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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

My online boyfriend quit speaking to me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like ...

I feel our child kicking in my stomach and it breaks my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated ...

My life doesn't seem fixable. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have a brief separation in progress and since being online i dont emotionally feel bothered. I am not sure how much stress im copying with separating from my partner, and this worries me. My need to communciate with other people via inter...

My friend from myspace is obsessed! How do I let him down easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ok i have a problem.a friend of mine who i first met through myspace is obsessed with me.the only times weve met is when he came to my work a couple times,and that was a long time ago.we still chat sometimes but i dont talk to him much becuz ...

Just found out my husband of 8 years is a member of 100 online pornography sites!! Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Three weeks before I was to get married I caught my soon to be husband trolling for sex on the internet. He promised nothing other than curiosity was happening and I forgave him. Now here we are 8 years and 2 kids later and I catch him with an ...

Why doesn't he ever want to discuss our future anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok story is like this... I been in a online relationship for 15 months.. We been online close friends for around 3 years, and very very good friends at that. Well when we first became a couple, the romance and way he behaved towards m...

He's 40, we met online and he says he loves me after only two weeks! How can this be possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, need some advice on a LDR. I am 38 yo woman and 5 yrs out of a long marriage ( and so far dateless) and recently met a 40 yo man online. He lives in the same country (though diff nationality) but is overseas on work contract at present. ...

She's not the same person online and I am so scared of losing her to internet chat rooms!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hello everybody... im in a relationship for the last 5 months and me and my girlfriend spend every day together i love her to bits but we have silly arguments everyday and i crack up when she chats on-line because its like she is a different pers...

My bf is insisting I give up my chat room friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ok.. so here's the problem.. my boyfriend and I fight all the time! one of things that we are constantly arguing about is the fact that i like chat rooms and all that stuff.. he wants me to give up msn and my chat room and leave all the f...

My internet LD guy friend recently got a gf! I thought he was the right person for me, though...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 421 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - One of my best friends lives in Canada, and I live in the US. We both have admitted to liking each other. He tells me the cutest things, things you wouldnt hear normally. He makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world. I dont get to see him ...

I confronted her about that secret and she said that she was NOT a girl at all...she is a transexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I have a serious question that has been bothering me for a couple of days. I met this girl two months ago online and she and I were fully in love with each other. We always chat almost everyday and she has been sending me pictues of her. I thought ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - should i break up with my boyfriend? i've known him for 2 and a half years ive loved him for half that and we've been dating for 5 months he is my best friend and i tell him everything. we did meet on myspace and we talk on the phone and use we...

Can Adult Friend Finder create a profile from information they find on the internet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has a profile on Adult Friend Finder. When I comfronted him about this he said it was a mistake and that he never made one. He said that the adult friend finder site must have created it, but it has some of his ...

My boyfriend insulted me badly seeing that I was checking the people who were interested in my on line profile! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Hey all agony aunts, I really need advice on this one. Me and my now ex bf have been 'together' for a while, so when I went over his house the other day (we practically live together) I was going through my facebook, and one of the applications I ...

Is my girlfriend an internet skank?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I occasionally chat to eachother when we are at our parent's houses via MSN, now I have about 10-15 girls on my MSN contacts list and when she found out she went nuts at me even tho all of them but her were blocked, she told me ...

We met on line, I feel I love him one minute and the next I just want to be friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I met his guy online and i immediatly liked him. The problem is he lives in calagary and i live in vancouver. He is 18 and im 16. He is thinking about coming and living with me or get a apartment near hear. I like him now but he wont be able...

Have I blown my chances with this guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - i have been talking to this guy for a few months over a well known social networking site. anyway we go to the same university and i saw him today for the first time and we briefly spoke. the conversation went something like this, he says hi hows ...

How do you tell people "we met on the internet" or do you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys. I'm 22 and i'm a virgin - and had minimal experience with girls. I've decided I want to have sex whenever it feels right for me (i.e. not wait until I find 'the one', but a one night stand is a possibility if the opportunity pres...

