I've ever met... unfortunately, this is a long distance relationship. We have to communicate over skype more often than anything. W...

How can I regain his trust after what I did to test him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - this one,i would like then men to answer me.i'm feeling extremely low right now. i did somethig horrible to my goyfriend of 2 yrs.i tested him from a fake ID i created on facebook.it turned out to be totally dumb because the profile looked obviousl...

Is he only looking for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I ve been talking to a guy on the phone and through text for over a month. We decided to meet soon and he often mentions he cant wait to hug and kiss me. I asked him exactly what hes looking for and he said for u to be good friends that hang out and ...

Online dating...I want children, he doesn't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

18 January 2012 (F) - I am currently on-line dating. A guy has expressed an interest in me, however he specifies that he doesn't want children, whereas I do. Is it worth me even bothering to date him? I don't know if I will have kids anyway, due to having ME. I'm not ...

Is there any harm in his posting my picture on his wall with the caption "smitten"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

18 January 2012 (F) - I have met this guy once in person before, and we are supposed to be going on a date this week. He has posted my photo on his facebook wall without my permission. You can share photos on facebook. He wrote a comment underneath saying " smitten ! ". ...

Out of the dating scene for 20 years. Women want me to text?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - I was married for a long time and just now came back onto the dating scene. One new thing to me is texting. Texting itself is not new to me, but texting in the context of dating is. Back in the day, you asked a woman for her number and if...

My chatroom guy keeps pulling me back in right when I think I've moved on. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - well where to start. i met this guy online through a chatroom almost a year ago. at the time he was sleeping with someone, and i was properly single. we liked each other met and fell in love. however the problem is that we are of different ethnic ...

Should I go on this date or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - I'm supposed to be going on a date with this guy this week. He asked for my number on facebook, so that he could call me to talk about the date, so i gave it to him, and he sent a message back saying " hooray ! " ( i think that was because he was ...

He's a good guy. So how much give and take is reasonable in my LDR FWB ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

16 January 2012 (F) - I just have a bit of a problem and would like some insight if possible! Thank you in advance. I have been I guess "casually dating" this guy for a couple months now. Whatever we actually are,we are not exclusive as far as I am aware. We have very...

I asked him for a second date, was this bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

14 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I met a guy online. We communicated via email for about two weeks, really nice and interesting and long messages. We went on a first date yesterday evening. He commuted by train 3 hours here and back to see me. We talked for 4.5 hours, a...

Should I try online dating when I still have feelings for my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I came out of a relationship about 2 months ago. I still have feelings for my ex but do want to move on. A lot of my friends have suggested internet dating. It sounds alright and i was maybe thinking of trying it but i do still have some feelings ...

I chatted online with a nice guy but gave him false info and then broke things off. Should I tell him the truth now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - so I've made a major mistake and I'm not asking for reassurance from anyone or for anyone to try make me feel better because I know I have done wrong. well basically last year I was left hurt by a guy after he treated me really badly and dumped...

Did I wreck a chance at a third date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

11 January 2012 (?) - I met this guy online and after a couple of months he flew to see me. On our first real meeting he brought a friend and all three of us had drinks. He covered my portion of the bill. The second time I met up with him over coffee, I paid although ...

Attached man, but on a dating website. Really?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

10 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating a man for eight months. We live together and I feel we know each other quite well. He says he is very much in love with me. He's been divorced for more than 15 years and says he hasn't felt this way about another woman, since ...

He wants pictures of my private bits, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - I talked to this guy once on the phone, i'm not sure how old he is, he is divorced and has a daughter that lives with his ex and he sees his daughter on the weekends. we chatted a little bit and he wants me to send pictures of my breasts and my ...

Exes and Facebook etiquette!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - When should I return to facebook? My ex who has been deleted once then re-added (because I thought we were errrr ...friends??) has met someone else, and is in a relationship...facebook has noted this...lol!! I am kinda happy for him... but he was a ...

Why do I always fall for girls online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

8 January 2012 (M) - Every girl I've ever had a crush on for the past ten years, I've met online. It's not that I don't meet many girls in real life, I do; I just can't have the same conversations with them, they tend to be too "normal", or at least they try too har...

How do I tell my mom about my older boyfriend and long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

8 January 2012 (F) - Ok so ive been seeing this guy for awhile now and i really like him (actually i think i might love him) but the problem is we met online. i know he isnt some 40 or 50 year old creeper because we skype, talk on the phone, and text everyday. So the ...

To guys: why do you take so long to reply to a text a girl sends to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - me and this guy have been talking, and he mostly starts the conversation and it seems that he is interested in me and I am interested in him too. But why does it take him so long to reply when I text him? Guys why do you take long to reply back? ...

I'm having second thoughts about meeting this online guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4492 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, so i have a bit of a dilemma. well i met this guy online about 5 months ago now. and we've been in constant contact and been getting on really well and so far really like each other. we havent been able to meet because he lives quite a...

How can I stop making a fool of myself with this guy I had a fling with a while back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

6 January 2012 (M) - I had a gay guy fling back in 1997. At that time I didn't know what I wanted. But recently I got in touch with this guy through fb... I can't figure him out, he will not answer my texts nor take my phone calls. Yet he had the cheek to send two...

Our texting has faltered. Am I worried without good reason? He wants to wait until his surgery before he sees me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - i have been talking with a guy for a few week and he was calling and/or texting daily and then we had a little conversation about him not saying sexual things to me i told him it was a little innapropriate at this point and then he said he was hurt ...

My boyfriend hates that I still talk to my ex's. Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

5 January 2012 (F) - Okay so i was on my facebook and my friend posted on my wall.. he said i think your cute and we dated already though! i thought it was funny. my boyfriend got mad because i talk to most my ex's. i tried saying that all my ex's were friends before ...

First online date...Pointers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

5 January 2012 (F) - I sign up on i dating site there this guy on it asked me if i wanted 2 catch up for a drink on saturday night . Should i go and where the best place to going never being on a dating site before? and what should i watch out for any help would be grea...

I'm not getting responses from my ad on dating site. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I have joined a dating site, being an Indian girl I am not getting much response from American and canadian guys. I really dont have any problem dating a guy other than my race. Could you guys please help me in some way. Any suggestion will be ...

I don't know what to make of him and I'm worried he might be playing me....what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

4 January 2012 (F) - I met this guy on an online dating site. We seemed to have an instant connection and decided to meet up. The first date went great and I know I shouldn't have but we slept together. After that we talked for a few weeks over text and then our ...