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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Online dating dilemma!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I have recently met a man online. Initially we emailed each other for about three weeks and each time he responded timely and clearly put a lot of effort in his responses. After nearly three weeks of it, I casually suggested that maybe we could ...

Any tips for getting a date on an online dating site?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - I am on a dating website, not going to name it here. I have been for about 3 years. I have not had a single date, whether I am not attractive enough or whatever! Anyway, two parts to this question: a) What does one write in a dating profile t...

Is he gay? Is he into me? Why does he want to meet me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I met this guy on a random social network. I am from California and he's from one of the southern states. I am crazy in love with him. We talk so much. We text every single day. He leaves me audio notes and video notes on my phone. Now he tells me ...

I want to meet my LD crush but my parents don't want me to be alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hi ! I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been talking to this 18 year old guy on Skype for the last 2 weeks because we are both in college ( I graduated highschool early ) we could meet until the summer but we talked about it a couple times we enjoy ...

My boyfriend gets upset when I don't answer the phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - i am 46 single and live in uk and my muslim boyfriend is 26 years old, we met on a dating site. I look much younger than my age,we are planning to get married. My boyfriend gets really upset with me, when he cant get hold of me on the phone. He se...

I am worried it is over.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I feel so helpless and depressed and lost. I started dating a guy and we went out on a few dates..everything was going well now he has stopped calling. Before then we emailed each other a lot for a few months before we met (we had met online). ...

I lied to her online about my life, my looks! I really love her, so what can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - Hello! I really don't know what to do. At the beginning it was all like a joke, I didn't use to have a serious relationship 'online'. So I've said why should I say the truth, I will say only lies. That's when I've found this girl that is everything ...

How can I keep and increase the communication we share?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4448 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - the this girl who I am chatting with on some social network, you see we started when a friend of mine introduced me to her, so we decided to go private to know each other well. ever since that day we've communicated wonderfully, talk about about ...

My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...

I love him madly. But he's starting to behave in ways that suggest I will get hurt. What are my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4449 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: out of compassion text speak was corrected. However the level of Text Speak orginally was more than is usual. Please next time - less Text speak? Hi everyone. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months now and I have known hi...

He's a nice guy but doesn't live close and its quite tiresome to try to see him. Should I end it already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4447 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I really need to vent and I need advice about my dating dilema. I met a guy from online who lives 3 hours from me. The date went pretty well. It takes me time to really like someone but I wasn't in a rush to leave so that's a good si...

Do I meet him and let him help me financially to be with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - I have no idea how to start, i really have a big dilemma. I recently took a break from college due to some family problems. In this time i have had a lot of spare time on my hands so of course i overkilled the internet. It is at that time that i...

Meeting Online - Your Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - Hello! A bit of background: I'm 20! Being quite traditional with my views on most issues, it's not really a shock that I'm sceptical about the online arena when it comes to meeting people. I have always thought that it's not a very pure way of...

I'm new to online dating, how can I let this guy down nicely? Or should I offer to meet up anyway just to see if I was wrong about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - I've just recently started to try online dating. A few people have requested contact but I wasn't really interested so I politely declined their requests. One guy who contacted me seemed like he might be interesting to get to know him so I said I ...

His texting to me is unpredictable. If he texts me again shall I just ignore him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - I have been texting a guy for several months now. We have met 3 times. Anyway his texts are not consistent. He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking. I text him back the other day, got one text back to which...

Broken Hearted. How do I get her to love me??? Or how do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - There's this girl I talked to online for a really long time. we spent forever together and i thought things were going fine. we hung out once and it seemed like it went well but she doesn't want me for some reason. she talks to me all the time and...

I lost my fiance because of online dating sites! Why do I do this to myself and how do I get out of this hole I've dug for myself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - I have been on and off dating sites now for over 4 years. almost 2 years ago my fiance walked out on me after catching me on them again after giving me several chances. Since that, I have met guys off the sites but nothing ever came of them, I was ...

Should I start a relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, Good day. I need some good advise from you guys here. As I have never have a relationship before and came to know this guy who is a Myanmar (30 yrs old) while I am a Chinese (34 years old) We known each other through online dating...

How to figure out if my online crush is taken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I really like this guy but I can't tell if he is taken or not. I know it's just online and I shouldn't get so involved but I sort of have a crush on him. He is friends with this other girl and they joke or say that they are 'engaged'. I kno...

Old flame, old rumours ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - I have reacently been in contact with a guy I knew from late high school, we had been messaging one another on and off for about 6 months. We had said we would meet and catch up. Then I get a message from him that said he had heard a rumour about me ...

Am I being scammed?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I need some advice or guidance with this problem.. I will explain the situation and why I feel worried now I met a Turkish man on Facebook (he is 37 and I am 35)and we have been talking for about 1 year 2 months. The conversations is...

He came to visit so we could meet in person, but I caught him talking on the phone with other women during his visit.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - Dear Aunts, I finally met the man I was talking to online, and that was afraid to meet because I am too shy and did not drive. We met in person two weeks ago, and he is the sweetest and most gentleman man I have ever met; he drove the whole time s...

He's Flirt-texting another woman. Is he thinking about cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been living together for over a year now but we also have a roommate, my boyfriend's best friend. (I'll call him R). Now R has had this on again/ off again relationship with a girl (I'll call her A) for months now, and ...

Why does she involve her friends in making decisions for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

11 February 2012 (M) - Ok i have loved this girl for over a year or so she goes to my college and everything but i have lost trust in her over these months. We share fb passwords and i realised that she has often told her friends somethings i would of liked to be betw...

