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Online dating: Help and advice

What interesting things can I do with a guy at a boring mall?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'm going on a date with a 23 year old I met online tomorrow afternoon. Now, at 19, this is my first date. I havn't even told him that because I find it so embarrassing. We've planned on meeting at a mall. I'd like some ideas on fun, flirty, ...

Does letting go really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - much fun. I met all his family and friends. After about 4 months we were practically living together. Until one day, I felt that something wasn't right. I found out this the was on a dating website. I walked out and we didn't talk for a while. T...

Online dating issues. I want to message him, but what would I say to him now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I joined an online dating site and met a man and had quite a few dates with him. He wanted to keep his options open, but I caught him out in a lie when he said he was not at a place when he was. Since then he went quiet on me and so I told him he's...

He was always happy to talk on the phone, but not so much for getting together in person

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

29 July 2014 (F) - I met a guy online 5 months ago and we went on our first date after about 3 weeks of chatting. We had a great time and it was clear we got on well. Soon after our first date, he started calling me every night and we would speak for over an hour ...

Is there anything I can do to get this relationship back on track?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 July 2014 (M) - I met a woman on a dating site and we hit it off so well we that we took our conversations offline and started texting. After a week she deleted her account on the dating site and I just never bothered with mine again. After 2 weeks we had arr...

Did I miss the boat? Should I reply to his message brushing me off?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I'm not sure what to do about this. I contacted a guy last night. I only met him once and it was a while ago. I had a night out with a friend and I met him then. I sent a friend request last night and sent him a message just asking if he remembered ...

My partner has been sexting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I have discovered that my partner of 9 years has been sending very sexually explicit texts to another woman and photos of his erect penis. This dates back to the end of last year until March when it seemed to tail off. From the texts my name is ...

Is this guy bad news?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - I've been speaking to a guy online for a month. We first started speaking through twitter. The first night we started speaking, we stayed up until 6am. The conversation was incredibly deep, we spoke about everything from religion, to current events ...

Do I ask him out or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - ive met a guy I really like through an online dating site , weve been on a few dates and get on really well hes texted me loads to say he really likes me but then he had some bad health news he wont tell me what so fair enough ,he knows it wont ...

Why would someone block their profile after sending a message?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I am on match.com ... I wrote someone a quick note whose profile looked interesting. He wrote back this real long letter that was quite pleasant but ended with the statement that he wasn't on the site on a daily basis .and gave me his e-mail ...

The spark is gone from our sex life, will bringing in a third person help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Hi. My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We still love each other but the spark has gone from our sex life, although we regularly have sex. For many years I have always told her that the thought of her having sex with another well endowed ...

I'm married and have been chatting with a man for a year. We'll never meet so its harmless isnt it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Ok so where do I start. When I was on maternity, I spent long days in the house by myself. My husband has become rather un-attentive and has lost interest in most conversation. I was very lonely and restricted in money for doing activities...

I'm older now so how and where should I meet this guy I used to talk to online? What's a way to make it safe and get to know him better in person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hello everybody. Hope we are all well! A quick question really, if anyone is able to let me know their opinions? Right, I'll try and keep this as short as I can. Basically, a few years ago I did meet a guy online. We hit it off, yeah, bu...

Should I give it time to develop? I feel confused about my Online long distance friend. I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - Hi everyone Sorry, new to this site so not exactly sure how it works but I'll just ask away. Well basically I'm in a sort of confusing position with this girl who is my best friend. She's from Taiwan and we've been talking (online) for at ...

What are my chances with her? Should I message her? It was going so well at first.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - I met this girl on a web site. we went on a date on sat night and met her again on sunday. We had so much fun.. went back to her house on saturday night ( no sex) and sunday she came over we went to the pool ( no sex) she wants to wait. I respec...

Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

17 July 2014 (F) - A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's ...

Is my online friend right to be angry that I didn't ask him for money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - I have a great online friendship been going on about 18 months now, we are good friends have lots of chats and fun. Earlier this year I was out of work and he was very supportive of me cheering me up and just being there for me to chat when I was do...

Chatting online for a month and he wants me to pay his phone bill so we can talk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

11 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy in a dating website about a month ago and he asked me to pay his phone bill. It makes me a little uncomfortable because I don't know if he is using me. He says he likes me a lot and has plans to come visit me in 3 weeks (lives 7 hours ...

Am I being toyed with or is this something I should hold out for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

11 July 2014 (M) - This is probably an obvious answer but I still feel confused about the situation. A little over a year ago I was chatting with a girl on an online dating site. She seemed very lovely, is a psychologist, pretty, nice, funny. We messaged back an...

His lack of response and removal of profile probably suggests no desire on his part. Should I still contact him on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - So, I found this cute guy on okcupid. I messaged him, he messaged back, with clear enthusiasm. We wrote back and forth for three weeks, sometimes essay-grade responses, from his part and mine. I am on vacation abroad, due back in October. He knew ...

Take it slow or lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3579 days ago

9 July 2014 (F) - Hey guys, I'm really stuck on this one. Hope someone can help. I have recently met this guy online, and have been talking for a good few months about a month ago we met up and it seemed that we have a lot of our best friends in common we just h...

I found out he was an uncle by marriage of a friend of mine and now she hasn't really spoken to me a whole lot.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

6 July 2014 (F) - I am 29. Recently out of a 7 year relationship ending in him cheating on me, met a pretty decent guy online and have been dating him for 5 months now. He and I have so much in common, cheated on, faithful in previous relationships, love the same ...

We broke up but are talking and I don't know how he feels about me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Okay, ive been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and it's mostly been online. That's how we met. We live 4 hours apart we don't meet that often. He's been my first relationship and I actually can say with confidence I love him! i wo...

I'm not interested in anything but being his pen friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

5 July 2014 (F) - Sorry in advance if this is too long. I've been online(or pen pals if you want to call it) friends with a man for a few years. Up until recently we didn't talk much to each other, just a friendly greeting on facebook or this chat we started talki...