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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is it my fault that he has not spoke to me since our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I wenr on date with a 21 year old (Im 17). We met over the internet. The date didn't go as I planned. i was nervous but we held hands. He was nice and sweet, opened the car door for me and paid for my movie ticket. That night, he told me he was ...

We've been rather distant recently, I'm worried I might lose her!

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30 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone I'm new to this whole asking questions about relationships and stuff kind of. But yeah anyway there's this girl I met online from las vegas and I'm from chicago. we met while I was in highschool my freshman year and we've been frien...

How am I supposed to act when I've traveled 1,200 miles just to get rejected?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Well I met this girl on facebook and we started chatting casually. We were truely interested in each other. We talked and texted on the phone with alot of pictures for a couple months and so I decided to make the trip over this thanksgiving holiday ...

At some point she has to trust me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hello I've met a woman online we talked for about a month before we actually met. We met, we hit it off and we slept together. we both said we were ok with it and we both said we weren't seeing other people. Before we met she invited me on a field ...

He's saying he needs time to get his mind straight... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about 8 months i met him thru an online dating site.... we had an immediate connection, things were really really great.... now hes saying he needs time 2 get his mind straight... but im not sure if its about our ...

It's been nearly two months since he left me and I can't let go. I keep wanting to restore our friendship but I know it's impossible.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I was online friends with a married man more than 20 years my senior (I'm 22, 21 at the time). I knew from the beginning that he was married and we started off mainly as just acquaintances. However, it seemed like he fell for me over time and around ...

How can I meet my online guy safely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - The guy im dating lives overseas and im dating him online, we talk for hours everyday and he finally wants me to come see him in england. Im 19 and hes 21 i Know this could potentially be dangerous but i also know that it might not be. so how do i ...

He has created an online fake to talk to me instead of talking to me himself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - ive been talking to a guy in his mid thirties on the internet on msn. he wasnt very talkative, and now i know 100% that he has made up a contact and is trying to talk with me as though he is someone else. why is he doing this? i havent told him that ...

Is our online relationship an actual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I just need some advice about online dating. I've talking to this guy how's 15 and he lives a state over.We talk on facebook and the phone.He says he really likes and i like him too.So he asked me if i would be his girl friend and i said yes.But now ...

He calls me princess.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hi I've met someone online and i've been talking to him for about a year now. It was 3 months ago that he asked me out. Thinking nothing of it I said yes, thinking that we would never meet. But after this 3 months of going out with him he is the cu...

Why do guys pretend to be someone else to get you to talk to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - why would guys who like you pretend to be someone else to get to talk to you? ive had a few guys do this to me now and i click on straight away when they pretend to be someone else....

Did he play me this whole time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I want to get over him and I don't. I feel..know I should but I don't want to break contact. He had always messed with my head. I didn't know if he cared or not. He did things that made me think he did. Did others that made me think he took me for ...

Should I message her again now that her account is reactivated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - On an online dating site I messaged a girl a few months ago, she never replied and then de-activated her account. Her account is now active again. Should I message her again or just leave it alone? My gut says leave it alone but I don't know....

Do I come between him and his girlfriend, or do I keep it to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - I got chatting to this boy online a few months back we got really close and we met up a few times. I wanted to go out with him until he said that he had met this girl out downtown, he's now still in a relationship with her. I saw him today and got ...

The Atlantic Ocean is the only thing keeping us apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Is it possible to have strong feelings for someone you've only met once? I'm in a tough situation and need your advice. I went to Vegas about a month ago now and on the last night there I met guy. We hit it off right away and was head over heels for ...

Meeting my online man in 2 weeks, how do I explain these concerns of mine to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Hi there I have never been in a real relationship before. I dated lots of guys when I was younger, I am now 29. I usually refuse for friends and family to set me up. I truly believed that I would meet the right person myself. Anyway, I recent...