I don't want to get back with my ex, but I need help understanding his behaviour. Why couldnt he stop going onto online dating sites? Why did he lie so much?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

10 February 2012 (M) - I write in a midst of confusion. I have ended a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend due to his do or die determination in dating site memberships. It has been a constant cycle of him getting caught, lying, convincing me I am seeing things, then ...

What's stopping him from asking me out????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - I am talking to a guy i met online a few weeks ago (about 3 weeks) and he seems really nice, and it seems like we have many things in common. He has told me he thinks i am really pretty and asked when he can start taking me on dates and we joke ...

Online dating/friendships, general safety and security. Protecting yourself and your privacy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

8 February 2012 (?) - I'm still shocked and surprized far too often by the number of people who have been stalked, harassed or "hacked" online when all they have to do is implement some very easy safety procedures. It is a known fact well over 90% of people who claim...

A guy online sends me raunchy messages. Should I stop talking to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - Ok so i met this guy in a Chatroom and he seems really nice but he's 21 and I'm 16 he texts me kind of raunchy stuff like where he wants to have sex with me but I told him I'm a virgin and he lives in NY and Im in Ohio he says he wants to hook up ...

Why are his responses getting shorter? Is he into me or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - I had what appears to be a nice guy message me on a dating site. He initiated the contact, so that's a plus in my book. We've each replied once a day for a few days. I'm keeping it light and trying to ask him questions to get more info out of him. ...

I lied about my age and now I'm afraid I might get caught in my lie

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I kinda have a problem. So I have been talking to this guy i met on the Internet for a while now and we want to meet up. He lives I a different state then I do but we are having our parents talk about maybe having me go to him, or him come to ...

How can I tell if this online guy is for real or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I met this guy in a chat room he is 21 and I'm 16 I live in Ohio and he lives in NY. We really hit it off but I lied to him about having sex I told him Im a virgin today and he was like what have I not been honest with u and I was like I was ...

I don't want to demand too much from her, but she hasn't mentioned meeting up again, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 February 2012 (M) - I met a nice girl on the internet, we chatted for 2-3 weeks, then finally met up on Sunday afternoon. We walked for around 30 mins, then we went to a cafe,had some tea and chatted for 2hrs 30mins, then walked home for 30 mins. I forgot to text h...

I cheated, then she cheated but she's still in touch with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 February 2012 (M) - hi i cheated on my partner 6 years ago ,then she cheated on me around 6 mths later which i found out about 2 weeks ago , since i cheated i have been honest and true to her and i thought her to me she told me it happened once but she as keep in ...

Should I wait to see how long it takes for him to text me, or just go ahead and try to get something planned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

6 February 2012 (F) - A few weeks ago a guy I've been chatting with asked for my number. He texted me shortly after that but since then I always start the texting off and there's about 1-in-2 chance he'll reply (more likely to respond if I ask a question) He's not ...

This girl really likes me but I am not attracted to her physically even though she's nice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

6 February 2012 (M) - I feel a girl from work is falling for me. She's been in constant contact with me for past whole month and gets really anxious and uneasy when I accidentally miss or fail to reply her calls or texts; I know this because I have more than five texts ...

Not feeling a physical attraction...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - I am currently separated, divorce should be final in a couple more months. I met someone on an online dating site and we've been on four dates. This is the first man I've dated since my separation. My problem is that he's perfect for me in every ...

Is he serious or he is not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - Dear all I need to get some good advise from you guys here. First of all, I get to know this guy online. He is 30, myanmar, Virgo and I am 34, Chinese, libra. We met each other after chatting online for 10 days then we decide to meet up. Aft...

Why does he think going on dating sites is "nothing"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - I have officially broke up with my bf of 4 years a few months ago but the feelings are still there and we still love each other a lot. We broke up because the future for us would be very tough together. I also found out that he's been on dating w...

Why aren't men ever content with just one woman, on dating sites?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

4 February 2012 (F) - Dating sites are very adventurous but I think once you have dated a guy and he wants to see you again, its only manners to wait until the next time.In meeting someone old fashioned style, if you meet someone and wanted to meet them again, would it ...

No double standard - I just want one off sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

3 February 2012 (F) - I'd like advice about meeting with a guy I met online. To lead up to this question, I must explain I've only been in long lasting relationships since I was 15. I've never really been single. My ex cheated on me last month and I'm still upset, but my ...

Soon to be girlfriend doesn't want majority of people to know we are dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

2 February 2012 (M) - So i have a soon to be girlfriend but she says she doesn't want to put up our status on Facebook(and i agreed it's kind of stupid) but she also said she would wants no one to we are dating. Is this because she may be embarrassed of me. her ...

I have no trouble dating men off dating sites, but why can't I get them to stick around?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - I seem to be able to get men, date men off the dating sites, but never seem to be able to keep them.What am I doing wrong?I am not sleeping with them early on, but I am upset when I see them on the dating sites after we agree to meet up again as ...

Does no communication from a man...really mean no interest??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - I have dated this guy last week and he said he wanted to see me again.He works away alot and has sales meetings etc. I am finding it hard though when there is no communication and I am doing all the texting. he has now gone away to new york for a ...

Supplementing your relationship with cyber and virtual contact?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - Here's the dilemma with a double-standard. For some reason, I'm ok with porn. I've watched it. It turns me on. I don't fantasize about the actors. I think about myself and my (at the time) boyfriend. I'm sure what everyone gets out of it is ...