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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Guy seems all into me till I tell him I like him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I told a guy friend i had feelings for him twice in a few months. The 1st time he said he was sick of relationships, he's been sleeping in my bed, and we have done things together and cuddled etc. The 1st time i told him he was distant for a few ...

I wanna be with him so bad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - theres a boy i like, for four years i've liked him and he knows.. he's really close with my brother cause they're friends, and my mom knows him.. he's cool with everyone. well, he's three years older than me and my mom said its fine if i date him.. ...

Should I just leave be or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Just some advice, I was friends with this girl really really close friends for a year in college and then we sort of lost touch because she stayed back a year in college and i went ahead so she made new friends etc and we drifted apart. As far am i ...

I like him but we go to different schools. Can this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I am on my sister's account, didn't wanna set one up. I am 13 years and I think I am in love with this boy he's 14. We have been going out on and off since March of last year and honestly I liked him when I 1st saw him. This year we are going to ...

Help! Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - the man i am interested in today i talk to him a little . we mostly do not have time to talk .but today was different . i ask him how christmas was an he said ok . then he told me he used to live in the same town i lived in . the only thing i did ...

Help! How do I tell him I've changed my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy and he likes me too! He said to me last night "do you wanna go out with me?" and I said "well we don't know each Other very well" But now I really want him to go out with me! I've been thinking of him all night! Like what our ...

Stuck between two guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I was recently in a love with a guy but unfortunatly that guy loves me too but he stopped talking to me suddenly for few days, in between those days I was all broken up, hurt by my first friend, now the situation is such tht Im attached to his ...

Lost friends and losing more for something I didn't do... Help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid Me and my best friend go to the same school. At the start of 2010 we became really good friends with this other girl in our school and she introduced us to this guys from another school and then these girls from another school. Let...

How do I get all this crap to stop???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - hi, i just need an opinion here ok in september of last year i started college or tec. i made a good group of friends but one particular friend of mine she has a guy best friend who; btw only knew me for a day and showed an interest in me (wh...

Age over reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - My situation is a bit complicated(everyone's is... i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about little over a year now. He's a good person and i like him very much but among other issues (albeit minor, perhaps) there's an 11 year age ...

How can I start a convo off to get reaquainted with my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - i want to get to know more people who i am friends with on facebook and get to see what my old class mates are doing these days and to chat to people at my college who i see every day but i don't want to sound pushy or desperate and i don't want to ...

He thought I cheated on him but I didn't! Now he's broken up with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - me and my ex-boyfriend started going out on april 6, 2010. on august 23 i was walking with 4 of my girlfriends and 4 guy friends. we were all crossing the street and of course the light was red. while we were crossing the street one of my guy ...

Friends with benefits... I thought I meant more to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - So it's probably best that I start from the beginning. In college in Oct 2010 I started talking to this guy and over the next month we became really close. We used to text each other 24/7 and went out in the night. It gradually developed into a ...

My venting caused him to want to break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - okay so my boyfriend does things that hurt my feelings a lot and sometimes i just need to vent. well he joined in an xbox live party today to hear me venting and now he is very mad at me saying i was "talking shit" and now he wants to break up with ...

My friend slept with another while I was away and now I feel I can't trust him any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - A guy friend of mine has been flirting with me for months, always telling me that I'm beautiful and special and how much he likes me. We aren't "together" but I thought it was understood that we liked each other and it was developing. But I just ...

After reading the messages I don't trust him at all!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - ok so i had one of my friends message my boyfriend on myspace to mess with him to see if he would cheat or anything cause i really wanted to know. so she sent him a message and said hey you seem pretty cool and i wanna get to know you better. my ...

What do girls look for when they seek friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - hey, i'm a guy and not all that comfortable around girls. What i'm really trying to do right now is to just get a bunch of girls as friends. I'm kinda a shy guy and I'm just wondering what I can do to become friends with alot of girls/ know what you ...

Why hasn't he had a girlfriend yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who I've liked as more than a friend for years now, but he always seems so unavailable. I've talked about him with other girls he know as well, and everyone thinks he's such a great guy. However he remains single! We were all ...

I waited for her to be ready for a relationship, but in the meantime she had unprotected sex with another guy and might be pregnant !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a 23 year old guy from the UK and I've just had the worst couple of days of my life. I haven't slept, I can't eat and all I can think about are the awful things that I found out the other day and that are still unfolding. As ever this is...

Is it ok to hold a grudge for that long?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Alright, this girl i knew a 3 years ago is trying to get in contact with me. She use to be my bestfriend till one day i found out she had sex with my boyfriend at the time when the 3 of us were hanging out at another friends house. Even though i ...

How can I make friends with benefits more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I have this on and off again sexual relationship with a guy who recently became my friend on Facebook. His actions are really confusing. Sometimes he shows he wants to see me again and then doesn't follow through. When we are around each other ...

Despite our different domestic situations, what is he revealing on his thoughts about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - We are adults. We are not friends. But we share a nice friendly relationship since a year. We are friends on a social networking site too. And I have noticed that of late he visits it daily even when he doesn't do anything there. I really like ...

He told me from the start he didn't want a relationship, but now I have feelings for him. Should I break-up to just be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - there is this guy i have been good friends with for ages. He just moved back to his home town, where i am. We started hooking up. He has told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and I didn't want one either. Now I have developed ...

Are guys losing respect for girls today than in the past?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I know the guy I am with does not act like this what so ever, but is it just me, or am I getting the feeling that now a days, men expect girls to bend over and give themselves to them? Are guys really loosing respect for females now a days? ...

I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop bu...

I'm caught in her sex web!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - there is this girl who has been my best friend for many years, and during the course of our friendhip I have confided in her many things I have never told to anyone; such as fears, weaknesses, and my fetishes. I love her very much but as my friend ...