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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Lied about my age, will he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i met my boyfriend online 2 months ago. We got chatting and really hit it off, met a couple days later and we got along so well and fell for each other so bad that i didnt end up leaving and so now ive moved in with him. We've already been thr...

Dishonest, without intention... what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - Hi I have made this huge mistake. It started out less malicious than it sounds, 5 years ago I was playing a game online and wasnt interested in meeting anyone for real, so in order to keep my age to myself and annonymity, I sent a fake pic, Sad...

So whats he really thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I have been in contact with a myspace friend for almost 2yrs. We have talked, emailed and texted during this time. Both of us are single. I have no children as he has 4 kids living with him, he is divorced twice. 3 kids from his first wife and ...

I can't trust my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I've recently accessed my husbands Facebook account. I'm stunned, hurt, betrayed and angry! I found letters to and from his ex-girlfriend he found on facebook talking about how much he's thought of her over the years and how much he thinks of her ...

My online guy doesn't like hairy guys, and thats exactly what I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - So, I am in love with this guy who I met online we shared pictures and we talk a lot ( been a year now ..we still talk). It didn't work out and we were just phone friends. Lately he's been hitting on me and told me he would pick me over anyone if he ...

On-line friend and boyfriend, who should I choose to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok i'm really confused at the moment. I got with my boyfriend about 4 months ago and we seemed to get on great, well we do- but recently we've been going through quite a rough patch and we're arguing about everything and he's also extremly depresse...

What happened? We never got together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - Here goes, I met this guy on a music download site and we hit it off right away. We exchanged numbers and our picture were up on the site so we knew what the other one looked like With into weeks he was telling me that he had strong feelings ...

On line fantasy may become a reality.... But I am married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for five years and we have a child. I recently "ran into" my first love (middle school/highschool) on the internet. We started swapping messages and then we started texting. It started as casual chit chat, then a little flirty, ...

Am I being too forward and annoying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - I like this boy, i dont want 2 date him. i met him on myspace. He send me a friend quest, i was very excited cause he was sexy, so of course approved it. but i send him message like everyday, i told him that i wouldnt send him so many messages ...

He's totally changed, I can't even talk to him about a problem without fearing he will get mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together, exclusively, for a little over years steady. Up until this past year, things have been wonderful, but it's suddenly all starting to fall apart and I don't know why. We've been great friends before we started ...

He wants to leave if I don't do what he wants....please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - we got married 7 months ago.we meet every 3 months,its long distance marriage,cos im waiting for spouse visa. any how,before i meet him i was in relationship and he did read the emails i had with my ex which i sent and received before i met with my ...

Any advice on how I can start to talk to a guy I met on Myspace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

26 May 2009 (?) - hey :) i know this is a bit of a long shot but anyways i have myspace like most people, and just then i cam across this nice lad - so i added him. he accepted. and i really want to like start to talk to him or something but i don't know how to go ...

After an amazing day she tells me she didnt feel the "wow" factor!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, hopefully people here can share as few thoughts with my situation. Thank you. For the last two weeks, I have been in contact online, telephone, text with a lady of around my age. (40's) We both agreed that we clicked online, ...

Hit it and then quit it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - when a guy calls a girl beautiful like when he comments pics on facebook, or texts her what does it mean does it mean he really likes her? or he wants her to think he like her so he can "hit it and quit it"?? or hes a good friend and just wa...

Like me? Or just toying with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - ok these this girl i met on face book and we started to txt each other and about 2 weeks of talking everyday i told her that i really like her and she said that she really likes me to and about a day or two later she said she was dreaming of me and ...

Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted...

When I mention his wife, he changes the subject. Should I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 184 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I have a male friend with whom I email and communicate quite often. He´s GI married to another GI. They live across the country. He shares a little bit of their life but in a very general way. What makes me feel uncomfortable is the fact that wh...

Is there hope for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 11 years now. We have 3 beautiful children. Our marriage was a marriage made in heaven. Two years ago we got the internet and ever since then my husband spends hours online looking at other woman. Within the ...

He ex says he has something to tell me, but wont say what. Why is he waiting so long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 184 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My ex and I have not seen each other in a year now, we live in different countries, but still love each other, as we have both expressed it to each other. I had some issues and I hurt him very much, not by anything external of our relationship, but ...

We really hit it off but then immediately after we met up he left me for another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I met a man 10 months ago on the internet and fell in love with him. He had everything in common with me and we instantly hit it off. We spoke for something crazy like 12 hours the first time we ever spoke to each other and it carried on that way ...

Why does he continue to flirt with other girls online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - for a while now I've been logging on to my boyfriend's bebo and facebook(I know his password) and looking at his phone.and i've been finding flirty messages, like he told one girl he thought she was fit on bebo and is often asking for girls' ...

Why would he ask me to see him if he does not call me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy through a dating site recently and we went out for breakfast. We hit it off really well and got intimate with each other. He then asked me during it if I was seeing anyone else and I said no and I asked him if he was seeing anyone ...

Am I stupid for wanting to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Okay here it goes. My hubby wants to separate cause he met a girl on internet. He says it means nothing, but I don't know if he has met her or not. About 8 years ago this happened. Am I stupid for wanting to stay?...

Commitment phobic...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hi I’d like your advice, about 4 weeks ago I met a guy on an internet dating website who I was initially extremely forward with me. I saw his pics on line and we chatted online for a while and he seemed really nice and intelligent as he has his own ...

Can someone tell me where to find a decent man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Hi, im just wondering if anyone can give me any advice on where to meet decent down to earth men. It seems to me that men can't be faithful to one woman. Perhaps that's nature, i don't know but if a woman behaves like that then she's branded ...