I like him so much but he's leaving me till last!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - since august ive been talking to a guy online. hes 6 years older than me and hes turkish, lives in turkey. he is so lovely! and i find him so attractive. we would speak online every night and see eachother on webcam, nothing wrong, just faces as hes ...

I just need help to deal with my frustrations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man (long distance) for about a year now. It started out as an online relationship, but we have met plenty of times, and he is currently working on saving money (as am I) so that we can move in together in the future. Now, we ...

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - Hi there, Before I start my story please know I appreciate your honest feedback no matter how harsh it might be. I am a 35 years old man who never been in serious relationship before and I finally met this girl online (I know :( Meeting someon...

Online guy sent me his photo and now I just want to disappear

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been talking for four months daily with this man on the Internet. He's really, really nice and understanding. He barely ever showed his picture. Twice and he looked good looking. Today's my birthday and I asked for him to send a photo even if ...

Is my girlfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - So, I'm confused. After spending nearly 4 months in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, I'm getting ready to visit her. The problem is, I have no idea how my girlfriend views our relationship or me. She is not the type who likes t...

Online guy thinks I'm single, but I'm back now with my boyfriend, who doesn't know about online guy. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - hello if anyone can help me i more than appreciate it. I have a boyfriend for the last 6 and half years. We've had our ups and downs and its been on and off lots of times. 2 months ago we decided to finish our relationship. I ended up...

Is it okay to message him on facebook or is that a bit stalkerish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - hi i need advice :) I met a guy through a friend that i think is really cute. We seemed to hit it off, but have only had casual conversations and flirted a bit. My mate told him i liked him and he said he liked me too but wouldn't do anything about ...

She came to me once, will she come back again?

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21 November 2010 (F) - I met this girl on-line, we flirted and then arranged to meet. She got cold feet and told me to leave her alone so I did. 6 weeks later she comes back into my life apologising for the way she treated me and she'd got in some trouble. We got talking ...

Very confused about my feelings and my online boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I'm scared, I don't want to leave my country (mexico) right now, I wanna stay here, but I don't see a chance for me to make my dreams come true here that makes me sad, scared and frustrated. I've been thinking a lot in my "online bf" and right now ...

Should I talk to him again after nothing for a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy back in april online, I thought he was perfect he was 21 lived in washington, Im 18 and live in dublin ..ages away! anyway we talked for around 6 months loads, and he kept asking me to come over to him and I was really going to, ...

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open I'm worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy just over 2 months now, We met through online dating and met up with each others 4 times now. He lives 1 hour 30 mins away from me and have not had any exclusive conversation. We seemed to be getting along well and we were ...

He keeps making profiles on sex sites! Should I just let this go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - Anyone else go or going thru where in a committed relationship and boyfriend/husband on the internet(phone) alot not just porn but also make profiles on sex seeking sites (discrete hookups etc).I didn't know he was doing this until a fluke msg came ...

Online man I like is same age as my mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I have been speaking with a man for five months now. I'm 18 and he lives in North Carolina. I have an aunt there and my mother has been saying she will move there during the next fall. He mentioned he was thinking of going back to college to study ...

Going to meet my online guy, stay at his house and am worried about how his mother is going to react to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy online 2 year ago. To begin with he was just a cool friend then i got to know him and fell for him and same goes for him. I have loved this guy for an incredibly long time now and I know I do love him as Ive never felt this ...

I lied to him! How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl in Califronia.Last summer i went to an indain chatroom. I would chat for fun when i was bored, it was a way to get the stress out from school. I ended up talking to a guy, sent him fake pics like always (not that im ugly, but i ...

I can't live without her but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I meet this girl about 2yrs ago on line. So we hit it off talking to each other every day. When I have meet her she had a 8 yr ralationship with a guy before me that she loved a lot. Then we starting talking more clicking with each other more and ...

My online friend wants more than a friendship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I've been friends with this guy on the internet for over a year and recently we decided to meet up. I thought it would just be as two mates going out but he ended up telling me he loved me and i kissed him. We've been together for 3 months now, and ...

