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writes:I have been single for a while and have decided to set up a dating profile, while I was browsing the guys profiles I noticed an ex of mine had a profile on there, when i looked at his ideal date he had described me.. right down to hair colour and length, body shape, eye colour, personality everything!We finished a long time ago and don't talk now. I guess I am wondering if he might not be over me. Its just the details were so specific, more than just a type he likes.Any opinions?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 November 2011):
 it seems a bit over the top but if you are interested in him it' can't hurt to say HI and see where it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Thanks for your replies.
He ended the relationship as I was having some personal issues that he couldn't handle, I couldn't really blame him for that, it was a really difficult time.
We did stay in touch for a while, until I met someone else and then he didn't really contact me, I figure he may have been a bit jealous. (We were together for 7 years and I was his first real love) That relationship didn't last long but he didn't contact me again. That was a few years ago.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): I would find it extremely odd to read a mans profile online, that was that specific. Its just physical. And yes, that isn't a normal, I am ordering this meal with no sauce, add chicken, make the onions green and baked it with cheese on top. Its not longer the meal on the menu but a very controlled subsitute.
I would say that shows an obsessive trait in that he is trying to clone you but with better results as you are an EX and he wants an improved version. CREEPY!
I second the stay clear of the EX, indefinitely.
Out of curiousity, who ended that relationship and why?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 November 2011):
The problem with him could be that he has a certain type - and you might just have been one of those women who fit that type. It would be a bit dangerous to assume he still likes you on the basis of what he's looking for, when that might have been why he chose you.
And even if he did still like you, this is more like borderline obsession, so you'd be better steering well clear.
I think you might be reading too much into this. Better to leave this ex in the past and not try to wonder how he feels. Either you're reading too much into it, or he's obsessed.
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