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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Any good sites where I can meet people my age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - does anyone know of a good website where i could meet people my age and in my area? not only boys but girls just for friendship too?...

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

I don't have any friends to go out with or to take my mind off my Internet lover, after the break up, so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend who i met online but never actually met in person. we were together for one year and he ended it saying its not going anywhere and im wasting his time. he is completely ignoring me now. i love him. believe me ...

Should I run a mile, or give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, need a little advice here as I'm not sure what to do. Split up from my ex about ten months ago and friends suggested going on a dating site.. Anyway I've had a lot of fun chatting to men, but some are just downright disrespectful and ...

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) ...

When is it right to change your "relationship status" on myspace / facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - when is the right time to change your status? I met my current man on myspace we have only been dating a few weeks, but I am willing to change my status as "in relationship" and I want him to aswell, would it be best to have a talk over this o...

I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, ...

Should I play hard to get with him or stay as I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I met this guy online a 5 months ago, before that we had sent pics back and fourth, we talked about everything..he is in the middle of a divorce right now..He has never said he loved me but he did say he was falling for me..I fell in love way to ...

My online interest... seems to be losing interest! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - i am so confused, i met a guy on a bbw internet dating site a few months ago. we have spoken threw the site and msn for a month or so now.we have exchanged phoned numbers and he has called me and now wishes us to meet, however....he doesnt seem to ...

My online guy doesn't seem interested. Has he found somebody else??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Hi dear aunts (and uncles)! I have a new question for you. I´ve become a member of one of those dating sites, specific for people that are looking for brazilian partners. I´ve done some research and add up a couple of guys and start chatting...

What could I do to get him to open up to me and feel more comfortable with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old girl and I have a major crush on a 23 year old guy. He's shy and is a very private person, and I've been trying to slowly get him out of his shell and talk to him. I have him as one of my friends on myspace, and I've...

I quit my job for him and we deleted our internet profiles. I found out he has a new one that lists him as single and looking for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, i worked in a pub which he wasn't happy about, as customers flirt. so i gave up the pub, and together we decided to delete our internet profiles. however i found out he had created a new profile ad...

How do I break off the engagement to my long distance partner? I've found someone better for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What should I do. Am 28 years, I was engage with this guy whom i did not know, He was introduced to me by a friend. The guy is in abroad we were contacting each other on phone, I posted my picture to him and he also posted his to me. We talked on...

Is having phone sex normal? Maybe I should look for a better intimate and more meaningful relationship with somebody who lives closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 September 2007 (?) - ok so me and my bf are in a long distance relationship and i dont know if its normal to have phone sex? im not too much of a sexually experianced girl i have only had 2 sexual partners in the past...and im 18 but now i am having an urge to have a ...

He's pulled away! Should I give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I met a great guy online three months ago. First two months were total bliss and we got close very fast. The last month he has pulled away. He still calls me but it's once a week instead of every day. What do I do? We aren't close like we wer...

My fiance says his active dating profiles are fake, but I think otherwise! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hello there.. i am very tensed and confused. i love one guy and i felt he loves me too well i can say sometimes that he loves me. i just found out his profile in dating sites and talking to other womans for hot chat. i found his pictures n told him ...

My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...

In a long distance relationship... But after doing some research, I think this girl may not be who she says she is. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 months now and I feel like I'm in love with this girl but after searching her phone number on google to try and find her myspace (She said she's forgotten the email/got hacked and she told me ...

He sent her a picture of his penis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - There's this site that should be left un-named where you can sell items and a whole bunch of other things are on this site including a personals section.... well I was looking through my boyfriends email box earlier since he's always doing it to me ...

What is he thinking? He says he's impressed with my maturity and enjoys our conversations.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - What is he thinking? Please analyze this with me and offer your opinions and suggestions. Thank you! I met a man who is ten years older than me (I am 25 years old) on an internet network about four months ago. We have been exchanging email...

I said it would be best to go our seperate ways. Should I assume no response to what I said IS his response?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - Well, i have sort of been talking to this guy for about a year and a half now. we met online on myspace. we have "chatted" ever since. I have met him in person about 7 times. He lives about an hour away from me. I have liked him since the very first ...

Please help me I dunno what to do and whom to believe......

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

14 September 2007 (?) - I'm 18 and living in California. I met my boyfriend 19 years of age online and also through mutual friends.. he lives in Florida which is 23,000 miles away and still I have not yet met him in person... when we first started talking on the phone his ...

My online guy wants to travel to meet me, but I'm not sure about him. Should I allow him to visit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Hallow, m a 27 years old female, got this guy thru a certain website and we are dating online, chat frequenlty, he gave me his mobile number and sometimes calls me and send me text messages,it has been a month now since i have known him, he seems to ...

Should I give him a few more days, or move on with my life. How long should I give him to sort things through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I met a great guy on the internet. We talked for about 6 weeks. We ended up sleeping together. He gave me a kiss and told me to call him. I did but he didn't answer, then he called me the next day and I didn't answer. We played phone tag a couple ...