He thinks he can change but is it fair for me to ask that of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - I was in an online relationship for nearly 4 years until i met and made a friend. Through this new friendship i realised wanted i really wanted from a relationship. It made me realise that my online relation wasn't the "great" thing that i had ...

Any way to keep him from assuming I'm an easy lay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) - Ok so about a month ago i met a guy online. After a few emails and interesting IM conversations, we planned to meet up to help me with a homework assignment. We hung out spur of the moment two days before (a Friday night). Things started out ok but ...

Is it right of me to ask her to cut contact with her male friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

18 May 2009 (M) - my question is; i have been with this women for 9months and its on the internet only. iam over 3000 miles away from her..is it right of me to ask of her to cut the contact with her male friends ,she seems to have an open door policy when it...

Is she trying to get out of going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

17 May 2009 (M) - Well, met a girl online, she added me on a social site i go on, we kinda hit it off and chat for hours all week and we get to the stage were we arrange to meet up for a drink. She said she's really looking forward to meeting me. So we have no ...

I really think there could be something there if given another chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

17 May 2009 (F) - Please help me...I really need advice on how to re-connect with this guy I met. All advice is accepted and appreciated! Ok here goes, I met this guy on a social networking site. He gave me his messenger screename and I we had two conversations. I...

How do I get him to open the door and let me in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - HI. i met someone online hes about my age really cute and a lovely guy all around. we talked almost everyday about this or that and it seemed we got on well, he then sent me a naked pic of himself and told me that he only did that for me and he as...

He wants to see me in my underware on webcam

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - i've fallen in love with this guy i met online, i trust him completely... i know it sounds dodgy but, he's a friend of the family and they all trust him so i guess he's ok. i really like him, we speak every day but recently he's been wanting to see ...

Doesn't this man have all the signs of a player?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Is he for real? I just would like others opinions about an online situation. I've been emailing back and forth with this man for the last 3 months. We are both in our early 40's. He says he is very busy, works 6 days a week, and claims he doesn't ...

Daughter's relationship worries me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - my daughter started a 'relationship'with a 19 year old from pakistan when she was 15.this has all been happening without our knowledge.we have now found out.she is now 16(so 'legally' she can date who she wants)she says she loves him.i am petrified ...

Am I neurtoic? Wasting my time? Or both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - i met this girl via a dating website, ive used a dating website before a few years ago and generally think theyre a pretty false way to meet people, anyway i was just browsing, saw someone i liked, joined, got in touch and to cut a long story short ...

I've lied so much to him..I can't get out of this unless I dump him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I just met this guy recently, he's basically everything I've wanted in a man. But we met online (and have met in person several times) and it was a result of my posting, and I originally only did it as a joke and I said I was older than I was, ...

We met online..should it go further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I started talking to this guy online. At first he was really sweet, and i was sort of horny, so i was trying to get him to get warmed up. but there was something about him. he wasnt like the other guys online who get hot in like ten seconds. he was ...

He's not a creep I've met his family... Online! I'm 17 he's 30 what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - I really like this guy that I met online. we have been talking for a couple of months now and in no way is he a creep or anything. He's even introduced me to his older bro and his sis in law. His parents even know about me and i have spoken to them ...

Do LD relationships ever work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm 17 yrs old i live in california anyways lets get to the point! i met this guy online he's 19yrs old, he lives in Florida but studies in virginia anyway like i was saying i met him online and he is really sweet and everything so when he first ...

I like him..he likes me but nothing is happening

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

10 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid: I've known this boy for a while now, I'd say about three months. The first month we actually talked was over the internet. We had talked like that for about a month and then I started meeting his friends. After me and his friends ...

Married..travel 900 miles for a hook up with online woman?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Ok I'm a 26 year old man, who has been married 6 years. I have within the last 6 months fallen into a strange situation with a girl I started talking to online. It started off with me just being horny, looking for a girl to talk dirty with, but ...

Can someone really have that many friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - on face book can one person have 230 real friends living in small town.or this person just adding freinds randomly or are they real freinds...

Is there any point in talking to this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - Hi all Need some advice on a situation i've gotten my self into. Recently i have chatting to a girl via facebook, who i am starting to really like. I saw her profile and discovered we have something really big in common.Practical...

Left in limbo - he went from being very interested in me to not wanting to see me at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I think I ruined a potentially good thing...did I? I met a guy online (let's call him W) and we had our first date a few weeks ago. It was great and I haven't felt that comfortable around someone new in a long time. He asked me out again and th...

My future wife to be is still frequenting chat rooms and dating sites!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - After 3 years together and making future plans, for the third time i have found my almost wife to be is still frequenting chatrooms,registering on dating sites and texting men from these (usualy younger). From day one she has denied doing anything ...

Should I meet my online fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - met a guy on a social networking site and now we talk everyday on msn. weve seen each other in pics and on cam. we share a lot and i really like him but He wants to meet. should i? im worried he's not going to like me and the way i look in real ...

Very complicated question, for a complicated relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - A little note about myself I've had a long history of depression through out my life. I've been dating a girl for almost two years now. She's 23 years old and I myself am 21. The relationships is a bit odd since we met through the internet and...

My long distance relationship is beginning to suffer, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I live in different country from my gf. We call, text and chat online. She usually call every few days by using a prepaid phone. She always text and despite those, we still chat a lot online. Few weeks after that, the text ge...

Proof of looks...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I have met a guy online and have been talking to him for two months. He lives 500 miles away. He said he is interested in me, but doesn't ask anything about me. He keeps asking for nude pics and I always say no. Once I asked him if seeing me nude ...

I'm new to online dating... what to do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Online dating. I need some advice regarding a guy a met on myspace. I was browsing on MySpace the other day and came across this really cute guy. I checked out his page and seemed like we have a lot in common. I requested to add him as a friend ...