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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

Webcam Incident - scared,afraid,paranoid. help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hello people, i was faced with two seperate incidents that happen over a year ago, close to two. Basically, i webcam-ed in msn with strangers from a chatroom. And you guessed it, i "over-exposed" myself during the short webcam session. Worst of all, ...

Married man or emotionaly unavailable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I had been seeing a man for over a year, then he broke it off stating he was not ready for a long-term commitment. After 8 months with no contact, we recently reconciled. I suspect he may be married and have tried to ask questions to determine his ...

This boy is so shy, so did his Uncle lie to get this boy and I talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I know this boy, he is around my age. His Uncle is good friends with my mother and he told me that this boy likes me which sparked an interest in me. After some time I too became to like him, but the problem is this boy (After getting to know him ...

Is texting other men and women while in a relationship acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I was married for 17 years and have been divorced for 6 years. I've dated off and on in those 6 years. it seems that people think it's ok to text other girls and men while being in a relationship. I don't think that is acceptable. my ex-husband and ...

Is dating online safe for a teen girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I am a 14 year old girl and want to date online but is it unsafe to date online please help...

How do I get him to that point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Ok, this is totally weird, I never thought I would have to ask a website about this. I just need someone to help me figure this out. So, I met this guy about a year ago online, (something I never do) and we had started talking and nothing really c...

Convenient FWB? Or a relationship in progress? I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - About 7 months ago i met this guy online (lives out of town) he came out we had a nice time and ended up sleeping together. He then returned two weeks later but I didn't feel it, and told him i didn't see things progressing. We decided to be FWB as ...

My BF is obsessed with sexting me and I think it's inappropriate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost three months. I love him and he loves me. Very much. Our parents refuse to let us date, so we date through text messages, late at night, when we are alone. He likes to virtually "do" me while talking. He ...

32 and I don't know how to approach women successfully

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Hi there. I’m 32 and still trying to get the hang of this dating thing before I lose the will to live. Im really trying to put pressure on myself to find a girlfriend as the gaps between partners in my life has been just too big meaning I’ve had ...

I've managed to find nobody.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - OK, I'm really, really struggling now, and I don't know who I can turn to. Basically I just want honest answers, which my friends and family in real life don't seem to wish to give. Anyway, I'm almost 29. I will be 30 in a little over a ye...

I have an online friend that I confide in rather than my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone .. Please help me think.... Ok...I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We love each other. We like doing things together and spend 24 hours a day together coz we have the same Job and work at the same place and same ...

If my Mum found out she would go mad at my flirty texting sister.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I really need help really really fast. okay my sister is texting this guy on facebook and they hardly know each other. he's way too young for her and she's way too old! She flirts with everyone guy. I'm so ashamed of her. If mum found out she woul...

I want her to try for us, but not because she feels sorry for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I met my soul mate my love on the internet bleive it or not we clicked right away she has three beautiful great kids i love them as much as lets call my girlfriend teena well she was honest from the beginning first argument was pretty dumb but i did ...

I have a suspicion he's being devious. How can I trust him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date ...

Was I being played, with the last few weeks the end game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - It all started 1 year ago on a site, met the girl of my dreams (personality wise to me she was the yin to my yang) but she just came out of a bad relationship so we taking it slow making sure she gets to know me better and likes what she see's. ...

Did I cross the line by posing as someone else and chatting to him online to trap him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi, Am I in the wrong? and did I ask too much from him? Right Id had been dating this guy for a couple of months and thought it wasn't working out (We had meet on match.com) We would go to his and watch the football or racing and stu...

I just need a second opinion because my thoughts are not always rational

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Right, I feel like a sleaze and know I am one... So please don't act as though I don't know... To start at the beginning, I had a boyfriend. I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted".I was heartbroken....

I want my wife to flirt online with others because it turns me on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - My wife are a late 30s attractive christian couple with a pretty good sex life. One of my turn ons is when I see other men flirt with her. I ask her if she felt they were attractive, if she would "do them" in a pefect world, etc. When she admits ...

Can any of you ladies expain to me where I'm going wrong with women??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Hi there Can any of you ladies expain to me where I'm going wrong with women. I'm 32 and find it hard to meet girls, and when I do, I keep failing. Most of my friends are settling down now so my only choice seems to be online dating. I'm geti...

Online dating..should I go for it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - So i had broke up with my girlfriend because of many differences that would only keep pushing us apart. I am very shy and do not meet knew people easily so I made an account on eharmoney.Now that i think about it it may have been a premature and ...

Could he be talking to girls on this "worldfriends" site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - My 34yo boyfriend is on a site called "Worldfriends" almost everyday, and I'm concerned. We met online and his last girlfriend is also from online, and he has dated more girls from the internet in the past. This site says "meet your neighbors i...

I'm still in love with her, is this because she dumped me or do I just need more time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Hi my queston is if is a good idea to send her a marry christmas sms or email? or for new year wishes? or for her birthday, which she have it in the end of january. which it will be a month that we broke up and maybe is better then to show her frie...

I've only just come to realize what my long-distance friend means to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - hey, I have met a girl through the internet 8 years ago, and we always felt a connection but the problem is we completly live from each others. I live in Belgium and she lives all the way in the USA. we have neglected our feelings for one ano...

On facebook we talk all the time, at school, he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - heey, once again.... ive got a problem with the same guy i had a ''fake crush'' for hah xD, this time its even worsexD...., so...we talk like EVERY SINGLE DAY on facebook, he always ..aalways starts the conversations n we have sooo much in common n ...