Are these my boyfriend's pictures or could it be his brother's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 423 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone : ) ... My problem is that I've become very insecure about myself and I'm worried that I may over react about a lot of things cz of the way I feel about myself. Sometimes when my bf and I go out I see him look at other girls even tho...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months yet he doesn't agree to change his relationship status to committed on his online profiles!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Please tell me if you think I'm being paranoid. My boyfriend snapped at me becuase he said someone changed his profile on some bebo thing to show that he's in a realtionship so when I said does it really matter he said yes it does because someone ...

Internet date already has a girlfriend, what shall I do? I would rather just delete his number, but how to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I joined a dating website and started to talking to a guy, he messaged me first. I checked his profile and didnt really fancy him but didnt want to be nasty so chatted for a while. Anyway he turned out to be very funny, a really good laugh. And I ...

He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell ...

My friended created an online profile of me on a dating site, I was contacted by a guy, we're in love and planning to meet but my profile lies about my age. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hello, i hope someone can help, my friend was mucking about on my laptop one night and made this fake profile for me on a dating site, she made my age to be 25, i didnt realise she did, then i checked it out one nite, and this guy had sent me an e...

He lives in another country, he's 10 years older than me, I'm 13 and beginning to get a crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - [What is a frienemy??] Latley i've been talking to this guy who lives in another contry. He's my frienemy and he makes me happy with his jokes and his all around prsonality. He is ten years older than me, and i'm 13! but i feel like i'm beginnin...

I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i ...

We discussed marriage but I have second thoughts as I don't want to feel tied down, I do want to be with her though and am worried about hurting her feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in a situation where i really don't know whats going on/gone on in my head recently. I'm in the forces and based in germany, i went home for a bit of summer leave at the beginning of august this year and met an amazing girl who lived in...

I talked to him 2 years online before meeting up, and I was surprised at his inappropriate behaviour when we met! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I met up with a guy i met online, i had talked to him for about two years. yesterday me n my friend went on train to leeds to meet him. at first he seemed really nice just like online, then we went to the cinemas n he started stroking my leg ...

I get so insecure when he talks about other girls ever since I caught him flirting with girls on MSN!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

20 September 2008 (?) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now and we're normally really close. I love him and he loves me. A couple or weeks ago I found some of his msn conversations and it seemed like he was lining up more girls. I asked him about it and he ...

Is going to the zoo considered a date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I am 25 and completely useless and inexperienced when it comes to women. But i've been speaking to this girl for about 6 weeks now and we text and email every day. I've only managed to meet up with her a couple of times but now she's suggested ...

Everytime he looks at me, my thoughts turn to mush! What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Ok. So there is this guy, called *Rob. We were introduced through a good friend of ours. This is in January. Anyway, we didn't really get the chance to talk or anything until a month later on msn. Soon, these conversations came every other day, and ...

She is listed in her profile as being in an open relationship. I told her we should meet. Is there any way I could consider a possibility of a relationship at some point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - As I mentioned, I am starting uni soon. I added a few people on facebook doing the same course or are in the same hall as me. Anyway, I was talking to a girl I added a few weeks ago today on the facebook IM service. She doesn't know anyone...

Will this guy ever talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - i met this guy in net chat, we got to know each other we also got each others emails and since than we always kept in touch. we became really good friends, sometimes he used to say words which made me feel he likes me more than friend. one day ther...

The 'situation' that will dumbfound you!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I met a woman on an online dating site. She had just finished a 3 year relationship. This guy was verbally abusive and always wanted a 3some. She was very much against that. They subsequently got engaged and then he left her out of ...

What does it mean when her profile says she is in a 'open' relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

We've talked about meeting in person numorous times, yet we don't have a real plan after 2 months! How do I voice my concern in an appropriate way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - ive been talking frequently to a guy that i found on a popular dating site.we get along great and seem to just click very well with each other.im very interested in meeting him,and we both have agreed that we definetly need to meet.weve talked about ...