Am I involved in some kind of affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we ...

Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I'm 16..And I have a boyfriend..But we've never met in person before..only on webcam and phone..And he's halway around the world..Well I guess the question is..Is it weird?Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?...

I don't think I'm wrong for being with him, am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Hello there. I'm in a LDR. I love it a lot. I'm very very happy with what we have together. He's a lovely guy! He makes me so happy and he gets who i am and all the things i do or want to do with my life. I love that about him. But there's on ...

Importance of physical attraction for guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - i met this guy off an online dating website (im 21, he 22).. im quite shy and am rather intimidated by him for various reasons, but we;ve been on a few dates anyways.. just wondering whether guys would persue a girl that they're not physically ...

I'm way more pleased with myself than guilty!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - This morning i cheated on my fiance with someone I met online. I have been with my fiance for 8 years...my question is why don't i feel guilty? I try to make excuses like i did it for an ego boost because i have low self esteem or that it was nice ...

Is this just my trust issues or is he doing something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4903 days ago

16 November 2010 (F) - ive been with my bf for nearly a year now. i met him on facebook and we met and spent few hours together when i was there in his country.i only treated him as friends at that time but things developed after that.we chat for hours every night,webcam ...

What's with this Facebook guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone online that you hardly know? This guy on facebook recently friended me. We start chatting and in no time he wants an online relationship (he lives in a different country) and starts telling me he loves me. ...

Do you think a married man would visit his other woman of 6 years thousands of miles apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I have an affair online with a married man of 6 years. We plan to meet in 2011 for the first time. Our relationship has grown so deep, we fight and we mend. His wife knew about it and his children but despite of it he continues his relationship ...

Should I just leave things alone and see if he'll come around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4904 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - For the past 7 months, I have been getting to know a guy that I met through the internet. He lives in another city, and we are both very busy with work and school, so we haven't been able to see each other very much, but we would talk almost every ...

We can't date anymore because I'm so amazingly, dependable, caring, and kind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

13 November 2010 (M) - Asking for help is hard to do... but I've found my way here, where it seems good advice is all around. A little about me: I'm a solid guy, no emotional baggage or other major life issues hanging around me - been there, done that, learned my lesso...

Want to make her mine!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

13 November 2010 (M) - I like a girl very much, We met through Facebook and have never met physically because we live in different countries. She seems to be a very nice girl to me and I love her very much, even more than myself. We know each other for the last 5 month...

I'm having a hard time understanding.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - Hi all, I'm in desperate need of advice. I am an asian girl, 5 8, skinny and fit. I have been told I am pretty, sexy, hot many times by many of my friends, heard that guys have said this about my through word of mouth. I even tried online dat...

FWBs vs. Relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy online about 2 or 3 months ago and we went on our first date a few days back. Had a great time and find myself attracted to him but I'm sensing that the feeling is not mutual. I want to start building a relationship that leads to...

If I'm on an online dating site just chatting, would you call that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - hi i have a boyfriend that nobody approves of i like him alot but the strain of sneaking out to see him is taking its toll. its hard 4 me to lie about were im going all the time. but i really like him and dont feel ready to break up with him. he ...

Is he is making do with me, while still on the look out for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

12 November 2010 (?) - Hi, this might sound like a trivial question, but I thought I'd just ask for some opinions anyway. And yes, it's about online/long distance things, which I know tends to get a lot of criticism. I have been in contact with a guy for about a year...

I'm worried he is too nice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - I'm having trouble with this new guy i'm going to meet up with. I got this number off a networking site and we've been texting each other for a few weeks. We are now planning to meet up soon but the thing he is a nice guy. I know that any girl wou...

Was he just handing me a line of bull?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

12 November 2010 (F) - So I signed up for online dating and a very hot man contacted me. He was very complimentary to me and a we texted and talked on the phone alot. After about 2 weeks we met at a sports bar for a ver nice 1st date. Later that night he asked me out for ...