Am I an idiot for thinking his excuse is plausible? Online dating searches "just for the laugh" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I desperately need some advice about my husband. We've been married for almost two years. About 18 months ago I found out that he had registered on an internet dating site, understandably I was furious. He had given detailed descriptions of t...

He says I make a huge deal about me not wanting him to have friends. I say he receives flirtatious texts from "friends."

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - 15 months ago I found the love of my life in a chatroom...or so I thought...He lives 250 miles away...and he came to see me several times... Everything was perfect....sensitive...caring....talked every morning on the phone and every night...Chatted ...

My bf is still active on the dating site we met on. How do we talk, what should I not say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I have an online dating question: I have been dating a man now for 6 months that we met on a online dating service. We have got along very well from the very beginning. After two months of dating twice a week and talking on the phone ever...

A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he ...

What do men think about a women asking them out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I am 36, female and single. I got chatting to this great guy who's single and 38, i felt that he liked me. I then asked him out on a date and he said Yes. What do men think about a women asking them out? ...

How can he go from declaring his undying love to not even returning a phone call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - What should I think? I never really understood men.... I have had my ex text and call me for the past few months. Chatting about what was and what could be. We decided it was hard to make any plans without meeting up to see how we felt. S...

He hid from me that he was married, should I now write to his wife and tell her? We met online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I have a huge dilemma. I have had an online relationship/frienship with a man overseas for over four years now on and off. It has been an intense relationship both sexually and emotionally over the internet. He started to call me all the time. To ...

My boyfriend is on dating sites as single and looking. Is this the same as cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm really confused whether I should sacrifice my happy relationship of a year because my boyfriend constantly joins and hides his online (local) dating sites, sex personals etc. He claims he loves me and wants to be with me, but then why would h...

Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Should I be concerned if my boyfriend messages random girls on the internet?...

I've been chatting with a much older woman via a dating site. Should we meet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hello, I'm a 17 year old guy and have been chatting with a 41 year old woman via a dating site for a month or 2... We have recently swapped mobile numbers and we have started chatting regularly on MSN about causal day to day things... I reall...

Do I meet the Internet guy or stay in an unhappy relationship for the sake of my son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hi, oh god, i'm in a bad situation here. I'm 23. I have a 4 month old son, and a partner of 2 years. We live together. I have been chatting to someone else online for about 12 months now. This other guy wants to meet me. I like him alot, he wants me...

We split. He seems only interested in the internet. How do I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - My ex told me he prefered spending time on his computer than with me. I suggested we break up but it was clearly his choice. I don't think he knew how to tell me. He is not good with people skills. He said we can be friends, but he has almost no ...

How do I get my girlfriend to tell her mum about our online relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - hi i need some advice i have been seeing this girl online for 2 months now and we are planning to meet eachother soon the only problem is that she cant come and see me just yet because her mam hasnt met me yet(she doesnt even know her daughter(17)is ...

Could he be a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I met this guy online... not on a dating site but on nexopia. He's cute, sweet, and funny (not to mention he has an AMAZING body). He makes me feel great about myself for the first time in a while. I was snooping his page looking at his frie...

I met a guy on line. He called loads and we met up but now I haven't heard from him. Should I try and call him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I met a guy online - -he kept emailing me, I replied then he asked me to call, I said I prefer to be called he called and texct me, we met then he test me and called me everyday. Then he just stopped I calle dhim and he is yet to respond....I really ...

My online friend lives in another country, we hardly know eachother, and he wants to marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I've seen a man only 4 times... He had texted me, really,we were skyping lots of time... but never asked about any serious question about me or anything! I fell completely in love with him, was love on first sight, somehow. Now he came with idea, ...

Can my mother forbid me to see my older boyfriend, whom I met on msn?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Hey, 6 months ago i met my boyfriend through msn and have been together 4 months now, 2 days ago he moved down to be with me. We love each other but i was wondering if my mum can stop me seeing him? im 16 and hes 27. Please give me good advice x...

Unhappily married for several years, and every time I see this other man by accident, I fall in love with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have been unhappily married for several years and find I am unable to break free from the relationship due to kids and finance. However, not long after I got married, I met a man I fell for but didn't act on it because I was already married. O...

Should I just let things progress naturally??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6077 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I am hopelessly crushing on this girl V who I "met" on the internet through an online writing/art community. We bonded through our common interests and really hit it off, and she's the only person I've wanted for the past year now. I know she ...

My blind date invited me to his house for coffee, then became aggressive and said he wanted to have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Ok, a little back story to start everything off...I went out on this blind date last saturday. Ok, I agreed solely because im fairly open to try anything once. I sincerely believe that you should never knock something til you try it. Anyway, we met ...

I like him but hes going into rehab...what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

2 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need some advice regarding a guy I met on a dating site. We have had 3 dates, and in the past week he has been quite distant - and I found out why tonight (on our third date - a DVD at his place). Basically, he has to go into resident...

I'm a married woman, I like chatting to the net guy, but the conversation always turns sexual! I'm afraid of running into him sometime in reality...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

1 September 2007 (?) - Oh man, what have I done? Someone please knock some sense into my head! I am a married woman, my husband is away at the moment, and my hormones are getting the better of me. I met a guy online who knows I am married. At first he was cool and was ...