He wants to throw it all away so that he can go and live back with his mum...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 miles...

Do I wait for my online boyfriend, or go for the real life guy who cares for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Here is my problem. I met a guy online, we like eachother so much. He is going to visit me in a couple of months (We live in different countries). He is always busy since he is on duty in the army in Iraq. lately, He rarely talk to me or even email ...

What to do about my lying boyfriend? He blamed it on me that he created a dating account! Do I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - right so i'l try and make this short, basically me and my boyfriend nearly split up about 2 weeks ago and it was his choice he was saying he doesn't know wether he wants me or loves me anymore and we came to a decision that we were going to give it ...

Most of the time, we can only talk online. Then her replies are delayed and out of context. Also feel she is finding excuses to end the relationship. Your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - My gf has been very busy reading news and joining online discussion about election. When we met online, I need to wait a long time for her to reply the message. At least 10 minutes. The worse, the reply isn't actually a reply eg hahahahahaha or ...

I understand that parents are a bit wary of letting me go over to Ireland to see someone they'd barely met, but they're being unreasonable about it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hey Aunts. It started like this, I met a guy online and we liked each other loads, so I gathered as much proof as I could that he was who he said he was, and arranged to meet up with him. We'd known each other for over a year and a half over msn ...

Could this go anywhere, regardless of the age difference and distance between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so one of my cousins moved to the USA (I live in the UK), and she has a friend who is a 16 year old guy. She introduced me to him via Instant Messenger, he is really, really nice and funny. I am only 13 and I truely feel as if I am in love...

I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online, any tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online and i'm a bit rusty. We haven't actually seen each other face to face yet and i'm worried about there being a dreaded silence period, as i'm fairly shy and I think she is as well. ...

I found photos of him as a cross dresser in the Internet, it seems he was an escort and is bi, I am so frightened to aproach him about this and don't know how.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my man for 2 years now, we hit it off from the word go and fell in love pretty quick, we are so close and always confide in each other if we have anything on our minds. We have just bought a house together and I could not have bee...

We'll be meeting this coming Saturday, after texting each other. How do I make him want me the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, there's a guy i want to be with. we met through the phone mistakenly, when he mistyped a digit and dilled my number instead. we got talking, then we realised we visit the same club every saturday. we arranged to meet but it failed last ...

My online boyfriend can't seem to move on from past offences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi I would like to hear some opinion from anyone here. I have my long distance bf from US whom I been with for 2 yrs, we haven't meet yet but soon. As a normal couples we do have our arguments even to the smallest things. I normally send an email...

Are we dating if he hasn't come right out and said that? I met him online.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - ok i met a guy on a dating site we when out like three times we kiss on the third day. then one nite him ant i we whent out with my friends and one of my girl friend liked him.so one nite that i whent to her house i left my cell phone and she got ...

I found that he was asking a lot of girls for pictures, to go on cam, meet up for sex... I don't want to break up, I want to get this sorted out, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Anyway starting right from the start was ages ago, in April I think when we were in the park and we were stealing each others phones and wrestling them off each other (in a nice way) I had his phone and we were carrying on, but when I went into ...

My boyfriend whom I met online lied to me, it's over but I still care. Your thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Ok, I should be old enough to know better but I would like some input please. I have met a very nice man( so I thought) on a dating site. We clicked. It's been 4 months now and for the past month I got a gut feeling. Not a good one. So the one and ...

Should I continue waiting, tell her how I feel, or give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Okay, so i guess i should start with a little bit about myself. I'm 15, and i've been homeschooled since last school year (including this school year that just started). During the entire time i've been homeschooled, i haven't seen any of my friends ...

I'm in love with my transgendered FTM friend. How do I let him know I'm serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm really confused here and could use some advice. I've been friends with this guy. lets call him Alan. Fot about 6 months now. We met online. the thing is, he's trans-gendered female to male. I recently told him I have feelings for him,...