Should I meet him half way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I'm new to online dating, but I met a guy, we started talking, and decided to meet in person for coffee. He suggested a place, I agreed to it. I looked up the directions, it's about a 50 minute drive for me and 5 minutes for him lol. It's by his ...

Should I send him my picture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I recently made contact with a guy that i have liked for a while, and he has said that he wants me to send a picture of myself to him. He hasn't said whether he means a rude one or a regular picture, so i'm assuming he means ...

Is it too soon for me to get feelings for a guy I met on FB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I met someone on fb but I already knew him from when we was younger. We talk everyday he tells me just about everything. I really like him. I believe I'm starting to catch feelings for him. Do you think it's to early for me to start catch feelings?...

Is he simply playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - There's this guy I started developing feelings for were both the same age 19, I'll be 20 in a few weeks. We met in this internet-chat thing about 5 years ago. But we talked for a few months then stopped. He found me again on Facebook, I added him. ...

Am I just his backup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I am a mid-20 year old guy who has never been in a real relationship (kissing, etc,) with either a girl or a guy... however, I have been aware over the past several years that I am primarily attracted to men. Over the past...

Does it sound all healthy to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm having some kind of "open relationship" with this guy and I'm not experienced in dating and relationships at all. I'd like to know if this sounds healthy. I met this guy online 11 months ago, met in person 10 months ago, he proposed a relat...

What should I do? I could give up on it but I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - So I joined an online dating site. I guy messaged me and we have been chatting since then. Probably on average of 4 times a week if not more. I didn't see his picture before we started chatting on Skype. We decided to meet after about 2 weeks. The ...

I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The ...

Tricky situation between a shy girl and a shy guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Its been 3 months since my last relationship ended, that itself lasted for about 7-8 months and has been my longest to date. Since then i have been talking online a lot too a girl who i've known in real life for over a year. We've been talking a l...

Advice on internet dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

14 December 2010 (M) - Hi 32 yr old guy here. Not having much luck on Internet dating so it would be really great if any of you girls could give me an honest feedback on my profile as I’m not getting many replies Here’s how it reads Just a normal guy! Easy going,...

Miles apart, could we really meet someday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I'm currently in an online relationship with a guy.He's from Canada,while I'm from Malaysia.I know,it really is far right?He's 17.Next year,he'll be going to college. We've been together for about 6 months now.We actually ...

Online dating -- did he change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hello I met a guy online on a dating site. He said he likes my presentation and profile a lot so we started to talk. The first day we talked for around 2hours and 20 min and he said some times that he likes me. He next day we talked again and...

Should I confess to my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I met this really great guy online several months ago. He recently had back surgery, and during his recovery we have become closer friends. We text and phone every day. He is still recovering from the surgery. We see each other approximately every ...

How do I fight being too shy for cybersex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi. I've had an online girlfriend for about three months, and we've been talking lots, and recently she made it clear she wants to move forward to cybersex. But we're both criminally shy, and when we tried I just kept talking about sandwiches, ...

What do I make of this online-turned-real life boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hey, this is my second time asking for help with guy problems haha, I guess I just don't have any luck. Well I met this guy online and totally clicked with him. He lives not that far from me, a couple of train rides away. Early on in the chatting ...

Don't feel attracted after 2 dates with internet dating site girl...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi, i am hoping for advice as i met a girl on a dating site and we exchanged flirty texts before going on 2 dates. The first went well but she looked different as she was larger than her profile pictures showed, i decided to ignore that and took her ...

Why has my online dating friend gone quiet on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone I joined a dating website plenty of fish, started talking 2 this guy 3 months back really nice person got on really well,(but have never met) Anyway yes all those 3 months we have spoken or at least text on the phone every day, wel...

Why all the fighting over Facebook??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be fri...

She says it's not me but it feels like it is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Hey people so I have a question and need help me and my girl have been dating for about 8 months we met over the Internet. Everything was fine of course we argued a little but recently she's been acting distant grouchy mad at me she says it's not me ...

Paranoid about naked photos I sent of myself

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - I sent naked photos of myself over the Internet to someone I chat to. I know this was really really stupid but the guy is really genuine and he did the same etc. He lives in America (thank God) and I'm in the UK and he doesn't have any other info on ...

I wasn't who he thought I was... haven't heard from him in 5 days, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hey... so I did a very bad thing.. I lied to this guy over the internet about my appearance (not by choice) I just got caught up in something that I never should have been. soo.. yea it was this one dating site called Tagged.. anywayz at first I ...

Am I being taken for a fool by my online girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - Ok so I've been dating this girl for 5 months online (met at a concert) but we're starting to have trouble like Im deciding i don't want to take all her crap anymore. She says her computer has a virus and can't use browsers (Im sure yoy can) so she ...

If he is genuinely interested in me, then why doesn't he ever call me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy online and have been talking to him for about 4 months now. We've gone on 1 date a few days ago, and it went pretty well: met up for a casual dinner. Then he pleaded with me to come back to my place which I agreed, and we made out ...

In love with a foreign internet guy! Please help, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hey, My problem will seem somewhat ignorant I guess. but i also guess i'm hoping that someone will not think i'm crazy im not sure. To start i've been talking to a wonderful guy on the internet. ive seen him on camera he talks about his family...

Do online dating sites really work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hey guys my question is: Does relationship sites works? I am a girl and I decided to try find someone in a relationship site. After applying a lot of guys have showed up,I was talking with a guy and I liked him,after one week he asked me to hang out...